What experiences led you to finding this kind of kink.

I had a couple of different experiences on both sides of the cuck equation and it planted the seed, which later led me to this fetish. Sorry its long but its sort of a 3-part story haha

In HS and through college I dated a pretty vanilla girl who I got along with super well but who seemed to have no sex drive of her own. She was submissive and let me do whatever I wanted but never initiated anything, even a kiss. It got pretty boring.

Meanwhile, I was friends with a girl who was a sort of evil temptress, always flirting with me and teasing me to the point that something was about to happen, then would stop. Well, one day it didn't stop and we ended up being FWB for several years while both dating other people. I felt like she wasn't long-term GF material because, ironically, I worried she'd be unfaithful. She dated a guy for years, who she eventually married but she kept fucking me and I thought it was super hot that this girl was such a horny slut she needed two men.

Slutty girl moved away but we kept in touch and she, told me her husband knew I'd fucked her and during sex, he would ask her how she liked getting fucked by my big dick and make her tell him how she wished I'd fuck her again... ol, at the time I thought it was pretty weird. The husband eventually coaxed her into being a hotwife and she would tell me about her escapades. So there was that...

I eventually broke up with boring sex girl and met a new girl who was super hot and horny but she had a kid (I guess that's what happens when you're a wanton slut). I was just not into the idea of raising another dude's kid but I couldn't stop fucking this chick. She got mad that I couldn't commit and threatened to start dating other dudes. A week later, she announced she was going on a date. I sort of panicked and asked her not to, which was unfair, since I was not about to get serious with her. She said nothing was going to happen but she felt like it was too late to cancel. Later that night, she called and told me they'd fucked. I felt sick and jealous but also horny. It was the first time I'd experienced that. I told her I wanted to see her and she was surprised, as she figured it was over but she came by and, sure enough, we fucked. So I guess it was like my first re-claiming. Oddly, things sort of flipped around, where she started seriously dating this guy but she would continue to come over and fuck me. I enjoyed the fact that she made her boyfriend wear condoms but let me cum in her pussy. I really got off on what a dirty slut she was and how she'd return to her boyfriend's place with a cum-filled pussy.

Eventually I moved on and several girls later, I met my now wife. We dated for 8 years and broke up a couple times mostly because I kept feeling like I wasn't ready to settle down and wanted to be single again but I could never stay away from her for long. The final time, she broke up with me because I wouldn't propose and was so mad / had sort of given up on me ever committing, that we stayed apart for 3-4 months. While we were apart, I agonized on the thought she was propably hooking up with other men. Every weekend I'd be out at bars thinking "I bet my ex is going home with someone right now to get fucked" and I'd feel jealous and sick but my dick would get hard. I ended up masturbating, imaging her getting fucked...

Weeks into the breakup, she told me I could come over and get some stuff she had. We ended up hanging out and she said I could stay the night but she wouldn't let me do anything beyond hold her. The next day she said she was still too angry with me and she felt like she couldn't get past it, that things were over and she didn't want to talk anymore.

Two months passed and I eventually convinced her to meet me for dinner. I proposed and we got engaged and ended up having sex that night. At some point I'd asked her if she'd been with anyone else to which she said, she had just dated a few guys and one of them kissed her at the end of the night but that was it.

I knew that was bullshit because my wife is a very horny girl and she had been very mad at me / basically said things were over for good. For years I would occasionally imagine what probably really happened and get hard, sometimes masturbate. That led into my watching cheating and hotwife porn.

Years later, she finally admitted the truth, incrementally over a couple occasions after having had some drinks. First the story was, she had dated a guy for a while and they had sex (couldn't remember how many times, so probably a lot) and she had danced and made out with another dude at a club. Of course, later, found out she had also fucked the guy from the club.

It made me a bit jealous but mostly turned on at this point. Looking back, I realized, the night I slept at her place, after we'd been broken up, she must have already been fucking other dudes. I also found out, she told the guy she was dating that she was going meeting me for dinner, the night we got engaged and he begged her not to go. After I proposed to her, we went back to my place and fucked all night... so I always wondered how long it had been since she fucked the other guy, whether it was days or hours. Another part I really enjoy thinking about is that my then "ex-girlfriend" was still in a relationship when she accepted my ring, cheated on her boyfriend with me, then the next day, after sleeping at my place, she went back and broke up with him.

