Wives - do you always tell him?

generoushub

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A question for the wives. Do you always tell husband when you've had sex with other men?

Do you always say without fail? Do you sometimes keep it to yourself? Do you lie about having sex with others sometimes?

I'm curious to know as although my wife and I are swingers, I also know she's had sex with people she hasn't told me about, or lied. She was a cheater anyway before we started swinging and did the same to other boyfriends too. So I guess it might just be her personality?
 
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I know my wife has lied about other men several times, one I set her up with, he was grateful and would keep me informed about what they were doing, by being honest with each other we realised how much she was lying to us both, we worked together to get her to go in the direction we wanted.
 

CONST65

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A question for the wives. Do you always tell husband when you've had sex with other men?

Do you always say without fail? Do you sometimes keep it to yourself? Do you lie about having sex with others sometimes?

I'm curious to know as although my wife and I are swingers, I also know she's had sex with people she hasn't told me about, or lied. She was a cheater anyway before we started swinging and did the same to other boyfriends too. So I guess it might just be her personality?
My wife and i are totally open and honest with one another .my wife has been hotwife for 4vyears total communication is a must or one or both will get hurt
 

PreJac

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To start with my wife told me everything, but soon we felt it was pointless having to report everything she’s doing and she wanted a level of privacy between her and her partners, so it stopped. Now I get very little detail about her and her boyfriend
 
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jw_kk

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KK was never, and has never been happily monogamous. She cheated even as far back as we were dating. That behavior persisted through the first half of our married life, before we transitioned to the hot wife lifestyle. That said, even though KK has free reign to have sex with whomever she wants, she still keeps secrets.

It is part of her personality - a sort of power and control thing. I accept that I may never know about all her partners or encounters. I actually find it erotic.
 

CONST65

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I dont always tell him but i never hide it or lie about it. I used to hide it when i was in other relationships but its so much easier being open.
My hotwife diesnt tell.ne every detIl i dont want to know but she does tell.necwhere they are and when she on the way home she will.tell.me they are out dancing on the way to the room showered together. . As well.as he really knows how to fuck etc but not the intimate detIls its better for us that way
 

Kinkykat

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Not always no
When we first started dating I did things
He said that he never got angry when exes cheated
So since he never seemed to suspect I never told
Now however yes I tell him about encounters
Where full sex happens but none of the rest
 

Lynnandhubby

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There have been many times over the years that I haven’t found out after the event and I’m sure there have been a few that she’s failed to mention but we really don’t have the need to keep secrets. Lynn knows that she has my encouragement to fuck whoever she wants. The majority of the time I’m present.
J.
 

CONST65

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Absolutely no reason to hide it for us. I am not cheating. He allows me the freedom to explore sexually and enjoys hearing and seeing my adventures.
My wife always tells me we are bery open with one another we discuss out lifestyle and her wants and needs. She tells me about her adventures in general not some pf the specific's about the fucking she received tgat between the two of them
. I love hearing about her wants and needs ot has made our sex life even more intense
 
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We got started in the lifestyle because I was cheating and got caught. I've always been ashamed of that. Fortunately my husband forgave me and was understanding of my needs. I never hide any of the encounters I have from him and try my best to always be done when I say so he doesn't worry. I don't share explicit details about what the other men do to me as that's really not a turn on for him.