Not sure but I think she’s cheated before…

While this isn't broad-brush stroke, universally true, in my experience, once a cheater, always a cheater.

I'm of the opinion in this case that if she's willing to give into lust and desire, and take the risk of cheating, she's likely more inclined, at least to consider, doing the hot wife thing.

This has been my experience with my own wife, KK, as well as women I've carried on affairs with. In KK's case, she's never been happily monogamous, even from the time we were just dating. Before we transitioned to the hot wife thing, she was a cheater - dozens of men have had her mouth, pussy, and ass in that context. Now, even though she has "permission," KK still cheats. It's a power thing, her "little secret." I find it extraordinarily erotic and hot.
That’s what my sister told me whenever we had our first hiccup years ago. She said I wouldn’t get with someone who could cheat on their ex because they could do that to you. Once a cheater always a cheater. Not always true though like you said.

And i 100% agree with that too. If she’s cheating or cheated, then she’s definitely game but then I’m worried about her wanting to go out and explore on her own. I want her to be open about it and experience it with me. I want to be able to have fun with it and not her be ashamed of it. That is a very interesting aspect but I feel as if I want it to be something we do together. It does sound hot but I’d hate to never get to hear about it or her keep it a secret and never share
 
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Oh yeah, you just made me remember the ultimate watered down story, that was part of the reason I probably got interested in sharing... Before we got married my now wife and I broke up for a few months. It was actually because I had not proposed after 8 years of dating and she was done waiting around for me. Anyway, long story short, when we got back together, she said had gone on a couple dates. I asked if anything had happened and she admitted a guy kissed her good-night when he dropped her off. I felt like that had to be total bullshit but she assured me that was all that happened.

Four years later, while at a bar, I can't even remember how it came up but she revealed that she'd not only had sex with the guy but dated him right up until the point I proposed to her and was fucked repeatedly. After I proposed she immediately went and dumped him lol... I didn't hear any of this until years after the fact.
Holy fuck hahah that’s the shit I’m talking about right there. Similar to your story, my wife and I have taken a break as well before we got married and she claims nothing happened like not even something as small as texting someone else. I highly doubt that.
I also had a friend to though the same thing too, his girlfriend is friends with my wife. He has no idea but she’s been with 3 dudes in the few weeks they took a break.
I wonder if I can ever get my wife to come clean about her past. Hopefully lol
 
He has no idea but she’s been with 3 dudes in the few weeks they took a break.
I wonder if I can ever get my wife to come clean about her past. Hopefully lol
Did you find out what the friend's girlfriend did from your wife? If so, kind of wonder if it's an attempt to normalize the ideal of breakup sex or potentially have it as a "well so and so fucked 3 guys in a few weeks, I only fucked 2 guys over a longer period."
 
Did you find out what the friend's girlfriend did from your wife? If so, kind of wonder if it's an attempt to normalize the ideal of breakup sex or potentially have it as a "well so and so fucked 3 guys in a few weeks, I only fucked 2 guys over a longer period."
yes and honestly that’s pretty smart. I didn’t think of that. It couldve very well been a reason
 
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Once again, little introduction,
I’m super new to all of this (check my other introduction post). I think my wife (girlfriend at the time) has cheated on me before. Once When she was in high school after I had already graduated and once in college. I heard a rumor from unreliable sources but for the most part I never believed any of them so I decided to move on. Since then, I’ve thought about it so more, assuming that she did cheat on me before we were married…does that mean I have a better chance of telling her about my fantasy or no? It really pissed me off at the time but now I think it gives me hope.

Since sharing stories with other guys (both cucks and studs alike) on here I’ve discussed some stuff in the past that my wife (girlfriend at the time) has done to me like innocent flirting or whatnot, we were young and not married so I left it at that. On top of that I’ve heard some rumors about her while we dated from some guys that I just assumed wanted me to break up with her so they could have a shot at her. The rumor I remember vividly was a “friend” telling me that she passed out at a party and fell asleep with another guy in the same bed and he was certain they had been fooling around or worse case scenario, they fucked. She denied it and told me she was already asleep and no one was in the bed and it wasn’t her fault that someone came in a laid in bed with her. Looking back, I think I was cucked at this point. It pissed me off back then but I believed her. Now? I would’ve been so turned on to hear a rumor about my wife like that.
Some guys are pointing out to me that there’s no way she hasn’t experienced or messed around being my back while we dated. A lot of ppl said the same thing, they said just judging her by her body alone, she’s probably cheated on me a lot. Idk how much truth may be in that but I’m hoping they’re not wrong.
She was a bit rowdier then so I’m now convinced that I’ve always been somewhat of cuck haha I used to get mad and jealous but secretly I liked it. Even when she would tell me stories of her sexual past before we got together I would get jealous but turned on more than anything. I guess I’ve always been into it but never knew. All that’s left for me to do is try and somehow explain all this to my wife.
if you want to ask me anything feel free to go ahead or dm me, I’ll answer anything or if you want to hear about our stories I’ll tell you those too. It turns me on talking about it. So why not?