I posted previously, if you wanted to know, about the episode where she finally admitted she'd fucked the second guy and the hot sex / dirty talk that followed: https://www.wifewantstoplay.com/threads/fucked-on-break-up-got-wet-telling-me-later.29399/

All these experiences inevitably led me more and more into enjoying MFM and hotwife porn. I'm not into the humiliation aspect but I find that I really get off on women being naughty sluts. I confessed this to my wife a few years ago and it was not initially well received but a lot of progress has been made since then. Whether she'll make the jump and ever actually do anything is yet to be seen...
Dude that was great. Me too I’m not into humiliation. I’m just a sexual horny guy that likes girls the same. So much so, the idea of MFM turns me on. Fucking a bunch of groupies in a band helped me transform. I still get horny at the cheating aspect but it really gets me when a woman is so hot, and slutty. Still classy of course haha. Great story!
 
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Just going to read? Come on fess up. What’s your story?
i really do not know the answer to how we started. i gave my wife a hall pass in 1968 before i knew what a hall pass was. this was, obviously, before internet ,or any other outside influence.

i gave her the OK to give one of my AF buddies a BJ. i didn't know until about 5 yrs ago that it never happened.

we were only 19 & i have no idea why i told her it was ok.

then, after being apart for about 30 years we reconnected, even though we lived 700 miles apart. i had retired & moved south.

we started having phone sex until one night i read her a story from Literotica. it was about a women who has a girl's night out & gets home about 3-4;00am.

her husband asked her why so late & she tells him she went home with some guy she met in the club.

the story goes on with wife having a relationship with the guy & he becomes her BF with hubby's approval.


after my wife rubbed out 2 O's, i asked her if she could see herself living a LS like Sheila, without hesitation, she said yes.

then, after i picked myself up off the floor, LOl......

over the next few weeks, we talked about funding a stud for her. unfortunately, after hubby no. 2 died, she hadn't had sex, with someone, in almost 5 years. she agreed & i placed a couple of adds in sites like this one. it led to her being, officially, shared at age 72.

unfortunately, she passed on 2/1/21 at age 73.
 
This happened before we met.
A few years ago my fiancée celebrated with her best friend, both 22 at the time. That evening they met two older men, perhaps in their 50s (my fiancée first said they were in their late 40s, then corrected, they were probably even older) and celebrated and drank together. The girls were invited to the men's hotel room for more drinks. The girls were a bit tipsy and went along as their train home wasn't until a little later.
She told me about this rather accidentally. You could clearly see that she was embarrassed when I asked something and she didn't pursue it further. And I didn't think about it any further at first.
But then I happened to see a photo of the two of them in a hotel room on her laptop (title: ...Hotel) and in the picture it was light outside, so they stayed there overnight. Since then, the thought of her letting old guys in their 50s fuck her at a girls' night out has excited me.

Now I prefer to watch porn of this genre and imagine how she got fucked. Sometimes when I have sex with her I have to think about it and then I cum really hard!

That was the first time I heard something like that from her, later another story came along!
 
Started when she said one night that she wanted to do a cock date. Thought it was talk so I said sure go ahead. Next night she came home around five am and looked like heck worn out and tired. No answers when I called. When she got in I questioned her and she said I told you I was going on a date and she says I got fucked so fucken good. She takes skirt and shirt off no bra or panties showed me how fucken red and swollen she was and so wet too. I said what the fuck am I supposed to do she said I don’t care jerk off im going to bed. Her fucken ass was red too.
After that it was more and more
 
My now wife back in high school cheated on me with one of my "friends" and of course at the time I was furious. We broke up for a while but she begged me to forgive her. Being young and realizing how much this girl knew she fucked up I took her back. Been together ever since! After college this scenerio turned into more of a kink/fantasy. Now that we have been together so long and our relationship is pretty solid I find it hot fantasizing about her with another man. Maybe one day itll happen!
 
My dad's Penthouse Forum collection probably had a lot to do with it. He had a cool curio he had picked up as a kid that I was wanting to look at, and I discovered them in the same storage location. I was way too young to be looking at that stuff, barely started puberty. When I got older and every woman I dated cheated on me, it kind of cemented in my head that this was the normal thing.
 
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How and what experiences did you husbands and wives go through that brought you here. I’ll go first.

