What is your relationship like with your wife's FWB/Bull?
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We do this with a guy we know pretty regularly.
It's only sex fun, we don't socialize with him at all other than inviting him to backyard BBQ occasionally.
We always do this together, all 3 of us.
It's only sex fun, we don't socialize with him at all other than inviting him to backyard BBQ occasionally.
We always do this together, all 3 of us.
My wife was with a guy that works with my company, her boyfriend arranged it at a hotel, it was a bit awkward at first but it was just sex and he hasn't been spreading it around the office, he's even seen her a few times and invited her to a party I wrote about.
We have been seeing a bull fairly regular now for about 6 months or so. We meet up at our place when we can inbetween work and family commitments. We don’t socially meet outside of this. Although I get on fine with him I try to keep things purely to the arrangement we have.
My wife has 3 boyfriends and I am friends with all of them. I am not surprised, my wife wants the emotional connection and she has chosen men that I have a lot in common with. It was awkward at first for me, especially when we talked about how my wife is in bed, but I got over it quickly and now they are good friends.
My wife has enjoyed many different men over the years and every relationship has had a different dynamic. Some have been one-time things, while others have been regulars for many years now. Like, @SmallHubbyTexas my wife genuinely prefers an emotional connection with the men she is regular with so it is important that I can become friends with him.
Her regular boyfriend is a guy who has lived with us for most of the last twelve years, he sleeps in our bed with my wife between us and we share everything. We have become best friends and have a bond between us that is strong. There are four or five other men who are regular over the years and I consider them friends as well. It is important to my wife that me and the guys she likes are good with each other.
She has also found men who have for the most part been one-nighters and the sex was hot for her, but I did not get along or "like" them per se. I think it works best when we can get along and be friends.
Her regular boyfriend is a guy who has lived with us for most of the last twelve years, he sleeps in our bed with my wife between us and we share everything. We have become best friends and have a bond between us that is strong. There are four or five other men who are regular over the years and I consider them friends as well. It is important to my wife that me and the guys she likes are good with each other.
She has also found men who have for the most part been one-nighters and the sex was hot for her, but I did not get along or "like" them per se. I think it works best when we can get along and be friends.
DaveS
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My wife has both one nighters and a regular lover. I get along well with her regular lover. I always liked the idea of being friends with the guy who was my wife's lover. It makes it easy when he comes over and we socialise before him and my wife play. Also no awkwardness as we have all been in bed together when he sleeps over.
Jsking31
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We all go out together often. It’s added to our enjoyment. But she also has encounters with him alone.
Nerdy3rd
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So far for us, once we know a guy is not a one and done I want to talk with him to make sure he understands 1) our dynamic and 2) that I’m not a threat to him.
I don’t really have friend chemisry with my wife’s bf but we get along. I wonder what it would be like if we did.
I don’t really have friend chemisry with my wife’s bf but we get along. I wonder what it would be like if we did.
Jsking31
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It took a long time to get to that though
Jsking31
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if that's ur wife's butt, I love her hips, well rounded butt n thighs and the way her sexy treasured pussy sets there in need, my swelling cock likes the way it winks at it. YES it's exciting looking at her and wanting to explore All her bedroom skills.
For us, my wife has been seeing the same guy for a little under two years. He and I are cordial/friendly and we have a group text with the three of us for when we need to work out logistics and other things.
I am grateful that we can have friendly interactions that aren’t awkward but I don’t think either of us are looking to befriend one another.
Really appreciate the responses on this thread!
I am grateful that we can have friendly interactions that aren’t awkward but I don’t think either of us are looking to befriend one another.
Really appreciate the responses on this thread!
