My wife's possibly soon to be bull/lover is coming town this weekend and she has talked about going to his place, and she asked me what she should do if he makes a move. I told her you're in charge, if you feel like making his dream cum true they do it. If you don't then don't. So how to a encourage with out pushing? I know she want to do it for me, but I want her to enjoy herself.. that is the balancing act. We had some really good role playing and she was excited by my excitement and huge load. So I know she is interested but still reserve/hesitant.. thoughts comments advice,?