ONS or FWB? Which do you prefer for your wife?

FWB or ONS? For your wife.

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For me this was one of the milestones in our journey.

* We started by having completely discrete one night stands, we don't reveal our identity, one and gone, was the rule, or even other kinks roleplays that had a great kinky feeling to it, felt very risk free and discrete, Sara enjoyed it, but probably not to the extent when:
* she started wanting to know people more, and to get regulars, it wasn't an easy transition (specially for me), as this meant we had to build gradual trust with people, she started fucking with men in her work, we had regulars who talk to her on phone and whatsapp and know out address, etc... we were very picky, but was a complete different lifestyle.


What's your story? And preference?
 
My wife has had both, but I think we both prefer one night stand by just a bit more. Prefer as many strangers getting to fuck her as possible. Here she is with one guy that fucked her in the backseat of his car. It was only that one meeting, but he fucked her and she sucked his cock over and over. She met him at a club and he took her to the parking lot
Within about 20 minutes after they met
 

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My wife has had both, but I think we both prefer one night stand by just a bit more. Prefer as many strangers getting to fuck her as possible. Here she is with one guy that fucked her in the backseat of his car. It was only that one meeting, but he fucked her and she sucked his cock over and over. She met him at a club and he took her to the parking lot
Within about 20 minutes after they met
Love your wife, too good to be kept, I imagine she gets crazy horny.
 
Another one time stand. She was at the beach with her girlfriends and she met this guy. He couldn’t keep his hands off of her, especially with that sexy bikini she had on. She told her girlfriends she would be leaving separately. He took her to a nearby cheap hotel. She said he was a very hot kisser and had a gorgeous cock. She swallowed his cum at least twice.
 

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We start with her workmates and she was affraid with total strangers. Now it doesnt matter as long as she likes the bull. She likes to be pampered and get presents and cash even but this is not a must for her.
I completely understand.

My wife also has a senior manager who checks on her every few months and invites her to dinner when he is in our city, he knows she is a hotwife and appreciates that i drive her to and from him so she can drink enough and have fun, I even drove him once to the airport while they were reviewing some final details in yhe back-seat.
He is a good mentor of her.
 
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Another one time stand. She was at the beach with her girlfriends and she met this guy. He couldn’t keep his hands off of her, especially with that sexy bikini she had on. She told her girlfriends she would be leaving separately. He took her to a nearby cheap hotel. She said he was a very hot kisser and had a gorgeous cock. She swallowed his cum at least twice.
Lucky bastard
 
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For me this was one of the milestones in our journey.

* We started by having completely discrete one night stands, we don't reveal our identity, one and gone, was the rule, or even other kinks roleplays that had a great kinky feeling to it, felt very risk free and discrete, Sara enjoyed it, but probably not to the extent when:
* she started wanting to know people more, and to get regulars, it wasn't an easy transition (specially for me), as this meant we had to build gradual trust with people, she started fucking with men in her work, we had regulars who talk to her on phone and whatsapp and know out address, etc... we were very picky, but was a complete different lifestyle.


What's your story? And preference?
While some of my encounters have not got past the first time, I much prefer FWB or seeing the same couple again. The first time is usually a bit awkward, so you can learn more about each other in future meets and experiment. More fun to be had! 😁
 
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We like both but these are 2 completely different things. A ONS and a FWB is far more different than they are similar.

We like FWB because there is a good comfort level there. A lot of her friends with benefits are my friends, some from childhood. So there is a good sense of trust and respect between everyone. When they engage in extreme rough or kinky sex with her, whether I'm there or not I feel comfortable knowing she will be safe. There is also chemistry and consistency in this arrangement. FWB is much safer although it still comes with risk. We've had 1 or 2 bad experiences here but not nearly as bad as ONS from a safety perspective.

The downside to FWB is that it can get kind of boring from time to time. It can be spicy for a while but when it becomes routine it loses that special excitement to it.

We like ONS because it's always an adventure and hits the nerves a little more because you don't always know what you're getting into. I think the hottest experiences are when we are at bars or clubs and she hooks up with a guy in the restroom and comes back to the bar looking like a hot freshly fucked mess. There is more of an overall experience leading up to the sex when it comes to ONS which you don't really get with a FWB.

The downsides to ONS are pretty obvious. Limits get crossed far more often and things can get out of control much quicker. ONS are far less safe than FWB and my GF has had several bad ONS experiences. The sex can also be quite bad. One time my GF was grinding on a guy at the bar and when they went into the bathroom to fuck she took his dick out and within 2 seconds he came right in her hand. She never even got it into her mouth. So sometimes you put in the time for a ONS and it ends up like that and doesn't happen. But that's why it's good to have a FWB so afterwards you can just call them.