What now? Need advice.
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this just her opening position in this process. Talk with her about it while in pillow talk. Get her to tell a story of how it would go. This get her thinking and since she is telling you in her mind you are there somewhat. then go little steps to move her in the right direction/It has to be her idea all the way, just steer her where you hope to end up.
Be a good sissy cuckold husband - offer to do anything to make her happy including sharing her and being a sissy cuckold for her.
I personally believe you should be patient. She may want to see how she will react. She may be scared that she will let loose in a way that has never done in for you and she is afraid that you will judge her. With that said how about a medium ground. Have her arrange something go to a hotel bar and when she is been wanted and taken by her new friend you are patiently sipping your drinks waiting on her. You never know she may invite you upstairs or not and tell you all about it. But i believe you are at a great place
I am going to be honest with you and i will try to be respectful. If indeed she texted him want to fuck me and he said yes this means you are very late to the party meaning she fucked him before that text message. This reply is conditioned on the fact that events played out as you stated them
So @Hotwife8682, please finish this story. Did she finally get laid? Have you been cuckolded? We're all anxious to hear how this turns out.
So true. The sooner she gets fucked bareback the better, and you are able to prove your acceptance by cleaning her used pussy. Spon you will be involved and there to taste the fresh cream.
IMO, let her do it her way. If you can handle the angst. Fair warning, it can be intense. Truth be told, being there doesn't always play out the way you have it scripted in your mind. Correction, it rarely, if ever, does! Enjoy the journey while you and she sort this out together!
You captured things very well. This has been my experience for 40+ years. It never changes - I never get "used to it". I still get the full range of emotions from jealousy to anxiety to excitement to sometimes anger (when she stays out later than expected). I ride the emotional rollercoaster for the exact reasons you described. It's why I enjoy the LS and why it's worked for us through successful careers and raising a healthy family.
Two thoughts I have on the subject. From experience, a couple I know decided an open relationship. In fact the husband was the one who suggested it. Fast forward a couple years, they are not together any longer. She is cute and is offered many chances to fuck others and does quite often.
He on the other hand doesn't have have women running up to him waiting to get laid. He finally decided to end it but she did not want to stop.
So the relationship crashed.
Secondly, this hobby or LS is based on something that works for both people and is agreed upon by both. You need to be totally committed to each other so you can do others without fear of losing your partner. I dont agree on "just let her go ahead and do it alone". That isnt something that is agreeable to you both. I'm like you. I'm not a cuck. I'm a stag and want to watch her enjoy herself. I dont have to participate but I damn sure want to watch her enjoy that other cock and share in her enjoyment and orgasms. I'll sit quietly in a corner and not say a word but I'm going to share in making her happy. If your not involved in choosing people and she is just dating to please herself, you are screwed because she doesn't care about your feelings and you dont have a relationship.
Hi. New update... few day's ago she told me she did it with him. About 10 times last month in his second apartment. She told me one month later, with many details. I was out of my mind...she going out with her friends was a lie souch a heavy feelings... jealous, angry, sad... it got me horny too. Now she wants an open marrige and to continue to see him. Dont know what to think anymore. Please,help.
No help needed. She’s going to do what she’s going to do. Now accept that you created this and enjoy. At least you now know when she’s not at home she’s still got a bed to sleep in. If not his, mine.
There is another idea and I've done it a few time for the wife and hubby. Was instead of a threesome, the wife tells the hubby to get a chair and sit there to beat off all the way to having a steel cage on his junk and handcuffed but she is getting railed right in front of you
I've only done that once. He got undressed expecting a threesome but she just pointed at a chair. He sat. He held out a condom and she tossed it back. Otherwise she ignored him until we'd finished and she saw he'd shot over himself and she threw him a tissue as she went past.
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