When my wife began seeing her lover last July, one of the things we discussed and agreed we should do is never have a lover over to our house. We want to maintain boundaries between our vanilla married life and that which is not so vanilla about us. Instead she would meet him at hotels. For a while she would meet at his place, but has since even stopped doing that, preferring to see him at hotel rooms.
But, we have decided to get an apartment. It is a little two bedroom, two bath place. Their room will be the master bedroom and I will get the small spare bedroom. It is an upstairs place. This way we can have a place where either she could meet him alone at, or the three of us can hang out together.
We are pretty excited about this. This will change the dynamic of things and the possibilities are endless now.
But, we have decided to get an apartment. It is a little two bedroom, two bath place. Their room will be the master bedroom and I will get the small spare bedroom. It is an upstairs place. This way we can have a place where either she could meet him alone at, or the three of us can hang out together.
We are pretty excited about this. This will change the dynamic of things and the possibilities are endless now.