My first girlfriend, high school sweetheart, cheated on me right under my nose, on and off for about 3 years. She started doing it at 18. I went to a coffee shop that she didn’t invite me to. I was wondering why she wasn’t answering my calls or texts but her cousin who works there told me she was there. So I just went to surprise her. When I walked in she got up fast and took off this guys jacket and handed it back to him. I was an idiot and thought nothing of it. Later I found out she’d been fucking that guy and every time I found out I was naive and believed her that she wasn’t. I found texts of him bragging to her that he was fucking her, and that she tells him all the time that he is bigger. After this we didn’t talk for a while but eventually got back together.

Went to Vegas for her birthday and who do you know is there. That guy. She invited him and told me to be ok with it. After drinks I cuss him out. She made me apologize to him the next morning, after I saw her leaving his room. It was directly connected to ours.

After many instances like this I left. Once I was gone I watched Forgetting Sarah Marshall and was so hard especially when he is fucking her better than her ex. I was so confused. But couldn’t stop thinking about my ex and that guy getting turned on that they did this to me. All cheating stories in the media of unfaithful women started getting me aroused like crazy.

Way later I find my own place doing well in life fucked plenty of groupies in the band I was in. She comes back into my life and we start talking. Funny part is, she passed out drunk in my bed at one of our parties and I fucked her friend in the next room who is now my wife of 10 years. I broke ties with my high sweetheart the next day. And now me and my wife have a super wild sex life. We discuss this fantasy and role play so far :)
Kink, what kink?
It's what all people do, isn't it?
 
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I have participated a few times, but my wife generally prefers to play one on one. Fortunately, she usually comes home and fucks me too. Her current fwb gets to fuck her bare and always sends her hoping dripping cum. I happily slide inside and fuck her well used and cum filled pussy. It is pretty awesome.
Fun when wife comes home!
Do you ever lick her after she's been with another guy? (My wife loves that.)
 
I believe that my sexual development to where I am today ,stems (like so many of us) from factors within our youthful years.
I was able to read porn mags hidden in my dads wardrobe. I think I first looked at one when aged about 10.
I was a child of young parents , mum was 17 when she had me. which in later years led to some verbal comments at school ( young tart ,your whore mum, your mums got bigs tits etc), this strengthened my love for my mum and this linked to what was happening at home probably created my cuckold characteristic.
What was happening at home? I believe my parents were having problems in their relationship ,my father was working on North Sea Oil rigs so was offshore for 2 weeks and home for 2 weeks. They were both still cordial to each other and the household lifestyle was maintained but I guess my mum was depressed with what was going on.
it was not long after that she started having an affair with a guy. I was 14 when one night I heard my mum and her boyfriend come into the house , they were in the living room and I was able to view the goings on from the darkness at the top of the stairs overlooking the room.
I watched as my my mum was pleasured for a couple of hours. The life changing moment of hearing your own mum groan with extasy and to see her take cock in her pussy, ass and mouth will forever be with me but equally the memory of my cock being erect throughout the viewing.
So this is in my opinion where my love of watching a loved one being pleasured whilst being aroused comes from.
 
Fun when wife comes home!
Do you ever lick her after she's been with another guy? (My wife loves that.)
I said I’d never lick her after another guy finished inside of her. However, after reading of so many guys on here that enjoyed it, I decided to give it a try a few months ago. My wife loved it and it really wasn’t terribly different for me. I love to please my wife and do lick her creampie from time to time. She currently has a regular fwb who fills her up about once a week. She always comes home dripping wet and jumps into bed with me. In fact, she went and played with him late last night and brought me home a nice sloppy creampie. I fucked her for a while, then licked her briefly before fucking her again and filling her up with a second load of cum.
 
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began with my girlfriend when i was 17 and she 15 yrs old,it was 76 and punk was just what we needed,our generation was doomed,no future!!but me&herlinde were friends for tears before we were4 tears a couple,and then we split up,but 40yrs later we,re still good friends,but back to the beginning,with punk as big help,we did what we likes,you must know ut was a great shock and talk of the town,small village near antwerp,to see us&vriends in black leatherjacket,black jeans etc and girls in miniskirts,fishnets,heavy makeup and hairstyle like robert smith from the cure😁,but it turned me on,and her,how men were looking at her, and soon she saw ho w it turned me on when she teased them,and when we had sex,it w as normal for us she w as dominant ,and me more submissive, we had to found everything about sex and fetish between us two,no internet,no gsm,no sexadvice from parents, school ,so we had very k in ky sex for being so young,putting a big smile on my face now again 1700538580009.jpeg
 
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I've never spoken to another cuck in person that I know of, but I have sensed some similarities among certain men when they speak of their wives and how they relish in the attention their wives attract or the way they talk about how their wives cheated on them. I have always felt a certain comfort with these men in an unspoken way.

