Can totally relate to your issue - my wife of 7 years had a few skeletons ( mens cocks ) in her closet and came about one night we were fucking and she sort of smirked and said she couldn’t feel me in her - long story short I suggested getting a guy with big cock and she agreed after me explaining I didn’t want other women and only wanted to see her satisfied and fulfilled . We even made an ad on pof and she was ok with that - UNTIL - I actually posted it and she went ballistic , told me she was only going along with it to see if I would go through with it and why would she want another man and sex was only between man and wife etc blah fucking blah . Up to that point I used to talk dirty when dildoing / vibing her mentioning guys names / work colleagues etc and this did really turn her on . Slow and measured never pushing it on her . I think your wife has exactly same mentality and even the porn thing was to make you feel comfortable and trick you into finding out exactly the kind of guy you are . I’ve been there tooLong story short. I admitted my fantasy earlier this year to my GF and she took it the wrong way and thought I wanted to fuck other girls.
I then got her to watch porn which she was open to then took that the wrong way and thought I was bored of her!
Eventually I was able to explain myself and tell her I loved her more than ever and that's why I was comfortable sharing these fantasies! She told me she was just very vanilla and was having a hard time adjusting to things!
She then did a complete 180 and was totally open and playing along with me! 😳
She was dirty talking (something she has never done before!), saying she wants two cocks at the same time, we watched a video with a woman riding a BBC!
I mentioned that I'd love to watch her ride it and I said do you think you could handle it? To which she replied "I could easily take that black cock!" 😍
Everything was going well until I got serious and said I'd love to watch her with another man. She got spooked when she could tell I was serious and said she would never have sex with another man and that's not what her idea of a relationship is!
She said I should want to protect her from other men not watch her have sex with them and told me to get it out of my head because it will never happen!
Where do I go from here? I was making amazing progress until I wasn't! 😱
Was getting so close then killed it!
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Dont be surprized if shes curious and wants to eXplore a studly guy, just scared to tell you,,,good luckLong story short. I admitted my fantasy earlier this year to my GF and she took it the wrong way and thought I wanted to fuck other girls.
I then got her to watch porn which she was open to then took that the wrong way and thought I was bored of her!
Eventually I was able to explain myself and tell her I loved her more than ever and that's why I was comfortable sharing these fantasies! She told me she was just very vanilla and was having a hard time adjusting to things!
She then did a complete 180 and was totally open and playing along with me! 😳
She was dirty talking (something she has never done before!), saying she wants two cocks at the same time, we watched a video with a woman riding a BBC!
I mentioned that I'd love to watch her ride it and I said do you think you could handle it? To which she replied "I could easily take that black cock!" 😍
Everything was going well until I got serious and said I'd love to watch her with another man. She got spooked when she could tell I was serious and said she would never have sex with another man and that's not what her idea of a relationship is!
She said I should want to protect her from other men not watch her have sex with them and told me to get it out of my head because it will never happen!
Where do I go from here? I was making amazing progress until I wasn't! 😱
We’re actually going to be at Bahamar in April for a week and I’m going to see how she reacts to when we’re out to dinner and sitting at the bar while she has no panties under her dress and a couple of drinks and we point out which BBC would make her wet. She has a look she likes and it’s a clean Business attire wearing well built tall and hung BBC that we fantasize about her playing with. No name, no future plans with no attachment, just spur of the moment if it just happens it happens, or not no expectations. My wife’s a very reserved blonde but the fact that it feels wrong and would be our secret and we’d only do it while vacationing in the Bahamas is what I think turns her on. That’s our roll play and it might never happen but the fact that we’re atleast that far is hot.
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