What experiences led you to finding this kind of kink.

[Jfiverpointfive]

How and what experiences did you husbands and wives go through that brought you here. I’ll go first.

My first girlfriend, high school sweetheart, cheated on me right under my nose, on and off for about 3 years. She started doing it at 18. I went to a coffee shop that she didn’t invite me to. I was wondering why she wasn’t answering my calls or texts but her cousin who works there told me she was there. So I just went to surprise her. When I walked in she got up fast and took off this guys jacket and handed it back to him. I was an idiot and thought nothing of it. Later I found out she’d been fucking that guy and every time I found out I was naive and believed her that she wasn’t. I found texts of him bragging to her that he was fucking her, and that she tells him all the time that he is bigger. After this we didn’t talk for a while but eventually got back together.

Went to Vegas for her birthday and who do you know is there. That guy. She invited him and told me to be ok with it. After drinks I cuss him out. She made me apologize to him the next morning, after I saw her leaving his room. It was directly connected to ours.

After many instances like this I left. Once I was gone I watched Forgetting Sarah Marshall and was so hard especially when he is fucking her better than her ex. I was so confused. But couldn’t stop thinking about my ex and that guy getting turned on that they did this to me. All cheating stories in the media of unfaithful women started getting me aroused like crazy.

Way later I find my own place doing well in life fucked plenty of groupies in the band I was in. She comes back into my life and we start talking. Funny part is, she passed out drunk in my bed at one of our parties and I fucked her friend in the next room who is now my wife of 10 years. I broke ties with my high sweetheart the next day. And now me and my wife have a super wild sex life. We discuss this fantasy and role play so far

 

[Seth]

How and what experiences did you husbands and wives go through that brought you here. I’ll go first.

My first girlfriend, high school sweetheart, cheated on me right under my nose, on and off for about 3 years. She started doing it at 18. I went to a coffee shop that she didn’t invite me to. I was wondering why she wasn’t answering my calls or texts but her cousin who works there told me she was there. So I just went to surprise her. When I walked in she got up fast and took off this guys jacket and handed it back to him. I was an idiot and thought nothing of it. Later I found out she’d been fucking that guy and every time I found out I was naive and believed her that she wasn’t. I found texts of him bragging to her that he was fucking her, and that she tells him all the time that he is bigger. After this we didn’t talk for a while but eventually got back together.

Went to Vegas for her birthday and who do you know is there. That guy. She invited him and told me to be ok with it. After drinks I cuss him out. She made me apologize to him the next morning, after I saw her leaving his room. It was directly connected to ours.

After many instances like this I left. Once I was gone I watched Forgetting Sarah Marshall and was so hard especially when he is fucking her better than her ex. I was so confused. But couldn’t stop thinking about my ex and that guy getting turned on that they did this to me. All cheating stories in the media of unfaithful women started getting me aroused like crazy.

Way later I find my own place doing well in life fucked plenty of groupies in the band I was in. She comes back into my life and we start talking. Funny part is, she passed out drunk in my bed at one of our parties and I fucked her friend in the next room who is now my wife of 10 years. I broke ties with my high sweetheart the next day. And now me and my wife have a super wild sex life. We discuss this fantasy and role play so far

My situation wasn’t as extended, but similar

 

[cuck52]

My wife told me on our first date she needed a man who would be 💯 faithful to her but also put up with her cheating on him..

 

[Randr7896]

My girlfriend in college, now my wife, fucked my very well hung roommate. I came back earlier from class one day and heard him fucking her. I skipped a lot of classes that year listening to him fuck her brains out.
I thought she was so hot getting railed like that, but I was too insecure to say anything.
Years later I was writing some sex stories about us for her to read. I wrote one story about her cheating on me and she admitted that she had fucked a guy at work a couple times. We had some very hot sex and I knew I was hooked on her cucking me.

 

[Jfiverpointfive]

My wife told me on our first date she needed a man who would be 💯 faithful to her but also put up with her cheating on him..

I like this what a great way to approach a kinky lifestyle!

