New, interested and wanting to learn more about wife sharing

Hi. I’m new to all this. Have stumbled across my own interest in Hotwife LS. I just found myself always watching Hotwife videos I have not yet delved into it as of yet. I also find vandalism as an incredible turn on to me. Do all the guys here have partners that know they are being exposed? I guess I am wondering if there are any folks here who hold these desires of sharing and exposing their partner but have not gone about finding a way to bring it up to my girl Any advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks