I’ve been on both sides of a wife set-up, as the husband orchestrating an encounter, and as the stranger, a man recruited in a set-up for a wife by her husband.
In the latter scenario, one set-up was arranged so that I played the role of a friend/colleague of the husband, invited to dinner with the couple. Prior to the evening, I spent phone and email time with the husband to develop a plausible back-story his wife would believe. I’d never met the wife prior to the dinner event, but her husband had shared numerous photos of her, dressed, and undressed, so I had an appreciation for her before the meet-up.
We had cocktails before dinner, then wine with the meal, and the wife was pretty well lubricated by the time we sat down in the den to chat. I’d been introduced to the wife as someone who had massage skills, and that was the lead-in to sex. Things started with a neck and shoulder massage, then her sexy feet, and then to bed for a few hours of hot sucking and fucking - it was easy, and natural, and she was receptive.
Another meet-up was lots more blunt - I waited in the bathroom of a hotel suite, nude, while the husband warmed up his unaware wife. On a pre-arranged signal, I came into the room, and joined the couple in bed. The wife was in total shock - her husband got out of bed, leaving the two of us to do the deed. He had rules, including condoms and no kissing. She didn’t care, and once over the initial shock and nervousness, his wife was kissing me, removed the condom, and had me fuck her bareback, depositing a load in her greedy pussy. The husband totally freaked out - he couldn’t believe the wife let me cum inside her. An argument started between the two of them, and they ended up dressing in a hurry, leaving me alone in the room.
I tried setting KK up a few times, as a secret “surprise.” I made a couple of attempts before we started doing the hot wife thing - neither of them worked, and in one case KK figured out I was trying to get her fucked, and it started two-week argument between us. The closest attempt that got near working involved trying to get KK picked up in a bar, using booze as leverage. She did dance and flirt with the guy that I’d recruited, but there was no sex.
Over time, since we started doing the hot wife thing, I’ve recruited a few encounter partners as a surprise for KK; once for her birthday, which she went along with, and a few times during travel - all but one of those set-ups went OK - the one that didn’t was the result of KK not “clicking” with the guy I recruited - there was kissing, and some making out, but the encounter didn’t proceed to full-on sex.