 

[majorem]

I had a couple of different experiences on both sides of the cuck equation and it planted the seed, which later led me to this fetish. Sorry its long but its sort of a 3-part story haha

In HS and through college I dated a pretty vanilla girl who I got along with super well but who seemed to have no sex drive of her own. She was submissive and let me do whatever I wanted but never initiated anything, even a kiss. It got pretty boring.

Meanwhile, I was friends with a girl who was a sort of evil temptress, always flirting with me and teasing me to the point that something was about to happen, then would stop. Well, one day it didn't stop and we ended up being FWB for several years while both dating other people. I felt like she wasn't long-term GF material because, ironically, I worried she'd be unfaithful. She dated a guy for years, who she eventually married but she kept fucking me and I thought it was super hot that this girl was such a horny slut she needed two men.

Slutty girl moved away but we kept in touch and she, told me her husband knew I'd fucked her and during sex, he would ask her how she liked getting fucked by my big dick and make her tell him how she wished I'd fuck her again... ol, at the time I thought it was pretty weird. The husband eventually coaxed her into being a hotwife and she would tell me about her escapades. So there was that...

I eventually broke up with boring sex girl and met a new girl who was super hot and horny but she had a kid (I guess that's what happens when you're a wanton slut). I was just not into the idea of raising another dude's kid but I couldn't stop fucking this chick. She got mad that I couldn't commit and threatened to start dating other dudes. A week later, she announced she was going on a date. I sort of panicked and asked her not to, which was unfair, since I was not about to get serious with her. She said nothing was going to happen but she felt like it was too late to cancel. Later that night, she called and told me they'd fucked. I felt sick and jealous but also horny. It was the first time I'd experienced that. I told her I wanted to see her and she was surprised, as she figured it was over but she came by and, sure enough, we fucked. So I guess it was like my first re-claiming. Oddly, things sort of flipped around, where she started seriously dating this guy but she would continue to come over and fuck me. I enjoyed the fact that she made her boyfriend wear condoms but let me cum in her pussy. I really got off on what a dirty slut she was and how she'd return to her boyfriend's place with a cum-filled pussy.

Eventually I moved on and several girls later, I met my now wife. We dated for 8 years and broke up a couple times mostly because I kept feeling like I wasn't ready to settle down and wanted to be single again but I could never stay away from her for long. The final time, she broke up with me because I wouldn't propose and was so mad / had sort of given up on me ever committing, that we stayed apart for 3-4 months. While we were apart, I agonized on the thought she was propably hooking up with other men. Every weekend I'd be out at bars thinking "I bet my ex is going home with someone right now to get fucked" and I'd feel jealous and sick but my dick would get hard. I ended up masturbating, imaging her getting fucked...

Weeks into the breakup, she told me I could come over and get some stuff she had. We ended up hanging out and she said I could stay the night but she wouldn't let me do anything beyond hold her. The next day she said she was still too angry with me and she felt like she couldn't get past it, that things were over and she didn't want to talk anymore.

Two months passed and I eventually convinced her to meet me for dinner. I proposed and we got engaged and ended up having sex that night. At some point I'd asked her if she'd been with anyone else to which she said, she had just dated a few guys and one of them kissed her at the end of the night but that was it.

I knew that was bullshit because my wife is a very horny girl and she had been very mad at me / basically said things were over for good. For years I would occasionally imagine what probably really happened and get hard, sometimes masturbate. That led into my watching cheating and hotwife porn.

Years later, she finally admitted the truth, incrementally over a couple occasions after having had some drinks. First the story was, she had dated a guy for a while and they had sex (couldn't remember how many times, so probably a lot) and she had danced and made out with another dude at a club. Of course, later, found out she had also fucked the guy from the club.

