While it is true that most people here are enjoying a fantasy-life, there are those of us that have made a decision that the internet is a fun place to play, but not a good place to attempt to meet quality people. The way J's affairs are conducted does not lend itself to internet meetings at all. But we both enjoy the discussions we have, the fantasies entertained, and the open frank discussions we have in private with some people on here.
We also have had a BAD situation occur because of an internet meeting (guy lied about EVERYTHING down to smoking, which is an ABSOLUTE NO for us period) and, couldn't even afford to pay for his own $1.49 soft drink apparently (he left without paying for it), and was then FURIOUS that we had no interest in a follow up meeting and tried to force J in to meeting him by threatening to expose our personal private lifestyle if we did not allow him to be part of it.
We had to resort to revealing our situation to a friend in law enforcement who interceded and ended the problem, but who needs that shit in their life. For all the good the internet provides, and all the good it COULD provide, it also has opened any persons life to the losers of society.
The probability of her actually meeting someone this way is as close to non-existent as possible, and its almost funny the number of guys on here the believe there are women that are so sexually deprived that they need to resort to late night clandestine discussions online like "hi baby", "hi back, do you always approach women you don't know by calling them baby?", "I am horny, I got a big one, can we have sex now"!! LOLLOL Makes me chuckle every time I realize how many times this happens when she is online reading posts.
So the importance of "verifying" us/her so some guy in the UK or Greece or 5 states away from any we live in that we are never going to meet can have better jerkoff orgasms because he can see a photo of her and know she is real lacks any importance to us. We have teken the photos, they are on my cell, but there is absolutely ZERO reason for us to post them.