I watch porn and wait for her update messages that usually include a short video and pics. The men will also message me updates. I'll cum multiple times during the night. If she stays over I'll barely ...... as I'm too horny waiting for her to come home so I can download and watch the full videos.
In one of the first chapters of our fantasy story, I wrote that her lover let me witness by a short open connection per phone what they were doing.
My wife LadyD reacted to me that this was a wonderful idea.
"I was imagining how I crossed borders, to show you that anything would be possible, to arouse you as never before."