New member saying 'hi'

I've been a member for a short time but kept quiet, just to get the lay of the land. My wife went off sex some time back but we are still best friends. Thank god for the Internet. I've always had an interest in porn, good for a quick jerk, but it's not real. The past couple of years I've developed internet relationships with females ranging from my age (60) to 'far too young'. I didn't expect any of them to last, being virtual but some have. A couple remain sexual in nature, the others have become more friendships - open but no mutual masturbation etc.
What interests me about his site is that the people are all real and supportive. My wife wouldn't want to be shared and she wouldn't want me sharing my attentions, so I guess I remain in the virtual world. I'm not complaining but I need something more, and it's probably sexual. I enjoyed a brief online relationship with a girl that would do anything I asked of her. A true sub. It was good, so I definitely would look for similar again.
I'll continue to read the forums here. Its stimulating and real and who knows, perhaps develop friendships.
Oh, since it's introductions I'm male, straight, non-judgmental, open-minded, optimist, live in New Zealand but originally from Scotland, happily married, two kids both have their own families.
I'd be glad to hear from anyone in similar circumstances, how they cope, challenges and how they overcame them.
 
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