The waiting is unbearable

tjlove23

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My wife is at her FWB house and I haven't heard from her in over five hours. She is probably asleep by now and I have no clue what, if anything has happened. Some people may like this part of it, but it is almost too much for me.

This is how it has to be because it is the only way she feels comfortable do it. Guess I just had to get it off my chest.
 

naturalcucky

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I know how you feel. This has happened to me many times. Thoughts on what your wife can do? She how many times do fuck? Do he use your butt too? She are sucking cock crazy and swallowing sperm? Feeling painful but exciting! I talk to me: that’s the only way I can get the reward, a creampie.

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kort6776

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Wow 15hrs is far long imo. If you are to carry this type of relationship on she needs to communicate with you far better or it will become unbearable her going away and you will begin to hate it.
agreed, at least a txt in order to let you know that she is ok, I don't let my wife go out for overnighters
 
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phbbhp238

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My wife always plays alone and rarely comes home before 1am. She does text me a couple of times just to let me know she's ok - and enjoying herself ;-)

She doesn't really do overnighters but has come home at dawn, especially if her fuckbuddy had a friend or two over. She has gone on a couple of weekend trips. Either way she always texts.

The waiting at home, once you get more used to it, is the best part!
 

bunnyandtim

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My wife is going on her first date next week. She has never had sex with another guy before, with or without me there. We've met up with this guy together once before for a drink. She's meant to be just meeting him a second time for a couple of drinks and to get to know each other better, but she's actually dying for things to go A LOT further (and told him so last night).
She asked me how far I'm alright with her going. I said that kissing, tit sucking, pussy rub/fingering is the limit without me there this time, but that if things get carried away and it ends up with her giving him head or full on fucking that's ok as long as she tells me.
So basically I'd MUCH rather prefer to be there the first time they fuck (babysitting duties mean that I can't make it for the near future), but if they do fuck this time and I miss out, I'll just have to learn to live with it.
Sorry to hijack your thread but I've been meaning to get this off my chest too (was nearly gonna make a new thread about it).
I'm fearing I'll be sitting there hoping that they don't suck/fuck, but I've got a feeling they will. I'm scared that if I try to put my foot down and say she's 100% not allowed to cross a line and that I'll be hurt and angry if she does, that she'll just hide it from me if she does.
I spoke to her and she swears she would tell me either way. She also said she just won't go back to his place, but at the same time, I don't want to be responsible for wrecking their fun. I guess I just need to man up and deal with whatever comes.
 
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tjlove23

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My wife is going on her first date next week. She has never had sex with another guy before, with or without me there. We've met up with this guy together once before for a drink. She's meant to be just meeting him a second time for a couple of drinks and to get to know each other better, but she's actually dying for things to go A LOT further (and told him so last night).
She asked me how far I'm alright with her going. I said that kissing, tit sucking, pussy rub/fingering is the limit without me there this time, but that if things get carried away and it ends up with her giving him head or full on fucking that's ok as long as she tells me.
So basically I'd MUCH rather prefer to be there the first time they fuck (babysitting duties mean that I can't make it for the near future), but if they do fuck this time and I miss out, I'll just have to learn to live with it.
Sorry to hijack your thread but I've been meaning to get this off my chest too (was nearly gonna make a new thread about it).
I'm fearing I'll be sitting there hoping that they don't suck/fuck, but I've got a feeling they will. I'm scared that if I try to put my foot down and say she's 100% not allowed to cross a line and that I'll be hurt and angry if she does, that she'll just hide it from me if she does.
I spoke to her and she swears she would tell me either way. She also said she just won't go back to his place, but at the same time, I don't want to be responsible for wrecking their fun. I guess I just need to man up and deal with whatever comes.
That is how we started and has slowly moved to ovetnight stays. It goes really slow and that is ok. Good luck.
 

tjlove23

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My wife always plays alone and rarely comes home before 1am. She does text me a couple of times just to let me know she's ok - and enjoying herself ;-)

She doesn't really do overnighters but has come home at dawn, especially if her fuckbuddy had a friend or two over. She has gone on a couple of weekend trips. Either way she always texts.

The waiting at home, once you get more used to it, is the best part!
agreed, at least a txt in order to let you know that she is ok, I don't let my wife go out for overnighters
I am not worried about her safery with this guy. She has known him a long time and have had a few overnights with him. I just wish she would give more updates, but evertyhing is about comprises with a wife.
 

ultra_man

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After almost fifteen hours I heard from her. She indeed fucked. I dont know if I wanna go through that again.
Nope I could never be ok with that. When my wife wants a fuck she always does it in our house and it never lasts long. Probably 30-45 min., she gets her orgasm and he unloads inside her, then its over. No long talking or even serious kissing. Just a fuck. Seems a nice enough guy but we have little to no interaction, don't want it to be any weirder. And its always recorded for me to watch if I want. Also It's the same guy she's been doing for a long time, but only about once a month. He's someone she was fucking before we were together, and was cheating on her then husband. Just sex though, not romance, she's never liked him like that. However anyone can become emotionally involved with someone else even against their will if they spend a lot of time together. There is zero possibility I'd be ok with her going to some guys place and staying for hours, that seems like a recipe for disaster to me. Her phone always shares her location with me so I can check on her anytime. Trust but verify lol
 
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My wife will not meet anyone alone until there is a quite a bit of trust built up with said person and a level of comfort built up as well. I will always be present. I do participate at times as well because she has a love for being the center of attention of two men. But she is also allowed to play alone as well. If there is no relationship built up between me and the other guy, then it is a no go situation.

I do not entrust my wife's safety in anyone else's hands that I can't be friends with. There needs to be interaction between me and him, not sexual of course but on a human level. I am all for recording play times, but would rather be there in person to see it for myself. Will there be times I won't be there, oh hell yes. But like I said, that doesn't happen right away and without a great trust built up. There should be no unbearable waiting. If so, maybe there needs to be a rethinking of doing it. It's not supposed to bring worry and anxiety, it's supposed to be fun and exciting.
 
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