The Shame of Being Outed

We have been a swinging then cuckold couple for 30 years. We were discrete to begin with but now completely open about it all.

All my wife’s friends and their partners know, all my friends and their partners know, all my wife’s family know, our neighbour as do most of our work colleagues and my wife’s boss. We are not ashamed of our lifestyle, nor ashamed we are both bisexual, not ashamed I’m tiny down below and can’t satisfy her, not ashamed she’s a big girl down below and needs big men and lots of them to satisfy her needs.

We live our lives for ourselves on our terms and those who disapprove we don’t want anything to do with.
Truly liberated, good for you.
 
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Not really shamed....but this is how my wife outed us...I am not bothered at all now.... her female friends seem okay with it and me... and the few snide remarks form the husbands don't bother me. its our life and we live as we see fit.

Recently we were invited to a small dinner party at a restaurant to celebrate one of my MISTRESSES gay friends birthday. As usual I prepared MISTRESSES clothes etc. whilst she was showering, I dried her, helped her dress and went to shower myself. When I returned there were panties, stockings and cock cage on the bed for me to wear: not that unusual. As I dressed MISTRESS took several photos of my attire and me, also not that unusual.

On arriving at the restaurant I realized I was the only male. I knew some of the ladies but not all. After food and too many drinks the tongues began to wag. I had noticed earlier my wife and one of her close friends talking and giggling with the odd glance my way, not long after the friend came over and whispered " I love your underwear" and kissed me on the cheek grinning wildly, I could have died, I went scarlet with embarrassment and looked straight at my grinning wife. With that the friend returned to her seat and they whispered and giggled together.
I left the table and sat on a settee and chatted to a couple I knew. They left so I returned to the table to see my wife with her phone showing the rest of the table the pictures. I didn’t know which way to look!!! But to their surprise, I showed no embarrassment and just smiled at them. There were lots of comments, smiles and innuendos, most of which I ignored. The party ended and we left.

On the way home my wife revealed that all but one of the women were quite taken with my pictures and lack of concern at them knowing.

I have since learned that one of the ladies has made it common knowledge at her work of our secret. Not a secret anymore. We live in a relatively small city where everybody is related, so it's only a matter of time before my family find out. There is nothing I can do now but accept it!
 
Not really shamed....but this is how my wife outed us...I am not bothered at all now.... her female friends seem okay with it and me... and the few snide remarks form the husbands don't bother me. its our life and we live as we see fit.

Recently we were invited to a small dinner party at a restaurant to celebrate one of my MISTRESSES gay friends birthday. As usual I prepared MISTRESSES clothes etc. whilst she was showering, I dried her, helped her dress and went to shower myself. When I returned there were panties, stockings and cock cage on the bed for me to wear: not that unusual. As I dressed MISTRESS took several photos of my attire and me, also not that unusual.

On arriving at the restaurant I realized I was the only male. I knew some of the ladies but not all. After food and too many drinks the tongues began to wag. I had noticed earlier my wife and one of her close friends talking and giggling with the odd glance my way, not long after the friend came over and whispered " I love your underwear" and kissed me on the cheek grinning wildly, I could have died, I went scarlet with embarrassment and looked straight at my grinning wife. With that the friend returned to her seat and they whispered and giggled together.
I left the table and sat on a settee and chatted to a couple I knew. They left so I returned to the table to see my wife with her phone showing the rest of the table the pictures. I didn’t know which way to look!!! But to their surprise, I showed no embarrassment and just smiled at them. There were lots of comments, smiles and innuendos, most of which I ignored. The party ended and we left.

On the way home my wife revealed that all but one of the women were quite taken with my pictures and lack of concern at them knowing.

I have since learned that one of the ladies has made it common knowledge at her work of our secret. Not a secret anymore. We live in a relatively small city where everybody is related, so it's only a matter of time before my family find out. There is nothing I can do now but accept it!
Show me and tell me everything I’d love to know and see her
 
Show me and tell me everything I’d love to know and see her
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Show me and tell me everything I’d love to know and see her
This and the earlier post I have posted previously.
This is another instance that took place more recently when another friend confronted my MISTRESS about gossip at her work.

My MISTRESS had a a friend call in for a coffee yesterday (Sunday here) they were chatting out in the alfresco whilst I was tinkering away in the shed. After awhile I was called to join them; on my approach my MISTRESS said drop them and motioned at my trousers. Which I did to reveal my panties, her friend gave a little gasp.......them too I was told. When I dropped my panties and lifted my shirt she gave a "ooooh wow" and leaned forward to grab my engorged balls which I gladly let her fondle. That's enough, you can go now MISTRESS said, I left trying to hear their chatter and giggles at my expense. Later my MISTRESS revealed that a mutual friend had told her friend, she thought MISTRESS was having an affair as she had been seen leaving a local pub with another guy on Friday night. MISTRESS had then informed her that I was a cuck and she could do what she liked. The friend was a little taken aback at first,until MISTRESS explained all that is involved in the lifestyle, and that actually it is currently LOCKTOBER and he is locked up and useless for the month....her friend was intrigued and thus the display. She could not believe I had been locked away for 27 days..... only being allowed out 3 times....twice for thorough cleaning and once for cleaning and a wax.They chatted for what seemed like a couple of hours, butt MISTRESS would not reveal all that had been said.