It made me a bit jealous but mostly turned on at this point. Looking back, I realized, the night I slept at her place, after we'd been broken up, she must have already been fucking other dudes. I also found out, she told the guy she was dating that she was going meeting me for dinner, the night we got engaged and he begged her not to go. After I proposed to her, we went back to my place and fucked all night... so I always wondered how long it had been since she fucked the other guy, whether it was days or hours. Another part I really enjoy thinking about is that my then "ex-girlfriend" was still in a relationship when she accepted my ring, cheated on her boyfriend with me, then the next day, after sleeping at my place, she went back and broke up with him.

I posted previously, if you wanted to know, about the episode where she finally admitted she'd fucked the second guy and the hot sex / dirty talk that followed: https://www.wifewantstoplay.com/threads/fucked-on-break-up-got-wet-telling-me-later.29399/

All these experiences inevitably led me more and more into enjoying MFM and hotwife porn. I'm not into the humiliation aspect but I find that I really get off on women being naughty sluts. I confessed this to my wife a few years ago and it was not initially well received but a lot of progress has been made since then. Whether she'll make the jump and ever actually do anything is yet to be seen...

 

[Siesta Swingers]

My sexuality was “imprinted” with pornography that glorified the promiscuous “Slut”. My first exposure to sex was women in Playboy, Penthouse, Hustler, etc. As a kid I masturbated while visualizing women as slutty pornstars.

Teenage dating in the age of Sex Drugs and Rock and Roll was wild. Id double date with a friend, end up at a vacant home and we’d fuck our dates on the same bed, watching each other.

My first teen girlfriend cheated on me but still wanted to fuck me too. That fueled my developing cuckold fetish.

Subsequent girlfriends all cheated on me which I found sexually arousing. I was attracted to “Sluts” and wanted relationships with sexy promiscuous women.

I married who I thought was a slut but once married she wanted secure monogamy.
I continued to participate in gangbangs and cheated on my wife with Slutty women that I adored.

I eventually divorced, found a real Slutty Woman and while dating her we participated in the swinging lifestyle. Once I was convinced that she would continue to fuck other men we got married.

We’ve been married for 10 years now and my wife is the Dream Girl, The Penthouse Playmate I always dreamed of being married too. She loves fucking attractive hung men and enjoys MFM and gangbangs which I participate in.

Today, I get the most sexual gratification from watching my wife fuck another man bareback and then fucking her sloppy seconds pussy.
That is pure ecstasy!

 

[Asian-doll]

For us , we've been together for a long time and wanted to spice things up. We love porn and one day we decided we're going to let a site randomize a video and whatever pops up we'll do our best to reenact it. And we've haven't turned back. Lifestyle/ kink has been great ever since.

 

[subwhite]

Having a truly pathetic little prick makes it natural for me

 

[Older hubby61]

Her confessing to me about her bachlorette party a few years into our marriage

 

[2cruzin3]

Well mine started when my mom fucked a black guy while I was in middle school and my Dad was at work. Then later I found their porn stash. It was all interracial and cuck porn. So I figure my Dad knew about it and set it up. Then I sucked off a friend in high school. Both of these situations left me confused as to what was normal sexually. Then later on, a girlfriend fucked a black guy when I couldn’t get it up at a party. After these things, my desire grew and grew the more I fed it with fantasies about black men fucking white women. When I met my Wife, her sister was fucking black men. This got us talking about my fantasy. Shortly after we were married, a black bull from work convinced me to let him work on my Wife. after several meetings and kissing and groping, nothing came of it. But that started the seed in her also. There are many other situations, but these are the basic seeds of my kink.

 

[Iahotwifeshusband]

My first serious girlfriend, who I dated in college cheated on me multiple times throughout our four year relationship. I can’t say I caught her every time, but I caught her cheating five times in four years. Very likely it was more than five. She loved sex, unfortunately it wasn’t just sex with me that she loved. I was not open to sharing at that time.

My ex wife was very experienced when I met her and she definitely used sex to get what she wanted. It worked with me and I would be a fool to think she never fucked anyone else during our relationship. Sex was something she enjoy and it was definitely a tool she used to her benefit through her life. She would have been fun to share had I realized I enjoyed sharing.

