Recent content by chuckrock

Now there's a well thought out reply. Thanks!

Done. Thanks!

Now I think I see the confusion. The word "our" should have been "your". Sorry about that, but it does make it very confusing. Can't edit titles that I can see either. :-(

Perhaps your question suggests it's point it not relevant. :-) It is a question of balancing sexual adventure with safety and the best way to have both. Maybe you can't.

So here might be our biggest sticking point right now. She has told me about a fantasy for years of having sex with a black guy for the typical reasons. We have toyed around with hit for years, but far from taking any action on it. Then she told me she really wanted to do it as we started...

Is it possible to feel excited about being a cuckold to my wife when in all other areas of our marriage and my life I tend to be anything but submissive? It feels like a disconnect for me and actually for her. She doesn't want to see me as weak in life--and doesn't yet--but the cuckold...

This seems tricky with all the bad intended people out there. She has a guy who seems ready to go but is also being kind to her (not pushy), so on the surface that could just be a set up to get her (or us) alone. She met him once at a bar and I was a couple tables away and watched. That added...

Thanks for the very frank reply and private message. I can't relate to the extreme version of cuckolding that you mention either. While it almost sounds from some that this is all about her pleasure, I don't see how it works if I don't get pleasure too. Not ever fucking my wife or other extreme...

So I'm not crazy, so thanks for confirming that. It sounds like unless I can get to a place where it's a discipline, I should hold off on coming until it is all over. I guess that's where the restraints and/or cage become part of the package. If you're bi that's not problem with me, but if...

Good comments guys. I hear the difference between fantasy and reality and perhaps that's why I need more time getting prepared. I cum quickly when she talks about what she wants to do, but as soon as I cum it doesn't sound fun for at least a little while. I don't want to get into this and find...

The whole cuckhold thing to me is very sexy up to the point I cum. Then I struggle to engage with any of it until this down period is over. That can last a little while. For example, when my girl tells me I'm going to practice for her by eating my cum after I cum in her, I get really excited...

This the the first step that I need as I explore the cuckhold lifestyle. I need to feel the jealousy and humiliation before it actually happens. I need/want practice to build up to it actually happening. For example, part of the humiliation for me is her telling me she needs a bigger cock and...