Where do you look?

It depends on geography and profiles. I live in NYC and only like young ones. So it is very easy to find them at various, numerous bars. No need to go to club or look online. When you dress like a provocative middle age women, boys go crazy. They approach you quickly. I conduct in depth interviews at the bar. If they are lucky enough to pass the interview (and don't cum in their pants), then I take them home. If they perform as expected, they are put on file. When they are subsequently summoned, they have one hour to be at our apartment. I have many stories, but not for public chat.
For a start I am going to quote what you said: "When you dress like a provocative middle age women, boys go crazy." My first encounter with a hotwife happened when I was 23 years old. She was 50 but I thought she was like maybe 40. She looked that good. First time I laid my eyes on her was in a dance club in Torrance CA. She walked in with her girlfriend. I was sitting and facing the door and when I so them I tolled my friend ''Look at this two? You know they are here to find some dick." It was the outfits that gave it away. I got lucky that night she took me home and had her away with me.
So I know exactly what you are talking about and I can relate....
 
We prefer the rural life but we are close enough to downtown Dayton that it’s an easy drive but far enough to not run into anyone we know. People in our dinky little town would be shocked to find out that she enjoys being banged by sexy strangers.
Would like to play with you. 59swm bi...could bring 60 bi girlfriend
 
We prefer the rural life but we are close enough to downtown Dayton that it’s an easy drive but far enough to not run into anyone we know. People in our dinky little town would be shocked to find out that she enjoys being banged by sexy strangers.
Would luv nothing more than spending this Saturday servicing you two all day long.
 
We prefer the rural life but we are close enough to downtown Dayton that it’s an easy drive but far enough to not run into anyone we know. People in our dinky little town would be shocked to find out that she enjoys being banged by sexy strangers.
DM me what I could do for you two tomorrow morning. I would love to be a play toy with you two.
 
Like @Lynnandhubby said, hotel bars have had the best outcomes, but we do a bit of everything including online.

Our advice to newcomers, who tend to focus on the online services, is to keep focused on real-world settings. Beaches (nude is best), bars, casinos (dress provocatively), definitely swinger clubs that allow single males (some do, some don't), and vacation hotspots have all yielded good results for us. Seek and you shall find!
 
Like @Lynnandhubby said, hotel bars have had the best outcomes, but we do a bit of everything including online.

Our advice to newcomers, who tend to focus on the online services, is to keep focused on real-world settings. Beaches (nude is best), bars, casinos (dress provocatively), definitely swinger clubs that allow single males (some do, some don't), and vacation hotspots have all yielded good results for us. Seek and you shall find!

The very first swing club Kate and I joined only allowed single men on Thursday nights. The couples who attended on single-guy night were all hotwife couples there to get the wife laid. We made lifelong friends with other local couples who like having a promiscuous wife. My closest male friends have wives who are promiscuous sluts with their encouragement.

As for public venues, business hotels during the workweek have been the best places for Kate alone, or the two of us together, to find married men in town alone with nothing to do. When Kate was going out regularly to pick up men, she had a couple of business hotel bars that were favorites.

When Kate met a man she really liked, she would give him her cell number and tell him to call her the next time he was coning to our city. She ended up with several different men she saw regularly when they each were in our city. They would call my wife to set up a date for when they would be in town. They knew that they had a hot piece of ass waiting for them during their visit.

We also had a lot of luck picking up men when we would visit a local business hotel bar together.

Rob
 
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The very first swing club Kate and I joined only allowed single men on Thursday nights. The couples who attended on single-guy night were all hotwife couples there to get the wife laid. We made lifelong friends with other local couples who like having a promiscuous wife. My closest male friends have wives who are promiscuous sluts with their encouragement.

As for public venues, business hotels during the workweek have been the best places for Kate alone, or the two of us together, to find married men in town alone with nothing to do. When Kate was going out regularly to pick up men, she had a couple of business hotel bars that were favorites.

When Kate met a man she really liked, she would give him her cell number and tell him to call her the next time he was coning to our city. She ended up with several different men she saw regularly when they each were in our city. They would call my wife to set up a date for when they would be in town. They knew that they had a hot piece of ass waiting for them during their visit.

We also had a lot of luck picking up men when we would visit a local business hotel bar together.

Rob
Hotel bars are great. Plenty of horny, quality guys with a room right upstairs. Definitely a staple of the hotwife lifestyle!!
 
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Hotel bars are great. Plenty of horny, quality guys with a room right upstairs. Definitely a staple of the hotwife lifestyle!!

Kate always wanted to see a wedding ring on a guy. She knows how much a happily married man enjoys getting to fuck an enthusiastic uninhibited slut.

My wife 'dated' some of the married guys she picked up in hotel bars for a few years when they came to town. I never met any of them. Se would meet the guy for a drink in the hotel bar, then got to his room with him for a few hours, before coming home to me happy and used.