Wife here. Looking for some help on a present.

Get him a french maid outfit and a cock cage. Have him cook, clean and do all the other chores for you, on his birthday. Get a nice long dildo with a suction cup. Wear only your sexy underwear and have him wait on you hand and foot for his birthday. Occasionally fondle, lick suck or even get yourself off with the dildo. Make him wash you head to tow in the shower, while you fondle the dildo stuck to the tiles. Let him see you handle a big toy and serve you as you see fit, while there's nothing he can do about it.
I like this idea for you. From your previous posts I don't think you're keen to involve others in your play and I can't say I blame you, at least for first steps.
One embelishment of this would be for you to ride the dildo and then make him lick it clean of all your juices. I don't know if he's into sissy play but this would be a good way to find out. If he's caged and his little willy tries to get hard while sucking fake cock in front of you or at your command, you'll have a good indication of the direction you should take this.
 
I like this idea for you. From your previous posts I don't think you're keen to involve others in your play and I can't say I blame you, at least for first steps.
One embelishment of this would be for you to ride the dildo and then make him lick it clean of all your juices. I don't know if he's into sissy play but this would be a good way to find out. If he's caged and his little willy tries to get hard while sucking fake cock in front of you or at your command, you'll have a good indication of the direction you should take this.
What's more humiliating than cleaning your wife's juices off a big veiny dick (silicone or otherwise), while you're dressed as a female servant and caged on your own birthday? Feed him a breakfast of whipped cream off the same dildo. If you both enjoy it, maybe next year he can get pegged with it?
 
I like this idea for you. From your previous posts I don't think you're keen to involve others in your play and I can't say I blame you, at least for first steps.
One embelishment of this would be for you to ride the dildo and then make him lick it clean of all your juices. I don't know if he's into sissy play but this would be a good way to find out. If he's caged and his little willy tries to get hard while sucking fake cock in front of you or at your command, you'll have a good indication of the direction you should take this.
This is great. Thank you both so much for this.
 
Snowy31 just a suggestion.. try to invite his brother or someone he respects a lot and then flirt in front of him till the guy is convinced to fuck you. No better shock and humiliation than finding out own wife behaves so shamelessly in front if his sibling or best friend. Anyways like I told it's just a suggestion. Rest you know better.
 
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Snowy31 just a suggestion.. try to invite his brother or someone he respects a lot and then flirt in front of him till the guy is convinced to fuck you. No better shock and humiliation than finding out own wife behaves so shamelessly in front if his sibling or best friend. Anyways like I told it's just a suggestion. Rest you know better.
No.
Don't do this.

FFS. It's not porn
 
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My husband has asked me to humiliate him for his birthday next month for a full day. Just to play out as close to his fantasy as possible. He has a full cuckold fantasy, he wants to watch, clean, be forced to suck etc. I, however, am not willing to do all of that it's just not my game. But I would like to give him a birthday to remember. The closest I've gone previously is just saying I would fuck someone because I want a bigger dick etc while he pleases himself or I please him. I want to do more than I've done before but just can't see myself with another man. Not right now anyway I guess. Thanks in advance x
Just a couple ideas very tame but good for beginners.

Go out to a club and dance with a guy. Ur hubby's mind will do the rest of the work. Just smile and laugh alot during the dance.

Other idea, go get a couples massage. Make sure it's a male doing them. Then later while you have sex tell him how wonderful it felt having the man touch you all over.

Either one will be hot in his mind. But both very respectfully innocent.
So you don't have to feel any the guilt of doing anything sexual or to humiliating.

Now if you have an adult theater close by and want to push the boundary a bit. Go! There is bound to be a cock out at some point. You can announce to everyone how it's bigger than his. But that's a bit of a stretch for new people
 
You simply cannot go wrong combining a well-fitted cock cage with facesitting him. 69 position (sans reciprocal attention) is the best because it puts you in complete control while offering him unfettered access to everything he needs. And if he’s not already, you want him to get really good at/used to rimming you in this posish…and all others. Get off yourself and don’t be surprised if he gets excited enough to have a hands-free climax himself…while locked.
 
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Get onto Fetlife or a similar site and look for a married couple, discuss your predicament with them. Leave him tied up outside room or in the bathroom.

