Where do I go from here?

So, last night went out for drinks and came home a little tipsy. We went straight to the bedroom and I turned the computer on like I usually do so we could watch Netflix in bed.

I mentioned on another thread about how I have a folder on my desktop called "XXX". Well a few days ago I made the thumbnail size large and the thumbnail for this folder, you can clearly see a big dicked black guy having sex with a white woman.

Well this folder finally caught my girlfriends eye and she said with a smirk, "that clearly isn't me and you!
:lol:
"

I said, "what are you talking about that is obviously me (I'm white)" and she started laughing and said, "you can put it on if you want!"

Of course I jumped at the chance and said "well if you insist!" From the thumbnail she thought it was anal sex which we've never had before so she was pleasantly surprised when I opened it and it wasn't!

I thought it was funny that she was glad it wasn't anal and that a black dude with a monster cock was more acceptable!

We were already touching each other at this point so I sat her on the edge of the bed in full view of the TV and sat behind her with my legs around her and continued touching her. She never watches porn, so seeing this monster dicked black guy right in front of her face was a bit of a shock! Less shocking to her than anal though!
:lol:


She was still enjoying herself though, I would have stopped if I thought she wasn't feeling it. When the video ended I closed it and in the "XXX" folder there is another folder called, "Wife Shared". She said to me in a curious tone "wife shared, what is that?!" So I right clicked play on the folder and it's a better quality version of this video here... https://xhamster.com/videos/beautiful-w ... m-10574544

At this point she said to me "why is it always black guys?" which caught me off guard! I just said "I don't know I think it's hot!" and continued kissing her neck from behind and giving her a sensual massage! She was getting wetter and wetter so I knew she was enjoying it a little bit!

When the video gets towards the end the wife in the video starts getting loud which caused us both to laugh because I had a window open!

After it ended she climbed on top of me and started riding! I clicked on another video while she was on top, this one here... https://xhamster.com/videos/riding-bbc- ... ie-xh1Trjy

She always says I have a big cock, I'm like 6.5 inches, but she has never had anything else to compare it to! I said to her while this video was playing, "and you think I'm big!" She never knew this video was on and she turned her head to look at it! I could tell she was amazed at the size of his cock!

Now this is where it gets a little hazy because I started getting flustered, admitting your fantasy is not the easiest thing in the world especially when it's something like this!

I said to her in my horniness, "do you think you could take that?" and her riding came to a halt and she said "what do you want me to say yes I could take that big black cock!?"

I was in shock! I couldn't believe after years of never telling her my fantasies I was now hearing them come out of her own mouth!
:o
Everything was now out in the open!

It was a little awkward at this point but I had to admit it! I said sheepishly, "well yeah I think it would be pretty hot!"

She said, "what you think me fucking a black guy would be hot?
:o
" and I said, "I think it would be hot!" once again!

She then said back to me, "alright then yeah, I think I could take that big black cock!" I was gobsmacked!

Now after she said this, she kept quizzing me, still sitting on top of me with my cock inside her!

She then asked me the same question that she asked a few weeks before, "this isn't some sort of ploy to get you to be able to sleep with other women is it?" Straight away I told her "no, I have absolutely no interest in sleeping with anyone else, I just think it would be hot watching you!"

She was having trouble understanding why I would want to watch such a thing and in my awkwardness said once again, "I just think it would be hot!"

Now this is where I screwed up a little, but I then said to her, "you know this is just a fantasy anyway!" I was just trying to get her out of her shellshock! She then said to me that she was trying her best and this is all new to her! In her own words she said, "I'm very vanilla! I don't know how to handle these things!
:lol:
"

I then said to her, "please don't tell anyone about this because that would be embarrassing!
:lol:
" and she said of course she wouldn't and I had nothing to be embarrassed about!

She said to me, "do you not think I did pretty well though considering?
:lol:
" I couldn't praise her enough for how she handled it! I said, "honestly you did amazing!!"

She then ended it with, "well like I said, I'm vanilla! I will play along, but next time can we just have normal sex with no mention of other guys?
:lol:
" and I said of course!

This morning we had amazing sex again, and I made sure not to make it all about her, no mention of other guys, just straight up lovemaking!

After it I told her, "see I can do vanilla!" and she got a good laugh out of it!

Well there you have it guys! Everything is out in the open now! She knows everything to do with my fantasy, I have nothing left to hide!
 
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As many other people have noted on many other threads here, you planted the seed, now be patient, nurture it when it needs nurturing and let it grow.

Going forward you’ll need to be loving, caring and strategic about how you further it bc she is telling you she will play along but isn’t into this kink herself. That means you need to have a positive psychological experience with her whenever it concerns your kink going forward.

She needs to feel like whenever the kink does come up that it’s fun for you both and a great experience so her brain starts to associate a dopamine release with the kink. That will lead to an increase in the events for you and her together.

I think it was smart you said it’s just a fantasy at this point bc she isn’t there with you. Down the road it can a different conversation but for now you have a long road ahead of you. Enjoy it!
 
Look like you are at the same boat! The wife's reaction is very similar. You should read my thread

I easily can compare the cases and found is very similar. Maybe we're a little further ahead but you never know. Maybe will never happen...

Keep seeding her brain
 
Yesterday we watched porn again during sex and she was totally cool with it!
:mrgreen:


I put on a video where the hotwife looks like my girlfriend and my gf said, “my ass is better than hers!
:P
” She then criticised the bedding in the video and said surely I could find a better video than this!
:lol:


She’s went from hating porn to saying my porn isn’t good enough!!
:lol:
Now that she’s open to watching porn I need to sit down with her and find out what she’s into!