Some older pics of her and one of us.
Hopefully she had been cheating on you all along..
 
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It’s kinda sad but yet hot. It’s a shame but women are so much better at lying and hiding then men. Life experience has taught me that if your gut questions your wifes fidelity, there is a reason behind it. Of course some men are just suspicious and paranoid and maybe there are women that say no. But my experience is that there is always a man that hits on women regardless of their looks or figure. Some men are looking for a wet hole and if they are handsome or built many women will discreetly give in. And you as the husband might never ever know !
 
It’s kinda sad but yet hot. It’s a shame but women are so much better at lying and hiding then men. Life experience has taught me that if your gut questions your wifes fidelity, there is a reason behind it. Of course some men are just suspicious and paranoid and maybe there are women that say no. But my experience is that there is always a man that hits on women regardless of their looks or figure. Some men are looking for a wet hole and if they are handsome or built many women will discreetly give in. And you as the husband might never ever know !
Interesting point…
I 100% agree with you
 
Once again, little introduction,
I’m super new to all of this (check my other introduction post). I think my wife (girlfriend at the time) has cheated on me before. Once When she was in high school after I had already graduated and once in college. I heard a rumor from unreliable sources but for the most part I never believed any of them so I decided to move on. Since then, I’ve thought about it so more, assuming that she did cheat on me before we were married…does that mean I have a better chance of telling her about my fantasy or no? It really pissed me off at the time but now I think it gives me hope.

Since sharing stories with other guys (both cucks and studs alike) on here I’ve discussed some stuff in the past that my wife (girlfriend at the time) has done to me like innocent flirting or whatnot, we were young and not married so I left it at that. On top of that I’ve heard some rumors about her while we dated from some guys that I just assumed wanted me to break up with her so they could have a shot at her. The rumor I remember vividly was a “friend” telling me that she passed out at a party and fell asleep with another guy in the same bed and he was certain they had been fooling around or worse case scenario, they fucked. She denied it and told me she was already asleep and no one was in the bed and it wasn’t her fault that someone came in a laid in bed with her. Looking back, I think I was cucked at this point. It pissed me off back then but I believed her. Now? I would’ve been so turned on to hear a rumor about my wife like that.
Some guys are pointing out to me that there’s no way she hasn’t experienced or messed around being my back while we dated. A lot of ppl said the same thing, they said just judging her by her body alone, she’s probably cheated on me a lot. Idk how much truth may be in that but I’m hoping they’re not wrong.
She was a bit rowdier then so I’m now convinced that I’ve always been somewhat of cuck haha I used to get mad and jealous but secretly I liked it. Even when she would tell me stories of her sexual past before we got together I would get jealous but turned on more than anything. I guess I’ve always been into it but never knew. All that’s left for me to do is try and somehow explain all this to my wife.
if you want to ask me anything feel free to go ahead or dm me, I’ll answer anything or if you want to hear about our stories I’ll tell you those too. It turns me on talking about it. So why not?

Some older pics of her and one of us.
You can't blame her when she has a body built for sex and making babies. Amazing thighs.
 
At a bachelorette party, if its a group of wilder women, they will tend to egg one another on and can become sort of competitive, in terms trying to show off and go further than their friends. It seems quite possible events occurred as your wife described initially.... but then she turned around and danced with the guy and let him grope her / maybe made out with him. I think sometimes chicks do stuff like that and in their head they're justifying it, thinking "it was just a joke - I was just doing it to tease him." Then you got the sanitized version of the story, which maybe was out of guilt and made her feel better to partially divulge it, or to see how you'd react / because it turned her on in some way for you to know. Also possible she was so drunk she vaguely remembers dancing with a guy but not exactly what happened. She might also want to tell you in advance, in case you somehow find out later on from one of her friends / their husbands, that she danced with a dude, you'll think you already know the context and it won't sound as bad.
I had an ex who would go complete cum slut whenever she went out with her two best friends from high school. One was a stripper at a high end club, the other an escort. They'd egg each other on with my ex usually winning by being the first of the three to take a creampie. Sometimes she would get all of them if her friends wanted to slut her out. They would even pimp her out for orgies or parties. I only say pimped because one of the friends kept the earnings they made from the men.

My ex was paid in cum
 
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