The Shame of Being Outed
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I am not a "useless" cuck at all. I'm very fit, big cock, and my wife and I have great sex.
But I absolutely love it when she fucks other men, and I love it when she tells her friends and acquaintances that I'm into her doing just that. In other words, I feel pride, not shame!
But I absolutely love it when she fucks other men, and I love it when she tells her friends and acquaintances that I'm into her doing just that. In other words, I feel pride, not shame!
It’s the only way to be to truly be happy, live your life as you want, be yourselves as long as no one gets hurt and it’s consenting adults who cares what society dictates. My wife and I both love our kinky sex life and are stronger as a couple for it.
Not really shamed....but this is how my wife outed us...I am not bothered at all now.... her female friends seem okay with it and me... and the few snide remarks form the husbands don't bother me. its our life and we live as we see fit.
Recently we were invited to a small dinner party at a restaurant to celebrate one of my MISTRESSES gay friends birthday. As usual I prepared MISTRESSES clothes etc. whilst she was showering, I dried her, helped her dress and went to shower myself. When I returned there were panties, stockings and cock cage on the bed for me to wear: not that unusual. As I dressed MISTRESS took several photos of my attire and me, also not that unusual.
On arriving at the restaurant I realized I was the only male. I knew some of the ladies but not all. After food and too many drinks the tongues began to wag. I had noticed earlier my wife and one of her close friends talking and giggling with the odd glance my way, not long after the friend came over and whispered " I love your underwear" and kissed me on the cheek grinning wildly, I could have died, I went scarlet with embarrassment and looked straight at my grinning wife. With that the friend returned to her seat and they whispered and giggled together.
I left the table and sat on a settee and chatted to a couple I knew. They left so I returned to the table to see my wife with her phone showing the rest of the table the pictures. I didn’t know which way to look!!! But to their surprise, I showed no embarrassment and just smiled at them. There were lots of comments, smiles and innuendos, most of which I ignored. The party ended and we left.
On the way home my wife revealed that all but one of the women were quite taken with my pictures and lack of concern at them knowing.
I have since learned that one of the ladies has made it common knowledge at her work of our secret. Not a secret anymore. We live in a relatively small city where everybody is related, so it's only a matter of time before my family find out. There is nothing I can do now but accept it!
Recently we were invited to a small dinner party at a restaurant to celebrate one of my MISTRESSES gay friends birthday. As usual I prepared MISTRESSES clothes etc. whilst she was showering, I dried her, helped her dress and went to shower myself. When I returned there were panties, stockings and cock cage on the bed for me to wear: not that unusual. As I dressed MISTRESS took several photos of my attire and me, also not that unusual.
On arriving at the restaurant I realized I was the only male. I knew some of the ladies but not all. After food and too many drinks the tongues began to wag. I had noticed earlier my wife and one of her close friends talking and giggling with the odd glance my way, not long after the friend came over and whispered " I love your underwear" and kissed me on the cheek grinning wildly, I could have died, I went scarlet with embarrassment and looked straight at my grinning wife. With that the friend returned to her seat and they whispered and giggled together.
I left the table and sat on a settee and chatted to a couple I knew. They left so I returned to the table to see my wife with her phone showing the rest of the table the pictures. I didn’t know which way to look!!! But to their surprise, I showed no embarrassment and just smiled at them. There were lots of comments, smiles and innuendos, most of which I ignored. The party ended and we left.
On the way home my wife revealed that all but one of the women were quite taken with my pictures and lack of concern at them knowing.
I have since learned that one of the ladies has made it common knowledge at her work of our secret. Not a secret anymore. We live in a relatively small city where everybody is related, so it's only a matter of time before my family find out. There is nothing I can do now but accept it!
Cuntfister
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Too much to tell my friend ....I would be here for hours typing.... look at all of our previous posts...that will give you a fair idea😉
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This and the earlier post I have posted previously.
This is another instance that took place more recently when another friend confronted my MISTRESS about gossip at her work.
My MISTRESS had a a friend call in for a coffee yesterday (Sunday here) they were chatting out in the alfresco whilst I was tinkering away in the shed. After awhile I was called to join them; on my approach my MISTRESS said drop them and motioned at my trousers. Which I did to reveal my panties, her friend gave a little gasp.......them too I was told. When I dropped my panties and lifted my shirt she gave a "ooooh wow" and leaned forward to grab my engorged balls which I gladly let her fondle. That's enough, you can go now MISTRESS said, I left trying to hear their chatter and giggles at my expense. Later my MISTRESS revealed that a mutual friend had told her friend, she thought MISTRESS was having an affair as she had been seen leaving a local pub with another guy on Friday night. MISTRESS had then informed her that I was a cuck and she could do what she liked. The friend was a little taken aback at first,until MISTRESS explained all that is involved in the lifestyle, and that actually it is currently LOCKTOBER and he is locked up and useless for the month....her friend was intrigued and thus the display. She could not believe I had been locked away for 27 days..... only being allowed out 3 times....twice for thorough cleaning and once for cleaning and a wax.They chatted for what seemed like a couple of hours, butt MISTRESS would not reveal all that had been said.
