A few years after my wife's friend had taken the transfer there was another friendship with another coworker that also I have wondered about:
She was to go to a conference out of town with about 10 of her coworkers, both men and women. After she returned I asked her if she had a good time. She told me that because there were so many of them, they kind of divided up to see things and explore on their free time. She ended up paired up with a guy she worked with and told me he was really nice and she had a great time being with him.
About six months passed and she was to travel to visit a company that did computer work for them. The week before she was to leave, she spent all of her time getting ready, spray tan, hair, new clothes and heels. I find out a couple of days before she is to leave, it is just her and the coworker she had ran around with on the last trip. I knew she enjoyed working with him and told me he was a lot of fun. She even called him her work husband (whatever that is). Apparently that was a common term lots of women at her work used at the time.
The day came for her to fly out and I had her call me once she got in the hotel room. during the call she told me for the first time there wasn't anything scheduled for them till the next night. I asked why did they go so early and she said he wanted time to explore the city.
The next day she called about 10PM and told me that they function that they had gone to that night was actually a party at someone from the company's house. She laughed and told me they handed her a drink at the door when she first got there and had a great time.
She calls again the next afternoon and told me they were done with all of the work stuff and that the friend had gotten tickets to the theater. I told her to call me when she got back to her room and she did about 11PM.
The next day I picked her back up at the airport. We start to leave and she said, wait I want to introduce you to my friend. We wait a few minutes for him to get off of the plane. He walks up, barely makes eye contact, a quickly hand shake and he walks on.
Here again maybe I'm making more out of this that needs to be, but again I would like to know some thoughts. I knew being away from home can be a powerful aphrodisiac and people something do things they would never do at home because they have little chance of being caught. They also worked it so they had a ton of free time to do whatever they wanted to do.
When we got home we were alone, I carried her bags into the bedroom. Immediately she was all over me and told me plainly she wanted to fuck. This was totally out of character for her. We never do it at 2 o'clock in the afternoon! She was soo horny and told me that we needed to have sex more often. Sex for the next weeks was great. I know this is a long read but everything is completely true and not embellished.
About 6 months later she had a chance to go again with the group of people to Las Vegas - and she completely refused to go (maybe guilt?) Normally she would have jumped at a chance like that.
I have wondered many times about her going on this trip with so much opportunity to do something. I would really appreciate thoughts about this to help settle my mind. I suspect she was cheating with the first coworker and maybe here she is doing it again.