Very First Time Husband Feelings

[owlmale]

One time we were at a dance and this attractive man came took my wife out on the dance floor felt her body up as they were dancing and she just letting him, and I did nothing to stop him. I was embarrassed to him it was like I was never there. Went from a alpha to a beta that night and it`s never ended.

 

[Lovefeet]

Why would you say anything about me - you do not know me.

You're regurgitated post to every subject thread .makes an easy man to read.

 

[hubbysexywife]

One time we were at a dance and this attractive man came took my wife out on the dance floor felt her body up as they were dancing and she just letting him, and I did nothing to stop him. I was embarrassed to him it was like I was never there. Went from a alpha to a beta that night and it`s never ended.

Amazing! What did happen after that dance?

 

[wifelovesbbc69]

I loved it because in a way I pictured myself in her position until I realized I wanted it as well

 

[hubbysexywife]

I loved it because in a way I pictured myself in her position until I realized I wanted it as well

What do you mean? Do you want explain a little more?

 

[silveranklet]

Hi all, my wife turned a true hotwife 2.5 weeks ago when she spent the night with another man and took him inside of her for the first time. I wonder whether you guys can relate to my feelings I had during that event.

She was playing solo as I was on a plane flying to her place to meet her the next day. She kept me informed about her evening, when they went to a bar, changed it and ultimately when they went to her hotel room. It was the same time I entered the airline lounge. So I was sitting in the lounge knowing that the deed is done exactly at that moment some 9,000 km away.
But funny enough, I did not have any of the usual cuckold feelings I had been reading about: rollercoaster of feelings, anxiety, euphoria, jealousy, hard cock. I was expecting to get aroused by knowing that she is ...... with him the very moment, but nothing.
The only feeling I had was a deep feeling of sadness, nothing else. Sadness that I gave her up and that she lost her hotwife virginity at that moment.
I have shared with her my feelings and we are trying to work it through together now. But I wonder if anyone of you guys experienced something similar?

 

[Nick1477]

First time I watched my wife was incredible. It was probably helped by the fact that in a previous marriage we were swingers so it was nothing new to me.
The first time was just over two years ago, she reluctantly agreed to give it a go. Her first time was in a local hotel with a guy she'd found on a website. After the initial social meeting it was agreed to meet at a hotel the following week. We were both a little nervous but there was no need to be, everything was fine. To see her sucking and being fucked for the first time in 30 years by a different cock was absolutely amazing. We were both hooked from that first day. She picks her guys herself and if they seem ok she'll go and have sex with them after an initial social. I mostly go with her to watch although I have stayed home a couple of times but it's all recorded anyway.
She's now had sex 21 times in the last two years and neither of us would swap this lifestyle.

UPDATE, she's now been fucked over 70 times

 

[hubbysexywife]

Hi all, my wife turned a true hotwife 2.5 weeks ago when she spent the night with another man and took him inside of her for the first time. I wonder whether you guys can relate to my feelings I had during that event.

She was playing solo as I was on a plane flying to her place to meet her the next day. She kept me informed about her evening, when they went to a bar, changed it and ultimately when they went to her hotel room. It was the same time I entered the airline lounge. So I was sitting in the lounge knowing that the deed is done exactly at that moment some 9,000 km away.
But funny enough, I did not have any of the usual cuckold feelings I had been reading about: rollercoaster of feelings, anxiety, euphoria, jealousy, hard cock. I was expecting to get aroused by knowing that she is ...... with him the very moment, but nothing.
The only feeling I had was a deep feeling of sadness, nothing else. Sadness that I gave her up and that she lost her hotwife virginity at that moment.
I have shared with her my feelings and we are trying to work it through together now. But I wonder if anyone of you guys experienced something similar?

Thanks 🙏
Did you speak about it, the day after?

 

[Siesta Swingers]

Hi all, my wife turned a true hotwife 2.5 weeks ago when she spent the night with another man and took him inside of her for the first time. I wonder whether you guys can relate to my feelings I had during that event.

She was playing solo as I was on a plane flying to her place to meet her the next day. She kept me informed about her evening, when they went to a bar, changed it and ultimately when they went to her hotel room. It was the same time I entered the airline lounge. So I was sitting in the lounge knowing that the deed is done exactly at that moment some 9,000 km away.
But funny enough, I did not have any of the usual cuckold feelings I had been reading about: rollercoaster of feelings, anxiety, euphoria, jealousy, hard cock. I was expecting to get aroused by knowing that she is ...... with him the very moment, but nothing.
The only feeling I had was a deep feeling of sadness, nothing else. Sadness that I gave her up and that she lost her hotwife virginity at that moment.
I have shared with her my feelings and we are trying to work it through together now. But I wonder if anyone of you guys experienced something similar?