I remember my first girlfriend, she cheated on me and it was obvious, she didn't lie about it, and she didn't flaunt it, but it was out there. It was my choice to stay with her. I was angry and hurt, but there was this dark place that occupied some place in me that was extremely aroused thinking about him fucking her. I would masturbate, fantasizing I was there watching them. My parents weren't really careful at times and their door would be open. I would see them having sex and I would stand there watching. I was so envious of my father as I watched him take my mother. Again, I would fantasize about watching them, wishing they would let me watch. When my mother was alone dressing in her room, I would make an excuse to talk with her. I know she knew I was trying to see her naked or in lingerie, and her being bold and open she always delighted me with some view of her that was very arousing. She would see my arousal and tell me I should go take care of that.

I look back at almost every girlfriend I had, they all cheated on me or had an old boyfriend she kept on the side. For a long time, I always believed I made poor choices, but in reality, I was making the choice in women who would cheat on me, in spite of how much they claimed to love me, they required more than I could offer as one man.

I met a girl and we fell head over heels in love with one another. I was 20 and she was 18. She was sort of a plain Jane but adorable with a curvy figure. She had an old boyfriend who wouldn't leave her alone. She told me many times she loved me and I shouldn't worry about him. One day I went to pick her up and she was kneeling outside sucking her old boyfriend. She looked at me and said, "I like being watched." and continued sucking him until he came. She got up and walked to me. She opened her mouth, showing me her cum drenched tongue. I was so incredibly aroused, and too, I felt like I had been punched in the gut, I was so conflicted. I grabbed her and kissed her. I remember tasting him as her tongue danced with mine. When she leaned back she looked at me and smiled. She and I both knew.
 
I never once had a thought about any of it until I was married for years. I have a fairly big dick and had sex with well over a hundred women.

For the first few years of our marriage I thought my wife might be cheating on me. She insisted her mood swings were from her cycle. She insisted that she just gets along with guys better than girls. So many issues, fights, insecurities and yet we had a family so I stayed.

One day, I don’t know why, I was masturbating when the thought of her fucking our old neighbor came to mind. I was angry but didn’t stop and when I came, it was insane. That started a process of mental encouragement. Eventually I began reading and delving into it all but still being naive. I tried talking to my wife which went poorly.

Further thinking led me to think about how my wife had emasculated me for years. During fights she would saythings like be a man, she would make comments about my height (I am only 5’9) and other shit. Don’t get me wrong, I said some stuff but never about her body. I think she made me feel insecure and it was the first woman to do that. I think her parents have a terrible marriage and she learned those actions from them.

Overall, I am turn on the whole thing. I sometimes wish I was just dating another woman who made me feel loved and appreciated for who I am so I didn’t think like this…then again we have three kids and there are so many good days.
 
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I should also mention she does shit that is so drastically confusing. She didn’t want to use sleeves but then came hard when we used them. When I up cuckolding, it’s a coin toss on how it will go. Right now she is upset but in a few days when we discuss it and make up. She will be sopping wet and I can fill her up with a nice sleeve.
 
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For me , started a few weeks after we started dating, short version on a dare she blew a guy out in the open at a party (we were in college). After she finished everyone assumed we left to have a big fight, I just couldn't wait to fuck her.

But the one that really sold it was a weekend she went back to her home town. She would be getting a ride back to campus with an old friend (an ex, who well his history with her is another story). I could tell she was a bit excited about the trip and half jokingly told her she was free for the weekend to do whatever she wants as long as she comes back to me (she of course said nothing would happen, but we banged right after the discussion and she was hot). Well she did let go, she sucked him off twice (once in the basement of her parents house with everyone awake upstairs). Fucked him several times, three times at stops on the way back including last time in the parking lot of her apt building). At first she tried to hide it, but I walked into her bathroom when she was going to take a shower right after getting home, she was bent over and it was obvious. Made her tell me everything while we fucked. She really got off knowing how much I liked it and I got off on getting sloppy seconds, knowing she liked fucking him.