She’s officially a Hotwife!!

I told Melissa that it would be nice if she brought up the topic once and a while. This was her response.

I am always open to talk about anything, but yes you may need to take the lead on this one, at least for awhile. I am also unsure how to broach the subject?

I think I know the answer, but is she telling me she wants me to lead her into this?
 
I told Melissa that it would be nice if she brought up the topic once and a while. This was her response.

I am always open to talk about anything, but yes you may need to take the lead on this one, at least for awhile. I am also unsure how to broach the subject?

I think I know the answer, but is she telling me she wants me to lead her into this?
Yes she's interested but doesn't know enough about the lifestyle to open dialogue. Perhaps five her some topic headers and explain the details. Some woman to woman conversation may help if you can get her to talk to another more experienced person.
 
Yes she's interested but doesn't know enough about the lifestyle to open dialogue. Perhaps five her some topic headers and explain the details. Some woman to woman conversation may help if you can get her to talk to another more experienced person.
Ok that’s what I thought. Just needs some guidance. I brought this forum up to her as a way to talk to other wives and she seemed receptive to it. But it got left at that. I just kind of thought it wasn’t important to her?
 
Melissa and I had a very long intimate chat this weekend and it went extremely well. I opened up to her where I’m at with this lifestyle and she did the same. We both were on the same page about what turns us on and what we would like to do.

She told me again that’s she’s just not ready to go for it just yet. But that she can now see herself getting into this and enjoying it. I explained to her what I’ve researched and how I feel it benefits a marrige and she fully agreed with me.

This weekend seemed to be a breakthrough for us. We had sex twice and it was much hotter and very intimate compared to previous. She is really starting to open herself up and let go. During foreplay last night I narrarated a Hotwife scenerio to her and she had a huge orgasm. After that she was really into it getting fucked and we had some very hot sex. She’s getting closer.
 
Mines kinda up for it, but just grosses her out the thought of others touching her, so need to work around that
She’s gonna have to get over that for sure! I’m sure she will in time. Melissa is turned on by the thought of being with another guy. Very erotic and intimate with me being with her. Her biggest hold up is loving and being comfortable with herself first. She’s actively working on that stuff every week.
 
Melissa and I had a very long intimate chat this weekend and it went extremely well. I opened up to her where I’m at with this lifestyle and she did the same. We both were on the same page about what turns us on and what we would like to do.

She told me again that’s she’s just not ready to go for it just yet. But that she can now see herself getting into this and enjoying it. I explained to her what I’ve researched and how I feel it benefits a marrige and she fully agreed with me.

This weekend seemed to be a breakthrough for us. We had sex twice and it was much hotter and very intimate compared to previous. She is really starting to open herself up and let go. During foreplay last night I narrarated a Hotwife scenerio to her and she had a huge orgasm. After that she was really into it getting fucked and we had some very hot sex. She’s getting closer.
sounds like she is coming around to the idea, the role play is working
 
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She’s gonna have to get over that for sure! I’m sure she will in time. Melissa is turned on by the thought of being with another guy. Very erotic and intimate with me being with her. Her biggest hold up is loving and being comfortable with herself first. She’s actively working on that stuff every week.
If you can find a way to put her in situations where she can be around other guys, with or without you, you just may be able to speed up the process. If just one guy expresses an interest in her, it would do wonders for her self image.
 
If you can find a way to put her in situations where she can be around other guys, with or without you, you just may be able to speed up the process. If just one guy expresses an interest in her, it would do wonders for her self image.
Yes I fully agree with that. Her getting that attention would probably get her going faster.
 
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Also forgot to mention that she was a little unsure how a threesome would work and said that she wonders if she would feel uncomfortable with me watching, both very normal feelings obviously.

So I told her how I kind of see a first then experience going. Have a threesome and when the timing is right I kind of bsck away and let them play while I watch. She really liked the sound of that and understood that I’m still there so she can feel comfortable.

She really likes the idea of a threesome. Very erotic and sensual to her.
 
Hey all I’m Drew and my Wife is Melissa. I told her a while ago about my fantasies of her having sex and that I’ve had dreams about her with other men. She didn’t really say anything or react about it.

About a month later she told me she’s been fantasizing about a certain male actor from one of her shows. She wasn’t sure if she should tell me.

Then about another month later we watch Sex Life together. It had a swinger scene in it. After that scene she said to me that it didn’t feel as taboo for her anymore.

Is she giving me hints!?
She might be yes
 
Also forgot to mention that she was a little unsure how a threesome would work and said that she wonders if she would feel uncomfortable with me watching, both very normal feelings obviously.

So I told her how I kind of see a first then experience going. Have a threesome and when the timing is right I kind of bsck away and let them play while I watch. She really liked the sound of that and understood that I’m still there so she can feel comfortable.

She really likes the idea of a threesome. Very erotic and sensual to her.
you've been showing her lots of good threesome porn, amateur though. No one wants to see a porn goddess.
might help if the idea turns her on
 
its gotta be a natural-looking woman if they look like her in age, size and body shape even better. She might then visualise herself in their place.
Yes good point. She is definatley struggling with her little bit of a mom tummy but it’s all in her head. She has a great body and is very sexy. I’ve been working on that letting her know how hot and desireable she really is.
 
Yes good point. She is definatley struggling with her little bit of a mom tummy but it’s all in her head. She has a great body and is very sexy. I’ve been working on that letting her know how hot and desireable she really is.
Personally, I think you might just need to let her see women that are similar to herself, so she can see that she is sexy and that men will want her.
Don't think I have seen a body pic of her, but a mom yummy can be sexy :)
 
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