They Need To Be Used Hard

Unfortunately guys with big dicks can be jerks just like any guy with the added 'bonus' that they think they are doing you a favour just because they are hung.
And then there are the just downright creepy guys who get off on causing pain just for the sake of it. Fortunately I've not come across many like that but there have been a few who I've turned down just because I've just had a feeling about them. Nothing I could put into words but just something not right!
Too many big dick guys think every woman is like the women in porn forgetting the women in porn are actresses being paid to act like they enjoy what the guy is doing to them
 
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All women want to submit - it just has to be to the right man. They key to great sex is just to take charge and use them as your personal fuck toy....they will love you for it.
My wife’s best time with any man was when she was goofed. Anything,goes then !!
 
From the beginning Robin didn’t like me to be rough with her. Imagine my surprise when we had a friend over to play with us and while she was giving me a blowjob while she sat in my recliner and I was standing, he told me to grab her hair and pull on it, just as I was starting to tell him that she didn’t like that, she cut me off and told me to do it. So I grabbed her hair forcefully and she really amped up her BJ. We immediately went to our bed and he told me to slap her ass, again I started to say the same thing when she interrupted me and told me to slap her ass, so I did and again, it seemed to flip a switch and she started pushing back harder than she ever had before. Her whole state of sexuality just changed to wanting to be more “taken” and controlled. After I was fucking her for a while, she suddenly yelled out for the other guy to come over and that she wanted him. This was also the same night she had first BBC.
 
I remember one night with my ex wife - I had no clue as per usual apart from she she seemed to be going out a bit more with her friend - we had came through a rough time and I really was distant and not nice at all so thought I owed it to her to enjoy herself -but again as per usual she was enjoying herself not in a manner I had assumed - sure I used to do her from the back or get a blowjob and come in her mouth before she went out - as long as I didn’t mess up her hair - you ladieseh 😀, and her friend must have heard her being fucked , anyway my point is - she said put one of your dirty films on and give me it rough - AND don’t stop even if I start crying - in fact give me it harder if I do - wasn’t till later on and all came out about other guy I thought - holy shit he must have really been dominating her - another good catholic girl ruined eh - another real chance to be cuckolded and obviously she loved it rough - big time - when you are young and naive eh
 
I 100% believe this. Women dont want anything vanilla, they want to be dominated. Now, I'm not an alpha, and I could never be, but I do enjoy knowing that she is happy with our lifestyle. At first, her parents made us wait to have sex until marriage, although we had sex prior to our engagement, all the while she met up with her ex, who used to cheat on her, but treated her like a slut. Once married, she got tired of me being too small, and continued sexting with other guys, until I confronted her. Then, we fully went into the lifestyle, so that way she did not have to hide her feelings.
 
I 100% believe this. Women dont want anything vanilla, they want to be dominated. Now, I'm not an alpha, and I could never be, but I do enjoy knowing that she is happy with our lifestyle. At first, her parents made us wait to have sex until marriage, although we had sex prior to our engagement, all the while she met up with her ex, who used to cheat on her, but treated her like a slut. Once married, she got tired of me being too small, and continued sexting with other guys, until I confronted her. Then, we fully went into the lifestyle, so that way she did not have to hide her feelings.
I couldn't agree more. In my experience they want it primal more than anything else. Sure there's a place for that lovey dovey bs but more often than not they just was to get fucked - hard.

I hooked up with this 23 year old the other night I met at the beach a few weeks back. We sexed a bit and she indicated she was into some light bondage. When we finally hooked up I tied her arms behind her back and told her she was my personal fuck toy for the evening........pussy visibly dripping after that.
 
Wow, that's pretty hot. When our neighbor who is a 50 year old man started fucking my wife, who is 26, she would be sore the next day, but she would always be texting him to come back, and always wanted to be with him more. It got to the point to where since he is one of the supervisors at my job, he would schedule me the night shift, and go spend time with my wife. Now, he is much more open to me being around, since he fathered both of the kids.
 
