My wife ,who is typically somewhat reserved in the bedroom ,occasionally gets super horny and plays along with my fantasy of watching her get gangbanged. The last time she got this way was pretty amazing. She put on a porn video of a woman getting gangbanged. We watched it together while I fucked her in the ass and fingered her. The problem is this is super rare. I think the stress of daily life and everything that comes with getting older gets in the way of our more exciting sex life. When she is relaxed and horny she can be a real slut and I love it. She's pretty much down for anything,anal,facials,gangbang tal but it happens so infrequently. Is anyone else in the same boat? Anyone have advice or interested in hearing more?
Wife plays along with my fantasies
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Been here for a long time. Mine enjoys sex but not as often as I wish she would. She will play with her pussy and do that a lot. But she finds that sex doesn’t turn her on as much. All I do is help her the best I can and encourage her to do what makes her happy. I have no problem if she wants to fuck others. In fact I encourage it if it will help her.
Could be a number of things going in, but what I do know is that women feel uninhibited when they feel safe to do so.
I see another post that says you took your wife on a date, which is always my first suggestion- date your wife. Weekly, at least. Shower up, trim and clean nails, trim your junk and iron a shirt. Make that effort.
What happens after these fun sessions when your wife lets loose? If we over talk and get pushy thinking "shes so close" for days after, then the safety is gone.
If pillow talk is always around gangbangs, try a few sessions just talking about how absolutely sexy she is, and all the other reasons you're with her.
Not sure of age, but at some point women do stop looking for abs and a huge cock, and start feeding off of connection and security.
Ask what she needs.
Just my .02
I see another post that says you took your wife on a date, which is always my first suggestion- date your wife. Weekly, at least. Shower up, trim and clean nails, trim your junk and iron a shirt. Make that effort.
What happens after these fun sessions when your wife lets loose? If we over talk and get pushy thinking "shes so close" for days after, then the safety is gone.
If pillow talk is always around gangbangs, try a few sessions just talking about how absolutely sexy she is, and all the other reasons you're with her.
Not sure of age, but at some point women do stop looking for abs and a huge cock, and start feeding off of connection and security.
Ask what she needs.
Just my .02
Yep, my wife definitely has the occasional super sexy moments. Alot to do with hormones. She gets soaking wet at those times and definitely let's her guard down regarding certain acts etc. I've just learnt to go with and accept it's more an occasional thing.
My wife's 48 and I think the sex is getting better and better but those times are definitely next level. Unfortunately it makes for slow progress when trying to introduce news ideas etc
My wife's 48 and I think the sex is getting better and better but those times are definitely next level. Unfortunately it makes for slow progress when trying to introduce news ideas etc
Sometimes all you can do is open the door, it's up to her to walk through it. My wife is cherished and adored, she knows she treated like a queen. We are both in our 50's and in great shape. I am a decent looking guy with excellent hygiene, have given her a "hall pass" and we have had explicit sexy talk while making love, but she has never used it. We have even discussed it outside of the bedroom, with complete honesty. She knows without a doubt what I would like to happen. All you can do is make it about her and allow her to do what she wants, Hopefully, one day she will cash in her hall pass. I only have on rule and that is no lying, when and if anything occurs, she must tell me. She has known this for 10 years and so far, nothing but dirty talk during sex. If it happens, it happens if it doesn't its ok. I will love her the rest of my life. After all it's all about her anyway!