My wife was also very sexually active when we met and she also knows how to use sex to get what she wants. She was happy to share her kinky side with me and also told plenty of stories about her adventures before we met. She was proud of her sexual accomplishments. Even with that, it took over a decade for us to become comfortable enough to give this lifestyle a try. We are still finding our way and learning as we go. She has been playing for over six years now and has fucked 30 men during that time.

 

[theGherkin]

Short analysis. Wife cheats. Wife confesses my small penis did not satisfy her needs. We worked it out and I discovered I had a sph fetiish.

 

[toolman2c]

My ebony (black) wife was an escort many, many years ago. She had some nice paying customers so it was easy to rationalize her doing it on the side for extra $$$. However, I always got horny thinking of her blowing older white guy’s cocks, dancing naked for them, massaging them and having them massage her.

Back then, on many occasions, I would drop her off to a client’s house/hotel and wait in the car and be rock hard the whole time. This was my first foray into this area. Also, my wife loved to do lesbian sex shows of her with a woman for me. Since she is still with another person, it feels related to this sexual fetish realm, as I wouldnt join in, only watch. Watch and direct her how I want to see her fucking another woman. Then, once done, me and her fuck together till we are spent.

This was my wife during that time.

I enjoyed reading this, this older southern TN. white man thinks she is sexy hot. TY for bravely posting,

 

[toolman2c]

My first serious girlfriend, who I dated in college cheated on me multiple times throughout our four year relationship. I can’t say I caught her every time, but I caught her cheating five times in four years. Very likely it was more than five. She loved sex, unfortunately it wasn’t just sex with me that she loved. I was not open to sharing at that time.

My ex wife was very experienced when I met her and she definitely used sex to get what she wanted. It worked with me and I would be a fool to think she never fucked anyone else during our relationship. Sex was something she enjoy and it was definitely a tool she used to her benefit through her life. She would have been fun to share had I realized I enjoyed sharing.

My wife was also very sexually active when we met and she also knows how to use sex to get what she wants. She was happy to share her kinky side with me and also told plenty of stories about her adventures before we met. She was proud of her sexual accomplishments. Even with that, it took over a decade for us to become comfortable enough to give this lifestyle a try. We are still finding our way and learning as we go. She has been playing for over six years now and has fucked 30 men during that time.

are involved and see how hot she is with a new cock up inside her yearning treasure? does she take him bareback? do u get seconds? if not, would you want to?

 

[theGherkin]

My first serious girlfriend, who I dated in college cheated on me multiple times throughout our four year relationship. I can’t say I caught her every time, but I caught her cheating five times in four years. Very likely it was more than five. She loved sex, unfortunately it wasn’t just sex with me that she loved. I was not open to sharing at that time.

My ex wife was very experienced when I met her and she definitely used sex to get what she wanted. It worked with me and I would be a fool to think she never fucked anyone else during our relationship. Sex was something she enjoy and it was definitely a tool she used to her benefit through her life. She would have been fun to share had I realized I enjoyed sharing.

My wife was also very sexually active when we met and she also knows how to use sex to get what she wants. She was happy to share her kinky side with me and also told plenty of stories about her adventures before we met. She was proud of her sexual accomplishments. Even with that, it took over a decade for us to become comfortable enough to give this lifestyle a try. We are still finding our way and learning as we go. She has been playing for over six years now and has fucked 30 men during that time.

my first, my second and my third all cheated on me. The first I caught in the act, the second told me she had fucked other guys and the third purposely did it right in front of me ( not full sex but heavy flirting ) Then she took him to her bedroom. It was a houseparty at her and a couple of her girlfriends house. She had hinted that she wanted to break up but I insisted on trying to persuade her not too. She was quite drunk and decided to hammer the point home. She appologized the next day and we broke up slightly more gracefully. Not right then and there but a month or so later I asked her why because we seemed to be getting on very well. ( I suspected the answer but wanted her to confirm it) She did but still tried to spare me a bit until I told her I needed the full truth. She provided it. once again size can definitely matter.

