First off....Is fucking other men something
YOU want to do? My better half and I have been in the "lifestyle" for 20 years and I can tell you most assuredly (because we've seen it many times) that if your not on board
completely with this....
it's better that you don't do it. Your husband may be a bit disappointed and may even pout a little, but better he pout and be disappointed than ruin your marriage. You need to be totally secure in your marriage, totally trust each other, and more in love with each other than you were when you first got married.
That being said....My wife and I first approached inviting someone else into our sex life as "hot talk" during and after sex. Once we decided to make our fantasy talk a reality we approached it as something we could share together. An erotic experience that we both made the decision about and wanted. It has worked out great for us. We enjoy a sex life that most people only fantasize about. We took our time, did a lot of research, chatted to people who had experience in wife sharing/cuckolding (although I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be classified as a cuckold), found a good web site that allowed us to make contact with people in out area, and made it happen. We haven't regretted it since !
Be patient. Our first attempt wasn't successful. When the gentleman arrived she ran off to the bathroom and hid. LOL.....I didn't get upset or aggravated, I just explained to the gentleman that it wasn't going to happen and thanked him for his interest. Our second attempt was a complete success. I made contact with a gentleman and chatted with him over several days. Then we moved to a couple of phone calls (in which my better half talked to him too). Next we set a time and place to meet. We met, had drinks, talked, and she (not me) suggested we retire to out room. The rest was one of the most erotic experiences we have ever had. The next day she told me if she had known it was that much fun she would have did it "years ago". LOL
Anyway....Hope I haven't preached too much. Please feel free to PM me and ask any question you might have. Best of luck !!!!