Women with under-endowed husbands

[StagnGuam4Cpls]

Well here is another newsflash - no one is going to tell me that a woman can enjoy a cock as small as these guys. Of course most of us know that a cock is not everything in a relationship but it is a big part in a lot of relationships. There are heaps of well hung guys who are respectable, loving good providers and really take care of their women. Admittedly there are the others that think that a huge cock is all it takes and they'll fall at his feet. They are the losers you'll find and there are many of them. My point was, why would a woman go so far as to marry a guy with a small penis if she can get something else that suits her. There are heaps of guys she can fall in love with if that is what she is wanting. "A big dildo will do the same", give me a break, next you'll be telling us that a male masturbating sleeve is as good as a real pussy. I'll take the pussy every time thanks.

Sorry but you just made it obvious that you have no clue about women and their lives. Yes, I know your point is about satisfaction being fulfilled. Thus, you really need to learn about women. They do not see cocks and dicks the same way we see them. To a woman, a cock serves only two functions, Getting her pregnant and interrupting her space. Now if we were talking sex, well then women see cocks in a different light but in the same light as a hair brush, Dildo, beer bottle, and I have even seen women use make-up bottles. What you dont understand is women want security and stability first, then a family, then satisfaction. Sure, they would love to have a live dildo when they think of sex (which is 5 times more than a man does) but they also consider other concerns first.

 

[StagnGuam4Cpls]

We have been married for 57 years and I was aware from the start that my wife would need more than I could give her, I was a little below average at barely five inches she was happy with that for a while, by the time she was 30 she was getting bored and was happy to have someone else fuck her when I suggested it, she had a range of men including one very big one he was eight inches plus and very nearly as big round as a Coke can, he was a bachelor but had learn to control his self so she could take her time to accommodate him, she loved it it really got her off and he had access to for almost 20 years, eventually being older than her he was unable to to the job as he had and she began looking around for another cock to keep her happy, this time he was just about average or a little better but nothing outstanding like the previous guy, they soon learnt each other's likes and dislikes and he turned out to be a very attentive lover and makes her orgasm five or six times whenever they meet, she tells me that it even beats the big guy she was having before, me well I just started to shrinking 15 or more years ago when I started taking meds for hypertension I then had cancer and chemotherapy which shrunk my dick even more. I know have prostrate problems and am on meds for that which has shrunk my dick to about an inch and a half when it is hard if I can get it hard, she lost all interest in it years ago when it first started to shrink, I think we have seen most sides of the coin over the years and can honestly say I don't think it matters what size you are it's how you use it that counts and how you treat her as a lover yes in her case I just got too small for her to bother with it as she claimed it did nothing for her as she just couldn't feel it.

I feel ya. We all will shrink as our bodies adjust to age. I have lost almost an inch and two fingers below the head is not as thick as the 6 fingers above the balls (yes, from 7 1/2 to 6 over the last 8 years. and 6 girth at about half way). So you are not alone and I have been reading up on what meds to avoid and what foods I need to eat. Develop your other skills and learn where her pleasure points are...they are all over the female body in places you would not imagine. You may not fill her up, but you can still fill her needs.

 

[StagnGuam4Cpls]

I fell in love with him. I had never been with a large one until recently .My husband told me he is 6 inches and thats average. Maybe so for white guys but I have seen a lot on line and they are bigger. I can have orgasms wih this guy by just intercouse,never did at all before

Damn @Mary1957, You need to get your man into a remedial class for sex. I was obsessive with size when I was young dumb and full of cum thinking I needed to be King Dong. That may be the reason I did grow a bit longer than my brothers and definitely thicker but I do think it is coming back to punish me (read above about size). I was lucky to meet an older woman when I was in my 20's that taught me what a woman needs verses what a woman wants. I stopped focusing on myself and turned laser focus on her. The pussy may squirt but the brain is where the orgasm is.

 

[StagnGuam4Cpls]

Quite frankly a stupid attitude. Yo could call me an old hand at this, having been with all sorts of men over the years. In terms of physical cock size there is a Goldilocks size. Sure there are some very small and very big examples, but the majority ore pretty average size and that works best for me.

The worst experiences I have had have been with young men with large cocks, they typically think they are gods gift and pound you like they are trying to demolish your pelvis. Beyond a certain size it becomes extremely unpleasant having a cock banging against your cervix, when combined with a poor attitude and lack of effort to give me pleasure, these are the worst experiences.

It is difficult to feel much from excessively small, especially when coupled with a fat belly that feels like you are being mounted by a giant slug. This extreme situation may result in some women seeking pleasure from a better endowed man, but this is the exception.

So many men have no idea what makes for a pleasurable experience for a woman. If you think what you see see in porn is a good example, think again! Give me an average sized cock attached to an attentive guy, that makes the effort to ensure I am having a good time over a comically large one used to bang my cervix into my throat any day.

