When did you realize you're dick wasn't enough for your wife?

She told me one night we had party and we were a little drunk.

She said the size difference between me and the other guys she had sex with during the last three months was extreme. And the pleasure difference too.

Two weeks after she already was having sex with her bull almost 5 times a week during the first two months 😂
 
We played with a couple and the guy was much thicker than me, she came from vaginal sex and squirted 3 times, I very rarely give her a vaginal orgasm almost always me licking her clit.
She told me afterewards she loves thick guys because they fill her nicely and hit the spot really easy.
 
This happened very late in life for me and still processing it I think.

Like the signs were all there in retrospect I guess with most girls I had dated cheating on me and a couple telling me I was small after we broke up, but most girls said I was average and I had no issue making them cum and we had great sex.

It wasn't until maybe 10 years into my marriage that I started realizing my wife was capable of bigger orgasms and I gues after she confessed that almost all her exes were bigger. And now that she mainly has sex with a larger dildo and I see the effect it has on her while my dick has little to now effect I realizes now that I'm too small to actually please her.

So was curious when you all discovered/realized your dick was too small? Or how did you realizes your wife needed/wanted larger?
My cock is not small, it is larger than average, what I have learned my wife needs more cock than I can provide, so I share her with other men. Yes she prefers well hung men for the obvious reasons, and many are bigger than me, but the real concern for us is one man it not enough for her. I love to share her with other men, black ones as she prefers, and we will either take turns fucking her or we will both fuck her together. When it is all over and we are both spent laying on the bed she will laugh get up and have a drink and wait until we are ready to do it some more.,
 
My gf tells me she’s happy with my dick, but I can only make her cum when she’s on top and am rubbing her pussy while also fucking her.

Few months ago we bought a 6 inch dildo and she would initially struggle to fit it in, saying it was too thick, but 30 minutes later having orgasm of her life. Since then, we almost always use the dilldo first to get her to come multiple times while I get the seconds
 
My gf tells me she’s happy with my dick, but I can only make her cum when she’s on top and am rubbing her pussy while also fucking her.

Few months ago we bought a 6 inch dildo and she would initially struggle to fit it in, saying it was too thick, but 30 minutes later having orgasm of her life. Since then, we almost always use the dilldo first to get her to come multiple times while I get the seconds
6in? you must have a teeny weeny, I'm so thankful my man is well hung and still lets me fuck other men.
 
I am quite small when soft, it shrinks dramatically.
Before when I had hairy bush you could not even see this, just a head out. It was commented a few times back in school in communal shower or when changing so I already had a clue, especially when going to sauna and seeing other dicks.

My wife is the only women I had sex with and yes, size of the penis was one of the reason I did not have it until my 20th, feeling unsecure. Wife slept with 4 guys before me (same age) and to be quite honest she approached me and took the initiative giving me her pussy to lick for the first date so it gave me some boost.

Then first time she mentioned kind of joking to me only I am too small when we visited a nude beach with friends long time ago. I was the smallest one among them and at the time only one completely shaved down as suggested by my wife time ago, it was so embarrassing back then. Also the size is one of the reason I shaved and now completely permanently smooth.

Wife never complained about size when erect though but never managed to cum too, not even close. She could cum with her ex around 8" and can with big dildo now or me eating her (sometimes 2 minutes is enough). She complains that I am too quick or sometimes not hard enough. Now she prefers dildo or oral to penetration.
I'm a grower and only about 2" when soft, but grow to 6". But the 1st time we had her ex fuck buddy join us (he's almost 11") and the way I seen her face amd moans, and jist plain wild....I know she needed more
 
Well yes, I’m around 5.5 inch but much thinner than the dildo sadly. We are looking to size up to see how she will take an 8inch dildo next
Amazing, hope the bigger dildo helps you both, has she tried any BBC yet, noting better than a big 9” thick black cock filling my pussy my man is big and thick but I still love bbc to join us and fuck me hard. Wishing you the best
 
I learned as a young teen when I could see other boy's in the locker room and how they were much bigger than me. I was always made fun of and would get dressed very quickly and always keep a towel in front of me. When I was to have my first encounter with a girl (lose my V) I could not even fill the condom. It was only 1/3 unrolled and so loose fitting that it wouldn't stay on. I was too small to penetrate her anyway and she pushed me away laughing. Strangely enough this turned me on and I jerked myself off in front of her while she continued to laugh and ridicule me. I knew from that point on that my relationship with girls was not going to be normal although I kept trying and failing. I really started to enjoy this humiliation and it became the reason for wanting to get with girls, so they would laugh at me then I would jerk off in my shame. I was soon known as the guy with a "tiny one" and girls actually wanted dates with me just to satisfy their curiosity.
 
Well it happened about ten years ago, we were in town and she directed me to this store I wasn’t familiar with it looked very indesript from the outside just said something about books. She told me to park and gave me a note with a number on it. I went inside and realized it was a porn shop.

I looked around for a while at different dildos and vibrators u til I made my way to the counter. I handed the note to the clerk and he looked up the item in the computer and went behind into the store room he came back with a rather large rubber dong or at least I thought so at the time.
He asked if this was what I wanted and I must have looked pretty stupid lookin g at it with disbelief until finally giving him a nod of approval having no idea if this was what she really wanted.
He put it in a black plastic bag and I paid and made a quick exit.

She took the bag from me when I got to the car and smiled when she felt the size of it.

She just put it in the backseat and we left for home.

It wasn’t until the weekend after that I actually made the acquaintance with it again when she brought it out when I was eating her out and asked me to use it on her.

I quickly realized the old myth size doesn’t matter was all a lie as she had a powerful orgasm in less than a minute while I was still busy working it into her. It was about 10” long with balls and a suction cup at the base. But I think it was really the girth that made the most difference.

After that night I was often replaced by her rubber lover after a while when we made love.
 

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