 

[Iahotwifeshusband]

are involved and see how hot she is with a new cock up inside her yearning treasure? does she take him bareback? do u get seconds? if not, would you want to?

I have participated a few times, but my wife generally prefers to play one on one. Fortunately, she usually comes home and fucks me too. Her current fwb gets to fuck her bare and always sends her hoping dripping cum. I happily slide inside and fuck her well used and cum filled pussy. It is pretty awesome.

 

[dickhurtz]

great thread.

 

[dsmontessori19]

I met my first wife in one of the ports I pulled into, I heard from one of the guys her ship was also pulled in to that same port, So I went and found her on her ship, she didn't know I was going to be in town that day.. so.. we got a hotel room and i pulled her panties down, starting eating her pussy.. she tasted different and was really wet and creamy.. l lapped her to orgasam and she came all over my face, I slipped my cock in her pussy and instead of it being super tight, because we hadnt seen eachother in several months.. it was loose and super wet.. more of her cum ran down my balls and soaked the bed..

Several years later, she finally fessed up that when i came to the ship she was in the middle of getting fucked by 4 guys. the last guy finished, she pulled her panties up and came to see me. ive been hooked since.

 

[somos2conmuchos]

¿Cómo y qué experiencias vivieron ustedes, esposos y esposas, que los trajeron hasta aquí? Yo iré primero.

Mi primera novia, mi novia de la secundaria, me engañó justo delante de mis narices, de forma intermitente durante unos 3 años. Ella empezó a hacerlo a los 18. Fui a una cafetería a la que ella no me invitó. Me preguntaba por qué no respondía mis llamadas ni mis mensajes de texto, pero su prima que trabaja allí me dijo que estaba allí. Así que fui a sorprenderla. Cuando entré, ella se levantó rápidamente, le quitó la chaqueta a este chico y se la devolvió. Fui un idiota y no pensé en ello. Más tarde descubrí que ella se había estado follando con ese tipo y cada vez que me enteré era ingenuo y le creía que no lo era. Encontré mensajes de texto de él alardeando de que se la estaba cogiendo y que ella le dice todo el tiempo que él es más grande. Después de esto no hablamos por un tiempo pero finalmente volvimos a estar juntos.

Fui a Las Vegas para su cumpleaños y ¿quién sabes que está allí? Ese tipo. Ella lo invitó y me dijo que estuviera de acuerdo. Después de beber, lo maldigo. Ella me hizo disculparme con él a la mañana siguiente, después de que la vi salir de su habitación. Estaba directamente conectado con el nuestro.

Después de muchos casos así me fui. Una vez que me fui, vi Olvidando a Sarah Marshall y fue muy difícil, especialmente cuando él se la estaba follando mejor que su ex. Estaba tan confundido. Pero no podía dejar de pensar en mi ex y en ese tipo que se excitó por hacerme esto. Todas las historias de trampa en los medios sobre mujeres infieles empezaron a excitarme como loca.

Mucho más tarde descubrí que mi propio lugar iba bien en la vida y me jodí con muchas groupies en la banda en la que estaba. Ella regresa a mi vida y comenzamos a hablar. Lo curioso es que ella se desmayó borracha en mi cama en una de nuestras fiestas y me follé a su amiga en la habitación de al lado, quien ahora es mi esposa durante 10 años. Rompí los lazos con mi gran novia al día siguiente. Y ahora mi esposa y yo tenemos una vida sexual súper salvaje. Hablamos de esta fantasía y juego de roles hasta ahora.

hdesde cuba somos una pareja swinger bisexual los dos e interracial soy negro dotado y bisexual con 52 años mi actual pareja 29 años y juntos por 11 años y en mi caso personal la respuesta es que yo antes de tener sexo con una chica probe el sexo con un hombre al tener la primera novia mujer le propuse que tenga sexo con el hombre que quisiera para poder estar frente a los dos y ver como se veía su culo siendo clavado y ella viera igual como se veía el mio con la pinga dentro