PREACH

 

[StagnGuam4Cpls]

Agree completely. we are both swingers. Occasionally I'll organise for a big cock to surprise my tight wife. She enjoys it but a he has to work up to it. In all honesty I've seen her enjoy an average sized cock much much more.

I also agree that guys with massive cocks have zero personality at all. They're often single lonely guys who are clueless about women and relationships.

Sure there are some size Queens but from my visits t o swingers clubs these are normally big fat women. They need a massive cock to get past their massive ass.

The big cock thing I think is something that men like to see their wives getting fucked by. Don't get me wrong I do like her fucking a big cock.

But I found she likes men in their late 20s early 30s as they tend to have more energy and stamina. I think that's the real treat fo r her. My wife is 45 btw.

PREACH

 

[StagnGuam4Cpls]

Totally agree with @hotwifelexy. My ex-roommate had a huge 9” cock and had zero personality, and was a total asshole. He himself would say that women were lucky to have sex with him. He told me his typical sex session was letting a woman blow him and then just thrusting her as deep and hard as he could until he came, which would usually take 30 minutes. That’s it. Zero effort nor cares whether his big cock was hurting her. While we were roommates (we had bedrooms with a common wall) I was frequently treated to the sounds of his sex sessions. He would typically pick women up in bars, and bring them home after both of them were drunk. (No doubt he woman had to be drunk to tolerate him.) Every session sounded the same. They began with the woman making coughing and gagging noises while she sucked him (or should I say while he mouth-fucked them) and then the “oh my gods”, gasping, grunting and and yelping would start as he started pounding away. Once that began I knew i would be hearing his bed banging against my wall for 30 minutes with no pauses. How he was able to thrust for that long, with no breaks, without cumming was always amazing to me. But as was said, a big cock and 30 minutes of hammering a pussy impresses guys and their fantasies, and means zero in pleasuring a woman. That said, I would have loved to see him bang my gf at the time, now wife, with his big tool, but that was my fantasy, not hers. She wanted zero to do with him due to his asshole personality (despite having seen his big cock herself). He ended up marrying one of his conquests, a tall thin blonde who most would find attractive, but who was incredibly annoying and shallow - no surprise she was a lawyer by trade. A few times my gf now wife was over when one of my roommate’s sex sessions happened. I would tell her - listen to this! She would start blowing me while we listened to the gagging from the other room, and then mount me when the banging started. Within a minute she would be cumming multiple times while on top as she listened. After she was done, I would bang her tight Asian pussy doggy style and then put her legs over my shoulders and go deep until I came. All of that would take 10 minutes and then we would marvel as we listened to my roommate pound away for another 20 minutes. One time he went for an hour and I got hard again and my wife and I fucked a second time and finished while he was still pounding away LOL. My wife said “He must be murdering her with that big cock!” I guess some women would enjoy that treatment from a huge cock and tolerate the asshole attached to it but I would imagine they are few and far between.

I knew of a few like your room mate and I also knew the women. The women would meet me and come back to my place which was in the same building (USMC Barracks). We would fuck all night in different ways and positions soaking the sheets. She would then lay in my arms and tell me how horrible it was with "Big Dick". The few women that I slept with after they slept with the few Dicks always came over to visit me several times un-announced and with only one thing on their mind. No, I am not bragging, just relating my experience with your Truth. (NOTE: NOT all big DICKS are Black. There were 4 others of 9 or more that were White, Hispanic, and Hindu.

 

[StagnGuam4Cpls]

Have often seen men with huge cocks banging wives, and obviously it hurts them. I have 9 and half, but always probed the cervix softly and it opens up and accepts the cock and sucks onto it. Stimulating gently bring on the climax.

Not the Cervex. It is quite ridged and why birth is so painful. The vagina opens up and can extend just like a cock can get longer.

 

[StagnGuam4Cpls]

I have an affair partner who's husband is a true micro-penis sufferer. He's less than 3/4" even maximally aroused and full erect (if you can call his little nub an erection). She tells me she stays because divorce is a sin (yes, cognitive dissonance is at play here), her religion is the main reason she hasn't left him.

He is sexually useless, other than as a target of her humiliation.

Now Now.. Catholic religion is not cognitive dissonance. It is a fair and well practice belief. Just like the Mormons believe in Multiple Wives but no sex unless you are married (I guess that makes since, IF you gonna believe in that, then you gonna get married to get laid.) Baptist believe in no sex after marriage....LOL (If you get the pun).. and as for body parts, the smart women learn that men think with dicks and smart men dont have any dicks... (jab at asians)...

