Our situation is a bit different from a "typical" cuckold relationship.......J has affairs mosty with co-workers, or guys she met as a result of her career. They start out as work friendships that become flirty and eventually a sexual relationship develops, quite often as the result of travel for work together. Her Lovers do not know I am aware of her extramarital dalliances......they believe she has needs not met at home and they are meeting them.
Because these affairs take time to start, and last longer than most internet encounters, they get QUITE friendly and develop emotional attachments not generally found in online meetings. Chatting together daily discussing things they would like to try, frequent texts expressing desires and feelings, and the opportunity to travel together and get quite close emotionally as well as physically, lead to much more satisfying and sensual encounters. People that like each other first, get to know each other, and THEN become sexual are MUCH more comfortable in bed together, have a LOT more fun than someone you just met and don't know well at all. Especiallt the liars one typically meets on the net.
We tried internet meetings when she first discovered her desire for extramarital fun and my encouragement of it, and it SUCKED!! Yeah, a couple guys were fun and actually who they said they were, but most were just typical Internet Wonders who couldn't hold up their end of things when they met.
This situation worked best for us, affairs with guys she already knew well; NOTE, she tried letting a couple of them know I was aware and approved, they RAN like rabbits!! LOL VERY few guys can actually perform under that situation, has been our experience. Honestly, when we read the stories about guys watching, yelling out stupid orders and questions (a mistake I made early on), and the human dildo's can go like the energizer bunny until the husband says SWITCH OFF my winky is done..........pretty much we know those are guys fantasizing about the lifestyle.
Most of her affairs last 6 months to a year, and end friendly when their wives start asking questions about overtime or frequent business trips. Her longest affair, and the one that took the longest to happen, was with her Boss/Lover. It lasted almost 10 years (11 if you count the open-flirting) and only ended because he got WEIRD during the pandemic, It took a while for them to both admit their desire for each other, they were afraid of ruining a FANTASTIC business relationship that has been VERY rewarding for all of us, so when a night of SERIOUS drinking and making huge business decisions and lots of flirty behavior resulted in them waking up in bed together the next morning FINALLY happened....it was HOT!! They couldn't get enough of each other after that, and for the rest of the time it lasted and WOW!!! SO much better than short term quickie deals.
Highly recommend this for anyone truly into the lifestyle, but ONLY if you have a STRONG marriage.......not for the faint of heart, or rocky marriages, or people that want to brag about who they are having sex with....work relationships need to remain private and personal!!
CW
