1 When her black lover ordered me to put his unprotected cock into my wife's pussy ( for the first time bare).
2 When I came in my wife's cum-filled pussy.
About the latter, my wife told me that she also became very emotional.
"I imagined how you experienced my very messy pussy, how aware you had to be that his cum was in there. You accepted it completely. A sign of unconditional love for me. It was also a sign that from then on my lover could cum in my pussy. A turning point in our lives.
(BTW, she didn't love him but liked extremely to have sex with him.)
3 In our beloved club, my wife had a second steady lover. A white man. She sat on him and motioned for me to come closer. She said that she put his (bare) cock in her pussy (also bare for the first time). "You must know that I love him. That is why I made this decision. Kiss me now if you still love me".