Her BF she had right before we started dating. She confessed they had “amazing sex”. They saw each other on and off for 6 years (started when she was going through a divorce). During that time they dated exclusively at times and also had periods where they dated others, but still slept together. He continued to try to sleep with her when she and I were dating, and even once we were married. She hasn’t slept with him tho, but has self pleasured on two occasions over the years after having talked with him on the phone and after having met him for coffee.