What is your relationship like with your wife's FWB/Bull?

[thebeginner]

When my wife and I started discussing sharing her with other guys we both visualized me (hubby) being part of the fun. But early on when she had her first few dates we were both so nervous we thought it best to let her play solo to kick things off. It worked out very well. In fact, I find that I actually prefer her playing solo with her boyfriends and enjoying reliving the experience with her afterward.

Part of me enjoys her solo play, and being apart from them, but part of me is also excited by the idea of establishing deeper friendships with her lovers. I'm wondering if there are any pitfalls (or benefits) in hanging out with your wife's lovers, enjoying a drink together, and discussing fucking her?

How have other stags/cucks/husbands handled this? Are you close with your wife's lovers? Is it possible to be good friends, or am I being naive? Advice?

 

[Loridan]

We do this with a guy we know pretty regularly.
It's only sex fun, we don't socialize with him at all other than inviting him to backyard BBQ occasionally.
We always do this together, all 3 of us.

 

[Bat boy]

My wife was with a guy that works with my company, her boyfriend arranged it at a hotel, it was a bit awkward at first but it was just sex and he hasn't been spreading it around the office, he's even seen her a few times and invited her to a party I wrote about.

 

[Jam13]

We have been seeing a bull fairly regular now for about 6 months or so. We meet up at our place when we can inbetween work and family commitments. We don’t socially meet outside of this. Although I get on fine with him I try to keep things purely to the arrangement we have.

 

[SmallHubbyTexas]

My wife has 3 boyfriends and I am friends with all of them. I am not surprised, my wife wants the emotional connection and she has chosen men that I have a lot in common with. It was awkward at first for me, especially when we talked about how my wife is in bed, but I got over it quickly and now they are good friends.

 

[Couple4MFM]

My wife has enjoyed many different men over the years and every relationship has had a different dynamic. Some have been one-time things, while others have been regulars for many years now. Like, @SmallHubbyTexas my wife genuinely prefers an emotional connection with the men she is regular with so it is important that I can become friends with him.

Her regular boyfriend is a guy who has lived with us for most of the last twelve years, he sleeps in our bed with my wife between us and we share everything. We have become best friends and have a bond between us that is strong. There are four or five other men who are regular over the years and I consider them friends as well. It is important to my wife that me and the guys she likes are good with each other.

She has also found men who have for the most part been one-nighters and the sex was hot for her, but I did not get along or "like" them per se. I think it works best when we can get along and be friends.

 

[DaveS]

My wife has both one nighters and a regular lover. I get along well with her regular lover. I always liked the idea of being friends with the guy who was my wife's lover. It makes it easy when he comes over and we socialise before him and my wife play. Also no awkwardness as we have all been in bed together when he sleeps over.

 

[thebeginner]

My wife has enjoyed many different men over the years and every relationship has had a different dynamic. Some have been one-time things, while others have been regulars for many years now. Like, @SmallHubbyTexas my wife genuinely prefers an emotional connection with the men she is regular with so it is important that I can become friends with him.

Her regular boyfriend is a guy who has lived with us for most of the last twelve years, he sleeps in our bed with my wife between us and we share everything. We have become best friends and have a bond between us that is strong. There are four or five other men who are regular over the years and I consider them friends as well. It is important to my wife that me and the guys she likes are good with each other.

She has also found men who have for the most part been one-nighters and the sex was hot for her, but I did not get along or "like" them per se. I think it works best when we can get along and be friends.

Sounds awesome! That's the type of relationship I would like to have.

 

[thebeginner]

My wife has both one nighters and a regular lover. I get along well with her regular lover. I always liked the idea of being friends with the guy who was my wife's lover. It makes it easy when he comes over and we socialise before him and my wife play. Also no awkwardness as we have all been in bed together when he sleeps over.

That's so cool. Thanks for sharing

 

[thebeginner]

My wife has 3 boyfriends and I am friends with all of them. I am not surprised, my wife wants the emotional connection and she has chosen men that I have a lot in common with. It was awkward at first for me, especially when we talked about how my wife is in bed, but I got over it quickly and now they are good friends.

Great your wife picks her BFs with your interest in mind

 

[Jsking31]

We all go out together often. It’s added to our enjoyment. But she also has encounters with him alone.