My wifes bull was actually the best man at our wedding. As soon as we were married he immediately took over as the man in her life. I was demasculated and locked in chastity becoming my new brides cuckold for life. At the wedding reception we put on the pretense of a normal "vanilla" marriage but on our honeymoon he slept with my wife exclusively in the bridal bed while I stayed in the sitting room of the suite ...... on the sofa. I had to listen night after night of them fucking and enjoying each other from the other room while I couldn't even jerk off. When we went out to various tourist sites I took pics of them together dancing, frolicking and making love on private beaches. He let me know from the start that he has full rights to my wife and that I was to be nothing more than a servant boy to them both. My wife agreed and told me that I would be obedient to him and his arrangement if I wanted to be married to her. She said that my happiness should come from being her cuckold and the subordinant in our wife led marriage. She reminded me that I could never attract another woman given my under developed penis and inability to preform coitus so I should consider myself lucky. He doesn't live with us but visits often and long and is my wifes regular lover while I remain in chastity. When he visits I immediately become submissive to him and serve him in every way. I accept his superior position over me and doing as I'm told in my own house. This amuses my wife and seems to make her attracted to him even more when he is rough with me. If I slack on my housework or do something to displease her in his absence then when he comes over she has him punish me. I just go along and acknowledge that he is my superior and I've learned to accept my place.
I’ll admit, there was a bit of awkwardness at the beginning which is probably expected as this was the first time for any of us in this type of interpersonal dynamic. I give all the credit to my wife for navigating us through any initial awkwardness.
I hope that you get to a good understanding with your wife and her FWB.
Hey Sean here.
For us now I'm responsible for finding and choosing the men who will join us in the bedroom. For number of years now the encounters have been one night stands. When bring them up to out hotel room have a threesome and then they leave.
There was roughly a four year period when lived in Denver that we had two regulars. Co-workers of hers. They could fuck her anytime and as often as they wanted, but the rule was I had to be present. It worked. For the two regulars, Kevin and Robert, we developed a non sex oriented friendship where we would hike and backpack together. Jennifer would also golf with Robert.
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We hooked up with a local guy our age. He's a guy we knew pretty well. Divorced, lived alone, nice guy.
First time wasn't really planned, we were at his place having a dri.nk and just visiting. Conversation turned to women he had dated since being divorced, how some had no desire for sex but wanted a solid relationship, others wanted no relationship but wanted sex.
We ended up having a fun threesome with him. We would see him out and about and would go back to his place. We did it two more times at his place. I thought it was good but wife just didn't click with him.
We still see him around town, it's very awkward. Now I wish we hadn't done it with him.
First time wasn't really planned, we were at his place having a dri.nk and just visiting. Conversation turned to women he had dated since being divorced, how some had no desire for sex but wanted a solid relationship, others wanted no relationship but wanted sex.
We ended up having a fun threesome with him. We would see him out and about and would go back to his place. We did it two more times at his place. I thought it was good but wife just didn't click with him.
We still see him around town, it's very awkward. Now I wish we hadn't done it with him.
Our 1st FwB was a friend before he became an FwB. It was a bit awkward after our 1st MFM but we soon got over it. He was our FwB for about 2 years, we socialized with him and got on pretty well. He was discreet which definitely helped.
Our current FwB is sex only, we don't socialize with him a he lives a fair way away. But he and I get on quite well, we have a lot in common and can converse on many subjects, not only about my wife. Its his 1st time as a "bull" and he is enjoying the role. He finds it quite empowering to sit down and have a coffee or beer with the husband of the woman he is fucking. I enjoy doing the same with the man who is fucking my wife. Yes we do talk about sex and my wife, what she likes, how I feel, how he feels etc but also we talk about sports, fishing, hunting, politics and a hundred other topics. Probably not best mates yet but I think it will happen if he hangs around.
Our current FwB is sex only, we don't socialize with him a he lives a fair way away. But he and I get on quite well, we have a lot in common and can converse on many subjects, not only about my wife. Its his 1st time as a "bull" and he is enjoying the role. He finds it quite empowering to sit down and have a coffee or beer with the husband of the woman he is fucking. I enjoy doing the same with the man who is fucking my wife. Yes we do talk about sex and my wife, what she likes, how I feel, how he feels etc but also we talk about sports, fishing, hunting, politics and a hundred other topics. Probably not best mates yet but I think it will happen if he hangs around.
You said he finds it quite empowering and you enjoy doing the same thing. How can you find it empowering? I would think you would feel the opposite. I do around our bull. I feel somewhat inferior in his presence knowing he takes my wife and she prefers him.
I am curious if you also participate and do the 2 men ever plan anything for the woman? For instance bondage, edging etc.
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