Wow, that's pretty hot. When our neighbor who is a 50 year old man started fucking my wife, who is 26, she would be sore the next day, but she would always be texting him to come back, and always wanted to be with him more. It got to the point to where since he is one of the supervisors at my job, he would schedule me the night shift, and go spend time with my wife. Now, he is much more open to me being around, since he fathered both of the kids.
Nice.....sounds like he took charge which is how it should be.

With the 23yo, I just wonder if her future husband will ever figure out how hard she cums when her hands are tied up and her hair is being pulled while getting fucked.
 
I couldn't agree more. In my experience they want it primal more than anything else. Sure there's a place for that lovey dovey bs but more often than not they just was to get fucked - hard.

I hooked up with this 23 year old the other night I met at the beach a few weeks back. We sexed a bit and she indicated she was into some light bondage. When we finally hooked up I tied her arms behind her back and told her she was my personal fuck toy for the evening........pussy visibly dripping after that.
I have to admit that would have my pussy dripping too.
We have played a few times with me being restrained and blindfolded and used and it really turned me on not knowing who was using me. Afterwards I'd find out it was guys who had fucked me before. But the not knowing at the time was very exciting.
Then we did it again and I was fucked really hard by two guys but this time afterwards hubby wouldn't tell me who they were. All he'd say was that we knew them well and that they'd never fucked me before but were really up for it when he asked them. After that every time I was chatting to a guy we knew I'd get wet wondering if he was one of the ones who'd fucked me.
It wasn't until recently and after we'd moved area that he told me that one was one of our neighbours and the other was a guy from the pub who we both knew. Two guys who I would never have guessed.
 
Nice.....sounds like he took charge which is how it should be.

With the 23yo, I just wonder if her future husband will ever figure out how hard she cums when her hands are tied up and her hair is being pulled while getting fucked.
He'll probably realize when she doesnt cum while being untied, and she doesnt really enjoy vanilla sex
 
Too many men today have abdicated their role of controlling their wives or girlfriends. If they think they are in control, then they have a guy by the balls, figuratively and maybe literally. You have to use them hard and use them often. No romantic stuff, just hard sexual use.

I meet this slut in the park. Her husband and kids have no idea, nor do the people at the elementary school where she teaches. They all think she is nice and respectable. But she needs to be used hard. She doesn't suck me -- I fuck her mouth. There is a major difference, namely who his in control.

This 60-something granny lives in my neighborhood and comes by to see me when her husband is having coffee with his male friends or some such activity. She used to gag real bad when I pushed too hard and too far in but now she take sit like a pro. I can feel her chin touching my balls.
I was a public school teacher for three years, adn so many of us have secret lives as swingers, nude dancers, and escorts. Older men love a slutty classy whore to show off at conventions and parties then to hotel bed.
 
I was a public school teacher for three years, adn so many of us have secret lives as swingers, nude dancers, and escorts. Older men love a slutty classy whore to show off at conventions and parties then to hotel bed.
You are so right! I was a school librarian, and I led a secret live that would have cost me my job had it become known. Now I'm retired and don't have to worry about that aspect.

The comments about overgeneralizing are certainly correct. One cannot extrapolate from a few examples to say that certain behavior is universally true. Similarly, because some women do not like this kind of experience does not mean that we can say no one likes it. So much depends on the woman['s pesonality.
 
You are so right! I was a school librarian, and I led a secret live that would have cost me my job had it become known. Now I'm retired and don't have to worry about that aspect.

The comments about overgeneralizing are certainly correct. One cannot extrapolate from a few examples to say that certain behavior is universally true. Similarly, because some women do not like this kind of experience does not mean that we can say no one likes it. So much depends on the woman['s pesonality.
Similar for me too - respectable professional woman by day but a very different private life. But there was something exciting about living a double life.
Likewise I'm now retired which has opened up all sorts of new opportunities and of course a lot more time to enjoy them xx
 
You are so right! I was a school librarian, and I led a secret live that would have cost me my job had it become known. Now I'm retired and don't have to worry about that aspect.

The comments about overgeneralizing are certainly correct. One cannot extrapolate from a few examples to say that certain behavior is universally true. Similarly, because some women do not like this kind of experience does not mean that we can say no one likes it. So much depends on the woman['s pesonality.
Why couldn’t I had a teacher like .you . I think I would’ve had my regular spot in the library 😆😜