A subject to provoke a reaction,
I can see both sides to the argument but in reality cuckoldry has been about as long as mankind, ive always found it strange in western culture that a family tree is traced via the father as this makes family trees worthless really. Who is really certain about their biological father? unless they carry defining traits from him? In traits i mean distinctive features, my wife has her dads distinctive nose for one example, so there is no doubt here, her brother doesnt and our children havent inherited it.
Certainly there are moral issues but this is a cuckold site and some here actively practice cuckoldry, us as an example. The majority of actual "normal people" call them what you wish i would suggest wouldnt touch this site for toffee as it is a taboo subject, for a reason, it happens.. Yet there are millions of women with children not the product of thier husband and i would suggest historically up until recent DNA developments few men bringing up these kids have known this. Did it harm them NO.
Have the children been told, NO, they were brought up, married had children and died and never knew, did it harm them NO, should they have been told....?
I have long suspected that our ...... may not be mine biologically, is this a secret my wife keeps from me well she has never suggested she was not mine, however is very coy about giving details about her first affair but not so about her second. The true actual date of conception is guesswork however i can verify a date when they were alone together matches to within a few days of her fertilisation, from her medical records, am i bothered NO, i suspect she maybe doesnt know herself as days later i gave her my seed too.
She got annoyed when i mentioned this in passing, she became angry and defensive, saying get a DNA test. A definate NO i do not want to cause upset to our ........., my ...... and the questions that would follow. It is not a mission to me i reared her made her who she is, she is my ...... and i do not want to know.
She has admitted that after i was snipped at about 29 at her request, that during her second affair she always wanted and took his life seed into her fertile body, risky stuff for a female in her mid/late 20s but she also admitted she wanted his baby and was prepared to take the risk with the marriage, sure i would accept my status as a cuck husband. He fertilised his wife but not mine.
Is this morally wrong? or just that i know it? Obviously changes with DNA proved the game changer.