We are a late 40s couple, happily married 20+ years. Our sex life is pretty vanilla. She is definitely more reserve and conservative in the bedroom and not very adventurous. I’ve thought about cuckold fantasies, swinging, etc. from time to time but nothing to intense or something I thought about actin on. Until one night out about three months ago . . .
We had a social event for work at a restaurant in an entertainment district where we live with lots of bars, clubs, etc. nearby. The event ended early and we decided to go grab a drink at a nearby bar. Turns out there was a fairly active dance floor so we sat at the bar and enjoyed some casual conversation and great people watching. One drink turned to two and then a third when a handsome younger guy approached asking my wife to dance. My wife likes to dance and I’m terrible at it. Don’t enjoy it and i feel bad because I know she likes it. She politely told him no and I jumped in telling her she should dance and have fun. Honestly I had no thought to the possibility this could turn sexual in any way.
After a little convincing she agreed and they headed off to the dance floor. He led her to the middle where it was hard to get a good view from where I was sitting but I could see them from time to time through the crowd dancing. At first they maintained some distance and occasionally one would lean in to talk. Overtime they got closer and let’s just say things got more friendly. She was definitely grinding up on him and I’m not sure there was any part of her body his hands didn’t explore. I’m not 100% sure but I’m pretty sure I saw them kiss briefly and his hands spent a lot of time up her skirt. I was a bit jealous and conflicted but also incredibly aroused. After about 30 minutes she came back to the bar and he left. We finished our drinks and went home. Had incredible sex that night. Here is the thing . . I now have this intense desire for a stranger to fuck my wife. It’s been 3 months and I can’t get these thoughts out of my mind.
So now what do I do? I’ve tried to casually mention the events of the night and she is pretty dismissive. I definitely saw a new side to her that night but is right back to being that conservative wife. We are definitely going to spend more time at dance clubs and I will see how that goes but not sure what else to do.
We had a social event for work at a restaurant in an entertainment district where we live with lots of bars, clubs, etc. nearby. The event ended early and we decided to go grab a drink at a nearby bar. Turns out there was a fairly active dance floor so we sat at the bar and enjoyed some casual conversation and great people watching. One drink turned to two and then a third when a handsome younger guy approached asking my wife to dance. My wife likes to dance and I’m terrible at it. Don’t enjoy it and i feel bad because I know she likes it. She politely told him no and I jumped in telling her she should dance and have fun. Honestly I had no thought to the possibility this could turn sexual in any way.
After a little convincing she agreed and they headed off to the dance floor. He led her to the middle where it was hard to get a good view from where I was sitting but I could see them from time to time through the crowd dancing. At first they maintained some distance and occasionally one would lean in to talk. Overtime they got closer and let’s just say things got more friendly. She was definitely grinding up on him and I’m not sure there was any part of her body his hands didn’t explore. I’m not 100% sure but I’m pretty sure I saw them kiss briefly and his hands spent a lot of time up her skirt. I was a bit jealous and conflicted but also incredibly aroused. After about 30 minutes she came back to the bar and he left. We finished our drinks and went home. Had incredible sex that night. Here is the thing . . I now have this intense desire for a stranger to fuck my wife. It’s been 3 months and I can’t get these thoughts out of my mind.
So now what do I do? I’ve tried to casually mention the events of the night and she is pretty dismissive. I definitely saw a new side to her that night but is right back to being that conservative wife. We are definitely going to spend more time at dance clubs and I will see how that goes but not sure what else to do.