I agree with this. I feel like not only do you learn a lot about your partner's sexual preference but they learn more about their own sexual preferences in the lifestyle. The whole submissive thing and doing literally anything she's told rings true for my GF.
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We are pretty conservative. Late 50s, clean, no tats, in pretty good shape, wife works out regularly. We have jobs and friends.
We get with a guy we know semi regularly now for sexy fun.
First times were strange, fun but like...what are we doing? I only watched, wife was kinda into it. They would have sex, he'd leave then we had sex for a good two hours and she was very horny. Lots of guilt the following days. We got more ok with it each time. It got to them going two rounds befor he left, I just watched.
Now we're all good with it, we take turns with her. We all have a fun time.
For us this has really opened our thoughts about sexy fun. My conservative wife really let's go and enjoys. She fucks him like crazy, any position he wants, as many times as he wants right in front of me. Then she does the same with me while he watches. We kick back and relax for a few then do it all again. My wife loves it.
We get with a guy we know semi regularly now for sexy fun.
First times were strange, fun but like...what are we doing? I only watched, wife was kinda into it. They would have sex, he'd leave then we had sex for a good two hours and she was very horny. Lots of guilt the following days. We got more ok with it each time. It got to them going two rounds befor he left, I just watched.
Now we're all good with it, we take turns with her. We all have a fun time.
For us this has really opened our thoughts about sexy fun. My conservative wife really let's go and enjoys. She fucks him like crazy, any position he wants, as many times as he wants right in front of me. Then she does the same with me while he watches. We kick back and relax for a few then do it all again. My wife loves it.
It was surprising to see, wives that were "shy" because it is their first time... How quick they opened their mouthes when i placed my dick on their lips...
Exactly, and what you've said clarifies why a regular BF for the wife can work out so well. A hot "one-off" can satisfy more primal needs and be erotic beyond belief, but to establish the level of comfort and connection our wife needs with her BF, the two of you will need to get to know him on various levels. Hubby and her BF become partners in essence, assuring the wife is experiencing rewarding and satisfying sex (lots of orgasms), the way SHE wants them, when she wants them, with the man she wants to enjoy them with. I use the word "enjoy" as her orgasm brings all three partners to a certain level of joy, doesn't it? Watching (or hearing) my wife have a profound orgasm with a man she has feelings for has always brought me a sense of joy, for all three of us. It's the happy place for a husband, I'd say.
Our friend isn't her boyfriend at all. We only see him for sexy fun, we don't socialize with him at all.
We have invited him to backyard BBQ with our friends, he's super cool about our fun and keeps quiet. Wife got off big time with him mingling with our friends.
He's a guy we enjoy inviting into our sex fun. We're comfy with what we do, we know what each likes. Our fun with him has really opened our thoughts about sexy fun. We/she does things now she thought didn't like before, anal for one.
It's very obvious she likes sex with him, sometimes I feel she likes it a little too much but that's part of the fun.
They have a connection for sure.
Love this for you guys I would love to have the same with my wife. We did have a guy we both used to go to his house watch movies hang out and I would watch them fuck good times .
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