Quality of sex when wife has emotional connection with other man vs someone new?

[Stevens4fun]

After my wife once asked me how I would like to see her with another man, we decided to visit a sex club in which there was an abundance of single men.That very first visit to what became our favourite club completely changed our lives. I had to watch her lose herself with other men.

In that club, it often happened that a certain chemistry developed between her lover/bull. I regularly saw her kissing a lover, lovingly embracing a man, heard her telling him how much she had enjoyed him or telling her lover hoping to meet him again.

To be honest, that's how I knew my wife, to whom I had been married for almost 40 years. Always friendly towards other men. And always with that broad smile. Enjoying sex with other men to the fullest.

Now completely forgetting about me, enjoying herself.

So it happened that she entrusted to me that she had fallen deeply in love with one man: ‘You always told me that this could happen and that you could live with it. Now it has come to pass. What a luxury to be able to love two men at the same time. You as my everyday very beloved husband, he as the man with whom sex exceeds all imagination.’

Believe it or not, our already strong bond became even stronger because we could now talk more openly about deeper feelings and sex in the most intimate details.

Very nice. You and your wife have taken the relationship to a much higher level. How is her BF reacting? Some BFs (and hubbies) get scared at this point....

 

[Loridan]

Defiantly with a friend she feels as comfortable with him as she does me. They both know what each other likes.

Exactly
That's why our fun is exciting. We all know what to expect and look forward to getting together with our friend.

Wife an I hooked up with a stranger once, didn't go well. it was exciting for sure but VERY awkward. We met him in our hotel bar. Visiting with him in the bar was damn hot, wife was REALLY into him. We went up to his room and it started our good but he turned into a jerk telling her how he was going to fuck her like she'd never been before. Wife (or me) didn't like that so wife put her top back on and we left. HUGE buzz .......

When our friend is with us it's very relaxing. Nothing crazy happens but anything goes. It's a LOT of sex for my wife, we take turns with her. Lots of kissing, oral, sex and relaxing laying around naked. When him or I (or her) are ready for more we/they just fuck. It's fun.