Time to re-evaluate the bargain -- she clearly has a voyeuristic interest -- your turn to suggest that you will keep her updated if she shows you some skin and tell her what she enjoys about these conversations.
Sorry, I didn't see your post earlier. No I didn't go home with the other student; after that prolonged moment when some of the other students there must have been thinking "does this guy not know he's being made a cuckold?", the wife treated her suggestion as a joke, and blew it off. I still regret not having called her bluff and gone home with that other student. At least I would have gotten some action, and immediately after I left town, my wife was back in bed with that younger student anyway! As to the largest age difference, my wife was about 27, the older guy about 50. It was at a business conference. I plan to write it up when I find an appropriate thread!
Hmm. I'm not so sure "shame" is the word I'd use, although quite a few people knew about my wife's interest in men outside of our marriage. Mainly coworkers - she works for a big company and the company was fertile (a little play on words) ground for her yearnings. Once word got around (before we married) that she was a "fun" date, she always had a full calendar. Later, after we married she had a years long relationship with her boss, and then with his boss from time time. I met all of these guys at company functions and it could be awkward talking to them as they weren't sure they should admit to fucking her, if I knew, etc. etc. Sometimes I'd just come right out and ask them if they enjoyed her as much as I do, ....then I'd watch the confusion on their faces. On coworker said he was so glad I was ok with it all, then we discussed how the inside of her vagina felt.
My wife's sister knew about one of her special lovers as she (the sister) spent the night with us and my wife was unaware she was there, ...... on the couch. My wife came down the stairs with her boss in the morning (I'd slept in the extra bedroom and couldn't tactfully get rid of her sister in the morning), - she had a long and sheer white robe on with nothing underneath and her boss was in his boxer shorts and a T-shirt. They were coming down so I could make their breakfast. The sister was with me helping me put food on the table when they came downstairs and it was out of the bag. Her sister was (and is) cool with it all, and kids me about it all the time as my wife told her how excited I'd get when things were happening upstairs and I wasn't invited.
My wife's sister knew about one of her special lovers as she (the sister) spent the night with us and my wife was unaware she was there, ...... on the couch. My wife came down the stairs with her boss in the morning (I'd slept in the extra bedroom and couldn't tactfully get rid of her sister in the morning), - she had a long and sheer white robe on with nothing underneath and her boss was in his boxer shorts and a T-shirt. They were coming down so I could make their breakfast. The sister was with me helping me put food on the table when they came downstairs and it was out of the bag. Her sister was (and is) cool with it all, and kids me about it all the time as my wife told her how excited I'd get when things were happening upstairs and I wasn't invited.
We tried to be discreet about it when we first started, but now are extremely open about it. Most of my family and friends now about.
We get with a guy friend pretty regularly. We keep it very private.
My wife would be mortified if anyone found out as would I.
My wife would be mortified if anyone found out as would I.
Isn’t that part of the experience though? The risk of people you know finding out?
Doesn’t it seem like there could be a kind of freedom in that? I mean, there might be some shame for some people too, but once you move beyond that.
We have always been pretty open about it. We don't really consider it a "cuckold" situation like some people tend to think of. More of like a hotwife (or hot GF since we're not married) or just an open relationship.
I would say early on there were some mixed emotions. Some jealousy and humiliation probably existed. It wasn't really a general feeling though. It was more situational. There were certain situations where I could clearly see some guys, including my closest friends trying to humiliate both me and my GF as a sort of kink in getting themselves off. I wouldn't say I felt humiliated by it though. Sometimes probably angry, frustrated or jealous. But they still do the same stuff today and I don't feel any emotions about it any more. Every so often there are certain situations that make you feel different emotions.
I would say early on there were some mixed emotions. Some jealousy and humiliation probably existed. It wasn't really a general feeling though. It was more situational. There were certain situations where I could clearly see some guys, including my closest friends trying to humiliate both me and my GF as a sort of kink in getting themselves off. I wouldn't say I felt humiliated by it though. Sometimes probably angry, frustrated or jealous. But they still do the same stuff today and I don't feel any emotions about it any more. Every so often there are certain situations that make you feel different emotions.
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