No. I had the usual cuckold feelings you described. I do wonder if her becoming a hotwife was your idea or hers?
What is this idea that you, “gave her up”?
I’ve never heard of hotwife virginity before either.
Very interesting to me what you’ve written here.
Thank you for posting.

 

[Anon321]

So our first time was when we were in our early 20s and had a MFM. I think I might not have felt as strong of feelings as some because we technically weren't even an exclusive couple at the time. We were basically just friends with benefits which then later turned into a long-term relationship.

I think the first time the both of us were pretty nervous. Fortunately our friend was not so shy or nervous and without him being so outgoing I don't even know if it would have happened or how much fun it would have been. I'm not going to pretend there wasn't some feeling of jealousy or had some post nut clarity. But I think the fact that we weren't in an exclusive relationship made it easier for us.

 

[painlicker]

The very first time I saw my wife sucking and fucking another man was a huge sting in my stomach, but it was so intense to see her getting it from a real good man/lover I was aroused at the same time so much I came as soon she touched my cock with her lips while she getting fucked from behind.

 

[Baghira1965]

i feel proud when other men are fucking my slut , cannot stop watching and jerking sitting next to them. She is 45, slim, ...... of one and still great looking. Small pussy. Very tight. And she is into old men, always was. Want to know more text me

 

[imherManwantHER]

I think the first time watching them was easier than the first time she went with him alone. There were a lot more feelings for me….probably because I had more time by myself to think and wonder what was happening.

The allowing her to go with another guy alone or to play in my absence with another guy, even non-sexual chats or any other private meet ups would be and honestly is my hard stop point.
I’m interested in the pleasure and the whole kink of mutually agreed upon situation in which I’m sharing my wife’s body with another man for her pleasure and for our pleasure, specifically in a circumstance where we’re all together and in direct communication, direct contact action.
The feelings of worry and anxiety about losing control aren’t gonna be absent even if the “perfect situation” but it 💯 needs to always involve us both. That’s just my 2 Cents

 

[HUBBYSERVES77]

Most times, people talk about the first time, but not exactly about the feelings the husband experience.

Husbands with experience can help other husbands to understand, in advance, the feelings they will feel when finally happen.

For all husbands who already have a hotwife:
What were your feelings when you saw your wife being penetrated by another man? being touched by another? sucking another cock?

If you were not there at the very first time:
What feelings did you experience while you were waiting for news? And what feelings did you feel when your wife finally told you the details?

Also very important, and this must be answered by both scenarios:
What did you feel after cum? And the day or days afterward?

I am sure a wave of emotions will be present. I can confidently say that it will not bother me and it will be exactly what she needs. To see a man fuck her proper and do things I never could will be incredible. I will feel the same after as.well

 

[hubbysexywife]

No. I had the usual cuckold feelings you described. I do wonder if her becoming a hotwife was your idea or hers?
What is this idea that you, “gave her up”?
I’ve never heard of hotwife virginity before either.
Very interesting to me what you’ve written here.
Thank you for posting.

Hotwife virginity is a very interesting concept indeed.

 

[hubbysexywife]

I am sure a wave of emotions will be present. I can confidently say that it will not bother me and it will be exactly what she needs. To see a man fuck her proper and do things I never could will be incredible. I will feel the same after as.well

But, had you already the experience?

 

[hubbysexywife]

The very first time I saw my wife sucking and fucking another man was a huge sting in my stomach, but it was so intense to see her getting it from a real good man/lover I was aroused at the same time so much I came as soon she touched my cock with her lips while she getting fucked from behind.

Looks like it is exactly how you describe it for most or a big majority of husbands who share their wifes. This sensation you describe in the stomach and also a huge turn on.

 

[nicebiguy]

So our first time was when we were in our early 20s and had a MFM. I think I might not have felt as strong of feelings as some because we technically weren't even an exclusive couple at the time. We were basically just friends with benefits which then later turned into a long-term relationship.

I think the first time the both of us were pretty nervous. Fortunately our friend was not so shy or nervous and without him being so outgoing I don't even know if it would have happened or how much fun it would have been. I'm not going to pretend there wasn't some feeling of jealousy or had some post nut clarity. But I think the fact that we weren't in an exclusive relationship made it easier for us.

Makes sense to me.

 

[MontyPython]

UPDATE, she's now been fucked over 70 times

She sounds incredible!