Double date and he can be the only one caged up. Leave him tied up outside room or in the bathroom after dinner, with a eyemask. U dont have to play if you dont want.... U just have to watch or be present use a dildo while u watch them. When the guy comes or the girl squirts or both. Smear some on him let him know ure done for the evening.

Let him clean up the cock or a pussy. Then remove the mask upon leaving.
If you are reading this, Snowy31, my wife and I could be down in Birmingham on the night of Friday 18th and do this past midnight to see in his birthday.

Have a meal together. Lots of flirting. Loads of compliments for you.

Then, at the end of the meal, we will all join together and strip him, then sit him back down on a chair and tie him to it.

Then you fetch the cage. Don't mention it to him between now and then. He might think you have forgotten that you have it.

Up to you what happens next...

Do you want to put it on him, and tell him that he asked you to do this, so you thought you would go all in?

Or have my wife put it on him, while she tells him he is getting nothing tonight?

Or have me look him in the eye and tell him that I am really going to enjoy tonight as I snap it shut around him?

Which would turn you on the most? Which would he find most humiliating?

Then we put on some music and tell him that you have gone to a lot of trouble and arranged a birthday disco for him, so he had better enjoy it!

We all dance together. Maybe a bit flirty, a bit touchy feely. Each of us sticking our bum out for a bit of a spank, or feel.

My wife could go over to him and stick one of those party blower things that unroll and make a noise in his mouth. Tell him that seeing as he can't show his appreciation with his cock, he had better show us how aroused he is by blowing that.

Then the music gets slower. We entwine a bit. Hands everywhere. (Optional for you to join is as much or little as you want at this point with snogging and groping of either or both of us)

Then one of us asks you to lift your dress.

We slowly pull down your knickers, right in front of him. You go and pull them over his head and eyes. Then my wife's knickers. Then, finally, my boxers.

He can't see, and can smell how excited we all were.

Then you go over to him and whisper in his ear:

"We're off to the bedroom now. You'll be OK here, won't you?"

Then we go through, and you are in charge. If you want to play with either or both of us- that's great. If you want us to fuck while you use a vibrator on yourself, until we all cum noisily, that's fine, too.

You say what happens to my cum. If you want it on your body or clothes so that you can make him lick it then that's what will happen.

What next?

We could leave, or we could sleep with you in your bed while he sleeps, still caged, on the couch. And he could make us all breakfast, as our Naked Chef, on his birthday.

Message us if you want this to happen, or to discuss alternative scenarios. I have a great imagination!
 
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My husband has asked me to humiliate him for his birthday next month for a full day. Just to play out as close to his fantasy as possible. He has a full cuckold fantasy, he wants to watch, clean, be forced to suck etc. I, however, am not willing to do all of that it's just not my game. But I would like to give him a birthday to remember. The closest I've gone previously is just saying I would fuck someone because I want a bigger dick etc while he pleases himself or I please him. I want to do more than I've done before but just can't see myself with another man. Not right now anyway I guess. Thanks in advance x
(Having read the other posts and comments)

You might try pivoting the request. It looks almost like he has a specific scenario in mind he wants to play out... the way he wants it. That is, he wants to be in charge of it.

In D/s terms, this could be 'topping from the bottom'.

You could turn this around: he wants you to control him in the way he wants... instead, you can let him own the situation.

You're not comfortable with the idea of having sex with another man... fair enough. But your husband wants to be forced to do certain things.

(This gets a little more crude, to make the point... and perhaps suggest some phrasing to use with him)

Give him part of what he's asking for, with the possibility of more. He wants you to fuck another man, so he can clean you after and 'be forced' to suck cock.

"I'll think about it... if you go first. Be a cocksucker for me, baby, and we'll see how I feel about letting in me after. It might not be the same night even, maybe I'll let you sleep with the taste of his cock and his come in your mouth. If you're a good little cocksucker for me maybe I'll feed you his come... maybe off me, maybe from inside me."

While this isn't exactly what he's said he wants, I suspect that as long as you're present and involved (even if just holding his hand... or balls... or pushing his head down on the hard cock) it'll be close enough.
 
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(Having read the other posts and comments)

You might try pivoting the request. It looks almost like he has a specific scenario in mind he wants to play out... the way he wants it. That is, he wants to be in charge of it.

In D/s terms, this could be 'topping from the bottom'.

