Our biggest taboo fantasy/desire is for her to actually realize her desire to get pregnant by someone other than me. The ideal situation for her would be someone she meets, develops a longer term relationship with, and they decide that they both want a pregnancy together. They stop any pretense of birth control, likely by then nothing more than not meeting when she is in her fertile time of the month, and hopefully nature does her job. She wants to continue to see her Lover during and after their pregnancy and he takes a "favorite Uncle" role while we raise their progeny. She would be totally faithful to him before, during, and after the pregnancy for as long as he continued to stay around. She had this type of relationship with her Boss/Lover, but she never got pregnant, likely due to his age (older) and several medical issues. They ended the affair during COVID, he got REALLY weird about it.
Something we both REALLY want to happen, but most of her Lovers have been co-workers and now everyone works remote.....very little business travel, and if so it's not the same as pre-COVID where they were already friends, maybe Lovers. Was MUCH easier to meet people you work with daily.......she can't make the decision to move from talking to someone on the internet to actually meeting and I understand that. Internet is FULL of liars and losers.......just read all 30 pages here!! LOL And she HATES being "rejected", so if she did meet someone decent on the internet and THEY were not interested.........well, lets say that would not be fun. Unlikely she would ever meet anyone that way. Oh well..........fantasy is fun too.
CW