Lets take religion out of the equation for a minute. I am not a religious person but......Hi, we are a married couple who have been talking about a fantasy we both share of which my wife either has sex with another man and I watch or join making it a 3some. I really want to see her with a BBC, a whole other fantasy of mine!!! We are not sure if this will transpire or not, as the last hurdle is one of morality. We both have Christian beliefs, however I'm in no way as religious as she is nor her fathers side of the family. My wife is reluctant as she just feels that it is immoral for her to have sex with anyone other than me as she is my wife, and feels it is immoral for me to desire sharing her with another man. I just don't know how to say what I feel which is we are both adults, married, and therefore we should be able to discuss and do whatever we both agree to, not matter what others may think. To be honest, I'm not 100% sure what the whole "morals" are. I feel each person has their own set of morals. Is this wrong? Are morals based more in religious beliefs or teachings? Is there a Christian moral code? I feel our personal married life is only our business, not others, unless we choose to invite them into it. I guess what we are looking for is advice or insight on what others have done, if they had to overcome a morality issue on either partners part. My wife is in no way a prude, however she has only been sexual with 4 men, 2 high school boyfriends, her first husband, and now me. We want to thank you in advance for any input or advice.
Pretty well said except he starts by saying remove religion from the equation...then talks about nothing else!Lets take religion out of the equation for a minute. I am not a religious person but......
Would she (and you) be able to look in the mirror the next day with no regrets and not affect you/her/both as a couple in a negative way? You can add in what God wants or doesnt want. God supposedly forgives all - so if three consenting adults are on the same page and nobody is being hurt - It may not be "God-like", but again nobody is being hurt.
Does she have a problem with the morality fantasizing about it? If that is a hurdle of itself then the reality of actually doing it may cause issues and not be worth it.
As you mentioned every person has their own code. Its an individual thing. Some couples on here (if not fake) do it on the regular and have no issues. Happy as can be (again if real).
The issue is that you BETTER know the outcome of actually doing it before you do it. I realize that is a tough call and can not be 100%, but you dont want to ruin your marriage for one night of fun. It is much better to remain a fantasy then if that is even a possibility.
I said take religion out of the equation for a minute............which I did. Then went back to it because it is apparently a hurdle for them.Pretty well said except he starts by saying remove religion from the equation...then talks about nothing else!
But 6 loads a week...you gotta LOVE it! (And no doubt, they love what you do).
ForMy husband has no clue I’m addicted to cum. He knows I like to swallow and have it on my face but no clue how often I suck of strangers.
For a long time I had trouble actually cumming in a woman’s mouth. My wife reluctantly gave head, and recoiled at the signs of me cumming, which of course lessened my enjoyment even more.Ya. I’m addicted to it. I can’t stop. I don’t want to. I have 4 guys that rotate weekly. They are all married and don’t get blowjoba so are very excited. I average 6 loads a week including my husbands.
You are super sexy Julie. Love to lick your face clean before you go home to your husband 😋My husband has no clue I’m addicted to cum. He knows I like to swallow and have it on my face but no clue how often I suck of strangers.
Personally I do nit think you are doing anything wrong either. You want pleased and I would love to help you if you would reply to my text pleaseI love it and don’t thick I’m doing anything wrong.
That’s because you are NOT doing anything wrong. Now I need you to not do anything wrong with me. lolI love it and don’t thick I’m doing anything wrong.