This is a much younger guy that lived on the street we built out house on and actually he was one of the reasons we built where we built, he seemed a good friend for our son. And he was for a while......but as he got older he started stealing from people on the lake, gas from boats, breaking in to homes, stupid things like that. And he made the error of breaking in to OUR home with some other bad influences on thhe street. All they took was some stupid toys of our sons, who they had all come to HATE by then as he became a well known performer in our area, and they were basically hoodlums, and some loose change we had in cans which was how they got caught....the guy that owned the store down the street found it pretty unusual that this group of kids had $30-$0 dollars to spend.
My husband has a cardinal rule, you get ONE chance with him and if you blow that chance you NEVER get another one. Period, EVER. Stealing from us, after everything we had done for him over the years, is simply unforgivable for my husband. He has never spoken to him since, only glares at him and hates that he even comes back to the neighborhood.
So finding out that not only am I having sex with him behind his back, AND that I am not using my diaphragm and actually HOPE he will get me pregnant, lets jsut say that would not be a fun sexy night. Probably would be the end of a marriage actually. But I can't turn him down, so I take that risk and hope I can convince my husband to accept it if he ever finds out.
J (the wife)