 

[atantonov]

We have been married for 57 years and I was aware from the start that my wife would need more than I could give her, I was a little below average at barely five inches she was happy with that for a while, by the time she was 30 she was getting bored and was happy to have someone else fuck her when I suggested it, she had a range of men including one very big one he was eight inches plus and very nearly as big round as a Coke can, he was a bachelor but had learn to control his self so she could take her time to accommodate him, she loved it it really got her off and he had access to for almost 20 years, eventually being older than her he was unable to to the job as he had and she began looking around for another cock to keep her happy, this time he was just about average or a little better but nothing outstanding like the previous guy, they soon learnt each other's likes and dislikes and he turned out to be a very attentive lover and makes her orgasm five or six times whenever they meet, she tells me that it even beats the big guy she was having before, me well I just started to shrinking 15 or more years ago when I started taking meds for hypertension I then had cancer and chemotherapy which shrunk my dick even more. I know have prostrate problems and am on meds for that which has shrunk my dick to about an inch and a half when it is hard if I can get it hard, she lost all interest in it years ago when it first started to shrink, I think we have seen most sides of the coin over the years and can honestly say I don't think it matters what size you are it's how you use it that counts and how you treat her as a lover yes in her case I just got too small for her to bother with it as she claimed it did nothing for her as she just couldn't feel it.

So would I be correct if I say SPAM You are hang like a newborn now<< ?

 

[StagnGuam4Cpls]

So would I be correct if I say SPAM You are hang like a newborn now<< ?

I dont think New Born is the measurement. (speaking in general) But We all lose some of our PRIDE ... so to speak...LOL

 

[Mary1957]

Damn @Mary1957, You need to get your man into a remedial class for sex. I was obsessive with size when I was young dumb and full of cum thinking I needed to be King Dong. That may be the reason I did grow a bit longer than my brothers and definitely thicker but I do think it is coming back to punish me (read above about size). I was lucky to meet an older woman when I was in my 20's that taught me what a woman needs verses what a woman wants. I stopped focusing on myself and turned laser focus on her. The pussy may squirt but the brain is where the orgasm is.

It starts in my vagina and goes to my head

 

[digitalzoom1]

So would I be correct if I say SPAM You are hang like a newborn now<< ?

As long as she is happy and getting the cock she wants I'm happy to help her achieve that, she does try to take charge and boss me about but then she's tried that ever since we were married.

 

[robbiewillsucku]

that is why we should learn to use our tongues and toys to please females.

 

[atantonov]

I dont think New Born is the measurement. (speaking in general) But We all lose some of our PRIDE ... so to speak...LOL

I didn't lose a think with the years... To me it looks like gravity has done a job on me... Looks like it has streтched and its longer then ever! I mean its not like it has dropped down to my knees, nothing like that... but it is getting closer!

 

[Mary1957]

I fell in love with him. I had never been with a large one until recently .My husband told me he is 6 inches and thats average. Maybe so for white guys but I have seen a lot on line and they are bigger. I can have orgasms wih this guy by just intercouse,never did at all before

Well after seeing some of the men here I guess mine isn't under after all

 

[owlmale]

I didn't lose a think with the years... To me it looks like gravity has done a job on me... Looks like it has streтched and its longer then ever! I mean its not like it has dropped down to my knees, nothing like that... but it is getting closer!

I`m good inch smaller and didn`t a lot to start with. I envy mature guys that can stay hard and not cum too quickly.

 

[Catholic_Wife]

Big cocks they picture and sound as an alluring factor and a challenge for my wife, and many women I had some further relationship and was able to talk about frankly.

And everyone enjoys alluring things and good chalenges, no doubt.

Bigger cock guys are desired by women for this magnetic reason and they take great advantage from this desire. No problem at all, fair trade. My wife used to told me she kept dating a guy in her very early days of sex discoveries solely because he was truly huge and she desired two things: one, to try that massive cock in every ways and prove herself she was capable of that prowess, and second, to tell her curious friends she was the first of them to fuck an endowed guy (and therefore, she was able to catch a bigger one before them).

After completion, she resorted to stay exclusive of her former boyfriend. The big cock guy wasn't a douche by any means in her words, but the ex-bf was really a better companion and she enjoyed to fuck him as well.

What any man can extract from those testimonials is that a bigger cock will always be a 'great' argument and might attract any women to taste it (married or not) now and then, but heck, you don't need to have a big one to make her cum real good or date her. Yes, the bigger guy in the party might had fucked your wife before you met each other and in contrast you hadn't fucked his girl, but the cock size rarely is the reason anyone marries or love somebody.

That said, micro penises might be a real burden for their small aflicted group of men. A small cock can do good for any pussy, but a just two inch dick, hell no. Plain no. For those guys, thoughts and prayers...and call the bulls to solve their partners needs.

 

[Mary1957]

I can't even feel husbands 6 inches anymore . I didn't know what I was missing until I got a big one

 

[SNJ_Dom]

I can't even feel husbands 6 inches anymore . I didn't know what I was missing until I got a big one

Has your hubby noticed anything different about you in bed? Other than him thinking you're wetter than usual.

Has your eye started to stray towards other black men, or are you keeping them on your young BBC?

 

[nicebiguy]

I wonder why women persevere with under-endowed husbands. Some of those men are really tiny. Surely they knew his size before they married. And the husband should know what she is missing out on and agree to her having another guy whenever she needs it. He is not out to steal her from him. Would be good to hear from a woman's perspective.

A therapist told me the biggest sex organ is the brain.