Spyware on wife's laptop

I do.

And I already did with past girlfriends. One of them I discovered she used to talk dirty with a fuckbuddy planning to 'escape' and see him again. The guy was a swat-like cop and she was all into that fetish.

That ocassion I felt hurt, since there wasn't an open relationship or any sort that I have now with my wife (this gf was dead serious about commitment and jealousy, go figure) so within time I broke.

Now, with my wife, she is aware I check upon her stuff and it even excites us both.
 
Never had to. She is always open and honest about the adult dating sites she surfs. Sometimes she likes to keep a new online affair secret until things heat up to where there is sexting. Then she brings me into the loop.
 
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