You could turn this around: he wants you to control him in the way he wants... instead, you can let him own the situation.

You're not comfortable with the idea of having sex with another man... fair enough. But your husband wants to be forced to do certain things.

(This gets a little more crude, to make the point... and perhaps suggest some phrasing to use with him)

Give him part of what he's asking for, with the possibility of more. He wants you to fuck another man, so he can clean you after and 'be forced' to suck cock.

"I'll think about it... if you go first. Be a cocksucker for me, baby, and we'll see how I feel about letting in me after. It might not be the same night even, maybe I'll let you sleep with the taste of his cock and his come in your mouth. If you're a good little cocksucker for me maybe I'll feed you his come... maybe off me, maybe from inside me."

While this is exactly what he's said he wants, I suspect that as long as you're present and involved (even if just holding his hand... or balls... or pushing his head down on the hard cock) it'll be close enough.

(Having read the other posts and comments)

You might try pivoting the request. It looks almost like he has a specific scenario in mind he wants to play out... the way he wants it. That is, he wants to be in charge of it.

In D/s terms, this could be 'topping from the bottom'.

You could turn this around: he wants you to control him in the way he wants... instead, you can let him own the situation.

You're not comfortable with the idea of having sex with another man... fair enough. But your husband wants to be forced to do certain things.

(This gets a little more crude, to make the point... and perhaps suggest some phrasing to use with him)

Give him part of what he's asking for, with the possibility of more. He wants you to fuck another man, so he can clean you after and 'be forced' to suck cock.

"I'll think about it... if you go first. Be a cocksucker for me, baby, and we'll see how I feel about letting in me after. It might not be the same night even, maybe I'll let you sleep with the taste of his cock and his come in your mouth. If you're a good little cocksucker for me maybe I'll feed you his come... maybe off me, maybe from inside me."

While this is exactly what he's said he wants, I suspect that as long as you're present and involved (even if just holding his hand... or balls... or pushing his head down on the hard cock) it'll be close enough.
It I may add a little twist to this suggestion? Cage him at least 3 days before the event, longer if you think neccessary. The hornier he is, the more likely he'll do it. Make performing these tasks a condition of his release.
You'll have to provide some aftercare once you allow him his release. He'll need to be reasssured that you still love him.
 
Get onto Fetlife or a similar site and look for a married couple, discuss your predicament with them. Leave him tied up outside room or in the bathroom.

Double date and he can be the only one caged up. Leave him tied up outside room or in the bathroom after dinner, with a eyemask. U dont have to play if you dont want.... U just have to watch or be present use a dildo while u watch them. When the guy comes or the girl squirts or both. Smear some on him let him know ure done for the evening.

Let him clean up the cock or a pussy. Then remove the mask upon leaving.
that's exciting, I like the way you think,. have you done simular??
 
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My husband has asked me to humiliate him for his birthday next month for a full day. Just to play out as close to his fantasy as possible. He has a full cuckold fantasy, he wants to watch, clean, be forced to suck etc. I, however, am not willing to do all of that it's just not my game. But I would like to give him a birthday to remember. The closest I've gone previously is just saying I would fuck someone because I want a bigger dick etc while he pleases himself or I please him. I want to do more than I've done before but just can't see myself with another man. Not right now anyway I guess. Thanks in advance x
Bring in a man, tie your husband up. Get him suck the man until cum in his mouth. And you become the watcher and let the man to fuck him the way he wants. Remember bring a big dick guy
 
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My husband has asked me to humiliate him for his birthday next month for a full day. Just to play out as close to his fantasy as possible. He has a full cuckold fantasy, he wants to watch, clean, be forced to suck etc. I, however, am not willing to do all of that it's just not my game. But I would like to give him a birthday to remember. The closest I've gone previously is just saying I would fuck someone because I want a bigger dick etc while he pleases himself or I please him. I want to do more than I've done before but just can't see myself with another man. Not right now anyway I guess. Thanks in advance x
If you dont want to fuck another man but keep things stirred up
Get dressed up.really sexy have him.take you out but you wear a long coat so he cznr see how revealing whst your wearimg dance eith another guy tease him.how great a dancer the guy is how you felt later you go hone and fuck hubby when he askes the nect day you tell.him.you were so turned on by dancing
 
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