The end for us?

[NeedaDomInMI]

I’m okay. It was a rough few days. We had quite a few conversations and even though it’s still not even remotely fair, we are in a better spot than we have been in a while. We have made some decisions and I guess we will see how our changes have helped/hurt us in the next few weeks

I get that it is probably pretty difficult to put the genie back in the bottle.

 

[Anonymousrob84]

I get that it is probably pretty difficult to put the genie back in the bottle.

I don’t really want to. I just want to be a part of it all or have the freedom to explore things that I’m curious about which she doesn’t want any part of.

 

[Hwcouple702]

I don’t really want to. I just want to be a part of it all or have the freedom to explore things that I’m curious about which she doesn’t want any part of.

OK, there is certainly plenty of BS on this forum, but there are also people with experience whom you should listen to. We've tried to tell members on here about the REALITY and possibilities of allowing your wife to become sexually active with others.

The idea that you are going to be able to control your wife's sexual behavior once she's started fucking around with other guys is a bit over optimistic.
Some wives will obey all the rules and quit when asked by their husbands. But....you've been told that some wives are going to "naturally and inevitably" break the "rules" and once "bitten with the extramarital sex bug" will NOT quit. You, as a husband who encouraged this, will have to learn to just deal with it. Seriously, your wife fucks now, other men know she fucks and maybe you don't feel it anymore, but other men just want pussy and love to fuck other men's wives if they are available. You should pursue your own kink with other people because your wife isn't interested in that. Just focus on keeping your marriage and relationship solid and let her have sex as she pleases.

 

[Nick1477]

Similar to us really. When we started out in the lifestyle it was a case that I'd always be there watching but although she doesn't go off on her own she openly admits she prefers fucking without me there nowadays. She was fucking her regular guy yesterday and apart from the odd photo I took from the doorway I left them to it. She's fucking twice next week with her regular and one other fairly regular and it will be the same set-up again. It's all recorded anyway so it doesn't really matter. It's still a turn on for me thinking what they're up to.

 

[Anonymousrob84]

OK, there is certainly plenty of BS on this forum, but there are also people with experience whom you should listen to. We've tried to tell members on here about the REALITY and possibilities of allowing your wife to become sexually active with others.

The idea that you are going to be able to control your wife's sexual behavior once she's started fucking around with other guys is a bit over optimistic.
Some wives will obey all the rules and quit when asked by their husbands. But....you've been told that some wives are going to "naturally and inevitably" break the "rules" and once "bitten with the extramarital sex bug" will NOT quit. You, as a husband who encouraged this, will have to learn to just deal with it. Seriously, your wife fucks now, other men know she fucks and maybe you don't feel it anymore, but other men just want pussy and love to fuck other men's wives if they are available. You should pursue your own kink with other people because your wife isn't interested in that. Just focus on keeping your marriage and relationship solid and let her have sex as she pleases.

I think you missed the point where she said I am not allowed to explore my kinks with others at all. That’s kind of the reason we have any issue at all. I love that she is a Hotwife.

 

[Hwcouple702]

I think you missed the point where she said I am not allowed to explore my kinks with others at all. That’s kind of the reason we have any issue at all. I love that she is a Hotwife.

Well, she's breaking the rules so you break the rules then..