What was your relationship like with wife/gf after diving into this lifestyle?

Hello all,

I wanted to ask, at the time this lifestyle was still new and fresh to you both, what changed about your wife/gf, and your relationship with eachother?
Its been.great we are open.alot more to.each others wants and needs
She dresses better works out dresses sexier with me when she goes out with friends even.her work attire has an.air of sexiness When.she goes out to play some of her outfits are CFM.feel
Free to ask anything here or Dm Bob and Red
 
We started going to swinger clubs when we were dating. That changed us both a little.

For example, before swing clubs I was fairly sure I was a stud and competent cocksman. It didn't take me long to see there were men at the club who had me soundly beat in regards to size, stamina, and their ability to please a woman.

It didn't take my wife long to realize the same.

Soon your wife has a few favorite men who she dresses sexy for at the club. Also, there will be men she is in pursuit of, and those who are in pursuit of her as well.

It changes things so you have to keep an open mind and put jealousy aside.
 

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علاقتي بزوجتي جميلة ورائعة ولكن في البداية كنت مستاءً ولكن مع مرور الوقت فهمت حاجتها للجنس لأنها زوجة مثيرة فتقبلت ذلك وزاد حبنا وإعجابنا ببعضنا البعض
 

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Hello all,

I wanted to ask, at the time this lifestyle was still new and fresh to you both, what changed about your wife/gf, and your relationship with eachother?
Our marriage and our commitment to each other remained the same. Our sex life went off the charts. And stayed that way. My wife having sex with other men was an integral part of our relationship - each of us understood the other's needs and accepted them.
 
The frequency of sex (intercourse) between us slowed initially, and became even less the longer we were involved.......but the INTENSITY of it went off the charts!!! Knowing I was now where her Lover had been very recently and she still had his sperm inside of her...WOW!!!
Intimacy actually picked up, meaning the time we spent in bed talking about her escapades and new desires, and reliving them but not having actual intercourse became a lot more frequent and regular. This requires a STRONG relationship to begin with.....it won't fix a bad marriage. CW
 
We started going to swinger clubs when we were dating. That changed us both a little.

For example, before swing clubs I was fairly sure I was a stud and competent cocksman. It didn't take me long to see there were men at the club who had me soundly beat in regards to size, stamina, and their ability to please a woman.

It didn't take my wife long to realize the same.

Soon your wife has a few favorite men who she dresses sexy for at the club. Also, there will be men she is in pursuit of, and those who are in pursuit of her as well.

It changes things so you have to keep an open mind and put jealousy aside.
This sounds eerily similar!

I too made the mistake of thinking I was a good fuck and had a decent dick. It’s a sobering experience when you realise there are levels to this.