We are newbies , but through our many late night chats i have told my wife that my favourite thought and fantasy is to see her being fu>?ed in front of me, i have told her that for me the real pleasure is that i want her to want to do it because she wants to, for me its the taboo and that we are married and i want her to experience another cock in front of me, we have been speaking and things are moving in the right direction, i don't want her to do it for me, but for us, so talk and then talk again and then play and role play it with toys and see how it goes .
Something that we are planing to do is for Mia to let me film her and ask her some questions and also direct her to use her toys and be talking dirty about past lovers, as if we are to move onto the next step we need to feel comfortable .