What was your relationship like with wife/gf after diving into this lifestyle?

[staggy]

Hello all,

I wanted to ask, at the time this lifestyle was still new and fresh to you both, what changed about your wife/gf, and your relationship with eachother?

 

[CONST65]

Hello all,

I wanted to ask, at the time this lifestyle was still new and fresh to you both, what changed about your wife/gf, and your relationship with eachother?

Its been.great we are open.alot more to.each others wants and needs
She dresses better works out dresses sexier with me when she goes out with friends even.her work attire has an.air of sexiness When.she goes out to play some of her outfits are CFM.feel
Free to ask anything here or Dm Bob and Red

 

[TexasDaddy]

We were poly. She knew I was breeding hotwives before we got married. One of them lived with us.

 

[SmallHubbyTexas]

Hello all,

I wanted to ask, at the time this lifestyle was still new and fresh to you both, what changed about your wife/gf, and your relationship with eachother?

My wife got more confident. We also got closer emotionally. I think it strengthened our marriage and we became better husband/wife. We talked a lot more, making sure we were doing ok.

 

[GrovelingCuck]

We started going to swinger clubs when we were dating. That changed us both a little.

For example, before swing clubs I was fairly sure I was a stud and competent cocksman. It didn't take me long to see there were men at the club who had me soundly beat in regards to size, stamina, and their ability to please a woman.

It didn't take my wife long to realize the same.

Soon your wife has a few favorite men who she dresses sexy for at the club. Also, there will be men she is in pursuit of, and those who are in pursuit of her as well.

It changes things so you have to keep an open mind and put jealousy aside.

 

[Nawal69]

النتائج​

علاقتي بزوجتي جميلة ورائعة ولكن في البداية كنت مستاءً ولكن مع مرور الوقت فهمت حاجتها للجنس لأنها زوجة مثيرة فتقبلت ذلك وزاد حبنا وإعجابنا ببعضنا البعض

 

[Hotwifelove]

It was good. We had been married for about five yrs before we did this. We have been married for over 35 yrs now.

 

[Stevens4fun]

Hello all,

I wanted to ask, at the time this lifestyle was still new and fresh to you both, what changed about your wife/gf, and your relationship with eachother?

Our marriage and our commitment to each other remained the same. Our sex life went off the charts. And stayed that way. My wife having sex with other men was an integral part of our relationship - each of us understood the other's needs and accepted them.

 

[JMNBABE]

The frequency of sex (intercourse) between us slowed initially, and became even less the longer we were involved.......but the INTENSITY of it went off the charts!!! Knowing I was now where her Lover had been very recently and she still had his sperm inside of her...WOW!!!
Intimacy actually picked up, meaning the time we spent in bed talking about her escapades and new desires, and reliving them but not having actual intercourse became a lot more frequent and regular. This requires a STRONG relationship to begin with.....it won't fix a bad marriage. CW

 

[proudcuck40]

We started going to swinger clubs when we were dating. That changed us both a little.

For example, before swing clubs I was fairly sure I was a stud and competent cocksman. It didn't take me long to see there were men at the club who had me soundly beat in regards to size, stamina, and their ability to please a woman.

It didn't take my wife long to realize the same.

Soon your wife has a few favorite men who she dresses sexy for at the club. Also, there will be men she is in pursuit of, and those who are in pursuit of her as well.

It changes things so you have to keep an open mind and put jealousy aside.

This sounds eerily similar!

I too made the mistake of thinking I was a good fuck and had a decent dick. It’s a sobering experience when you realise there are levels to this.

 

[GrovelingCuck]

This sounds eerily similar!

I too made the mistake of thinking I was a good fuck and had a decent dick. It’s a sobering experience when you realise there are levels to this.

I bet you never thought of being a cuckold before, but then seeing those swinger studs the thought started to enter your mind.

 

[owlmale]

I learned there are better men no matter how good you think you were. One of them ended up being a good friend of mine.

 

[TexasDaddy]

I shared my female subs with her, and I let my friends fuck her. She helped me breed young submissive girls.

 

[JHotbrewer]

Better and better

 

[Stevens4fun]

The frequency of sex (intercourse) between us slowed initially, and became even less the longer we were involved.......but the INTENSITY of it went off the charts!!! Knowing I was now where her Lover had been very recently and she still had his sperm inside of her...WOW!!!
Intimacy actually picked up, meaning the time we spent in bed talking about her escapades and new desires, and reliving them but not having actual intercourse became a lot more frequent and regular. This requires a STRONG relationship to begin with.....it won't fix a bad marriage. CW

Our commitment to each other remained strong, if not stronger, - the changes we experienced were in our schedules, working the fun into our lives. How did you two deal with it and work her lovers/BFs into your lives? The one friction area we experienced tended to be when my wife had asked her BF over, or planned travel with him, and I wanted to have access to her for an event, etc. etc. There's more planning than one might imagine, especially of hotels and travel are involved was what we found.

 

[Anon321]

We were actually FWB when we stepped into the lifestyle so we ended up being much closer after.

 

[thebeginner]

Hello all,

I wanted to ask, at the time this lifestyle was still new and fresh to you both, what changed about your wife/gf, and your relationship with eachother?

Our relationship is so much better. More open about sex. I’m not sure we have more sex, but when we do it’s much better. I love the fact she has another guy that fucks her and fulfills her fantasies. This may sound weird but it’s taken some of the pressure off of me in the bedroom.

It has increased her self confidence and I think she is looking after her health and fitness more than ever as she always wants to look her best when she’s with him.

The trust and openness between us has never been stronger

 

[dinoo-2]

Our marriage was already an extraordinary one: we loved each other very much.

But when my wife turned into a HW, our bond became even more stronger.
I think that especially detailed talks about her happenings made us closer than ever.
She kept surprising me, culminating in an unexpected gang bang.

In the weeks that followed, she made no secret of how much she had enjoyed this gang bang.
It was the last thing I would have expected from her, but it typifies our relationship: we talked about everything that could possibly be discussed.
In detail. It was precisely those details that brought us so close together.

 

[stubbyhubby]

It saved our marriage. After just 4 months we were on the verge of divorce. Convincing her to try fucking someone else before we split up was the thing that ensured we stayed together. We loved each other, but the sex was bad thanks to my tiny dick. Once she was able to be sexually satisfied it opened the door for us to bond and become a couple without the stress of her being sexually frustrated or me being stressed about not being able to satisfy her.