Hi all, my wife has expressed interest in threesomes but had a really bad swinging experience with a crappy ex and that’s made her nervous around the subject of other people. She knows I talk about kink with online kinky friends. I’d like her to get to know some lifestyle people and see that they are not weirdos, but she has said she won’t go to a sex party, for example.
Can anyone recommend any less-scary, less-threatening — but still sexy — (probably online) activities we can try, so she can feel in control of the experience and experiment with what she likes in a safe space? Was there something that helped your partner get more comfortable? She likes both men and women.
Thanks in advance.
Can anyone recommend any less-scary, less-threatening — but still sexy — (probably online) activities we can try, so she can feel in control of the experience and experiment with what she likes in a safe space? Was there something that helped your partner get more comfortable? She likes both men and women.
Thanks in advance.