 

[thebeginner]

We all go out together often. It’s added to our enjoyment. But she also has encounters with him alone.

That sounds like the perfect setup - it's what I'm thinking I would like for us as well

 

[Nerdy3rd]

So far for us, once we know a guy is not a one and done I want to talk with him to make sure he understands 1) our dynamic and 2) that I’m not a threat to him.

I don’t really have friend chemisry with my wife’s bf but we get along. I wonder what it would be like if we did.

 

[Jsking31]

That sounds like the perfect setup - it's what I'm thinking I would like for us as well

It took a long time to get to that though

 

[Jsking31]

That sounds like the perfect setup - it's what I'm thinking I would like for us as well

Feel free to DM if you want ti chat more about it

 

[toolman2c]

When my wife and I started discussing sharing her with other guys we both visualized me (hubby) being part of the fun. But early on when she had her first few dates we were both so nervous we thought it best to let her play solo to kick things off. It worked out very well. In fact, I find that I actually prefer her playing solo with her boyfriends and enjoying reliving the experience with her afterward.

Part of me enjoys her solo play, and being apart from them, but part of me is also excited by the idea of establishing deeper friendships with her lovers. I'm wondering if there are any pitfalls (or benefits) in hanging out with your wife's lovers, enjoying a drink together, and discussing fucking her?

How have other stags/cucks/husbands handled this? Are you close with your wife's lovers? Is it possible to be good friends, or am I being naive? Advice?

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if that's ur wife's butt, I love her hips, well rounded butt n thighs and the way her sexy treasured pussy sets there in need, my swelling cock likes the way it winks at it. YES it's exciting looking at her and wanting to explore All her bedroom skills.

 

[thebeginner]

if that's ur wife's butt, I love her hips, well rounded butt n thighs and the way her sexy treasured pussy sets there in need, my swelling cock likes the way it winks at it. YES it's exciting looking at her and wanting to explore All her bedroom skills.

Thanks! It is indeed hers. She's always looking to improve her bedroom skills - she's been practicing of late with her new FWB 😊

 

[Zdietz53]

For us, my wife has been seeing the same guy for a little under two years. He and I are cordial/friendly and we have a group text with the three of us for when we need to work out logistics and other things.

I am grateful that we can have friendly interactions that aren’t awkward but I don’t think either of us are looking to befriend one another.

Really appreciate the responses on this thread!

 

[thebeginner]

For us, my wife has been seeing the same guy for a little under two years. He and I are cordial/friendly and we have a group text with the three of us for when we need to work out logistics and other things.

I am grateful that we can have friendly interactions that aren’t awkward but I don’t think either of us are looking to befriend one another..

Really appreciate the responses on this thread!

That's awesome! Sounds like a perfect setup for you, your wife, and him. You're so right about removing the awkwardness. Sometimes I wish I had met my wife's FWB early on just for that reason. Thanks for your response.

 

[droopy1]

My wifes bull was actually the best man at our wedding. As soon as we were married he immediately took over as the man in her life. I was demasculated and locked in chastity becoming my new brides cuckold for life. At the wedding reception we put on the pretense of a normal "vanilla" marriage but on our honeymoon he slept with my wife exclusively in the bridal bed while I stayed in the sitting room of the suite ...... on the sofa. I had to listen night after night of them fucking and enjoying each other from the other room while I couldn't even jerk off. When we went out to various tourist sites I took pics of them together dancing, frolicking and making love on private beaches. He let me know from the start that he has full rights to my wife and that I was to be nothing more than a servant boy to them both. My wife agreed and told me that I would be obedient to him and his arrangement if I wanted to be married to her. She said that my happiness should come from being her cuckold and the subordinant in our wife led marriage. She reminded me that I could never attract another woman given my under developed penis and inability to preform coitus so I should consider myself lucky. He doesn't live with us but visits often and long and is my wifes regular lover while I remain in chastity. When he visits I immediately become submissive to him and serve him in every way. I accept his superior position over me and doing as I'm told in my own house. This amuses my wife and seems to make her attracted to him even more when he is rough with me. If I slack on my housework or do something to displease her in his absence then when he comes over she has him punish me. I just go along and acknowledge that he is my superior and I've learned to accept my place.