She also said to me, “I love how you say you want to watch me have sex, but if I turned around and said I’ve found someone you would panic!
:lol:


I said, “do you have someone in mind?
;)
” and she said no, she was just making a point. I then said if for “talking sake” it was really to happen, then it should be with someone from out of town (so no-one finds out).

She said she will never do it in real life but is fully open to indulging my fantasies during sex!

I don’t know where to go from here! I want to play around with the fantasy a bit more before I tell her I am actually serious about it!
 
Yesterday we watched porn again during sex and she was totally cool with it!
:mrgreen:


I put on a video where the hotwife looks like my girlfriend and my gf said, “my ass is better than hers!
:P
” She then criticised the bedding in the video and said surely I could find a better video than this!
:lol:


She’s went from hating porn to saying my porn isn’t good enough!!
:lol:
Now that she’s open to watching porn I need to sit down with her and find out what she’s into!

She also said to me, “I love how you say you want to watch me have sex, but if I turned around and said I’ve found someone you would panic!
:lol:


I said, “do you have someone in mind?
;)
” and she said no, she was just making a point. I then said if for “talking sake” it was really to happen, then it should be with someone from out of town (so no-one finds out).

She said she will never do it in real life but is fully open to indulging my fantasies during sex!

I don’t know where to go from here! I want to play around with the fantasy a bit more before I tell her I am actually serious about it!
I think you’re at a really fun stage of this adventure, if your relationship and it sounds like you have an opportunity to enhance your communication and get to know each other even better. Good luck!
 
I think you’re at a really fun stage of this adventure, if your relationship and it sounds like you have an opportunity to enhance your communication and get to know each other even better. Good luck!

I tried to put the feelers out and see what she might like. I said what about blowjob videos and she said she likes to give them but doesn't think she will enjoy watching someone else give one! :LOL:

I said to her how funny would it be if she ends up liking some crazy bondage stuff or something! :ROFLMAO:

I also said to her that I've heard women like watching girl on girl because they know what to do with each other and she said "I guess that makes sense! :ROFLMAO:"

Here's hoping it's not pegging or I'll regret ever bringing any of this up in the first place! :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:

My vanilla girlfriend is on her way finally! :love: Hopefully she does like some crazy shit and it awakens a demon in her! :ROFLMAO:
 
Yesterday we watched porn again during sex and she was totally cool with it!
:mrgreen:


I put on a video where the hotwife looks like my girlfriend and my gf said, “my ass is better than hers!
:P
” She then criticised the bedding in the video and said surely I could find a better video than this!
:lol:


She’s went from hating porn to saying my porn isn’t good enough!!
:lol:
Now that she’s open to watching porn I need to sit down with her and find out what she’s into!

She also said to me, “I love how you say you want to watch me have sex, but if I turned around and said I’ve found someone you would panic!
:lol:


I said, “do you have someone in mind?
;)
” and she said no, she was just making a point. I then said if for “talking sake” it was really to happen, then it should be with someone from out of town (so no-one finds out).

She said she will never do it in real life but is fully open to indulging my fantasies during sex!

I don’t know where to go from here! I want to play around with the fantasy a bit more before I tell her I am actually serious about it!
Look like you are in good way 😁 I'm sure you can get a lot of fun in the journey and eventually in the end 😉 Hot and sexy clothes to make others stare at her and make she feel powerful
 
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I tried to put the feelers out and see what she might like. I said what about blowjob videos and she said she likes to give them but doesn't think she will enjoy watching someone else give one! :LOL:

I said to her how funny would it be if she ends up liking some crazy bondage stuff or something! :ROFLMAO:

I also said to her that I've heard women like watching girl on girl because they know what to do with each other and she said "I guess that makes sense! :ROFLMAO:"

Here's hoping it's not pegging or I'll regret ever bringing any of this up in the first place! :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:

My vanilla girlfriend is on her way finally! :love: Hopefully she does like some crazy shit and it awakens a demon in her! :ROFLMAO:
For starters-you need to post way more pictures and videos of your GF. She’s hot and sounds fun.

Also work with that. Ask what she thinks about other people lusting over her. If she’s receptive of that-Tell her you are going to start showing her off. Give feedback about how it’s how how bad men want her. Post more and more as she grows to like it.

Meanwhile Get some sex toys. Start with practical and have fun.

One day tease her, bring her to the brink of an orgasm but don’t let her cum. If you have already worked her over on posting content-then up the ante. Tell her she can’t cum until she agrees to do something really slutty-you want a video of her sucking a big cock (if she’s more likely to give head than to go in for sex). I have something else in mind that’s terrific but you’ll need to PM me.
 
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I tried to put the feelers out and see what she might like. I said what about blowjob videos and she said she likes to give them but doesn't think she will enjoy watching someone else give one! :LOL:

I said to her how funny would it be if she ends up liking some crazy bondage stuff or something! :ROFLMAO:

I also said to her that I've heard women like watching girl on girl because they know what to do with each other and she said "I guess that makes sense! :ROFLMAO:"

Here's hoping it's not pegging or I'll regret ever bringing any of this up in the first place! :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:

My vanilla girlfriend is on her way finally! :love: Hopefully she does like some crazy shit and it awakens a demon in her! :ROFLMAO:
Any progress??
 
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