When I was just learning I tended to over do the make up. Funny thing was when I removed it at the end of the day and half the cosmetics were still on my face I thought It looked better. That gave me insight that helped me develop a more natural look. The "french whore" look was not my style I leaned more towards the "girl next door." Another important detail if you plan to go public is posture. Men walk by lunging forward and leaning into their step,women walk from the hip. Practice how to swivel at the waist and use the hip and buttock muscles to propel the legs. Smoothe cursive arm and hand movements with limp wrists are important also. Remember to hold your cup with both hands.When I'm in fem mode and dressed up this seems to come natural. Be careful not to over exaggerate. Your wife will be the best judge of how natural you look. I've found that by being in the company of women a lot and paying attention, a lot of soft feminine mannerisms would rub off on me.
A question for all those that enjoy wearing female clothing.
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Yes there’s so much to it and depends I suppose on how serious you are with it and where you want to go with it - I have been out previously with my partner ( now my wife ) and we used to go runs in the car to quiet bars etc and that was amazing - she would double check I looked ok and keep me right on womens mannerisms etc - it’s totally different being out I can tell you - sooo frightening but exiting . But once married she seemed to change and only no no now is a wig - she said it seemed like she was dating a woman and isn’t a lesbian - she actually confessed because of that she had been starting to check out other women !!! - so I’m happy with that compromise though sometimes I yearn to be set free again but would never go behind her back with any part of being a part time girl lol
I wonder how you could bring this back. I once had a fiancé who said the same thing about me making her feel like a lesbian. I always wanted to sleep in one of her nighties and she said she felt like she was in bed with another girl. I loved when she said that. The problem was she didn't like me expressing my feminine side. I never wear a wig,they get too warm in the summer. Fortunately I'm not balding so I keep my natural hair long and style it. That might be a option for you. Another way to go is as a gender sissy, that is, dressing in a feminine manner but still showing that you are male. Some gay couples do this where the "bottom" partner likes to cross dress and be the "sissy" without fully transforming to a female persona.
Well she doesn’t seem to mind if I now and the wear a bra ( usually at the weekends ) and some make up etc but only inside and full make up and fem clothes if we having a karaoke session . We chat about clothes etc and can be outspoken so if she didn’t like or want me to do it she would defo say . I doubt we will ever be out again in public , think she is too concerned about bumping into anyone as we stay in small town - I loved it and driving in heels is tricky to start but as always have to take her feelings into consideration. As it must be confusing and difficult for a woman which I totally understand , she says she is fine with it all as long as it doesn’t take over me so again that’s back to her thinking she is married to another woman . She is a difficult person in regards to sexual things - in most respects she is very vanilla and old fashioned and isn’t kinky at all I’d say but her past says otherwise which I just can’t work out - she has never played with herself or watched porn but let her boss fuck her and another guy was using her arse whist in a relationship with her last partner and cheated on the same guy with someone else hence why I’m on here to try and get her back into something like that where we could combine the crossdressing and being shared - very contradictory person
i hope so bad i become the slutwife for a older dominant man in the future,but i can,t found that man,is it because of me?I always thought men would like sexy lingerie&high heels on a obedient gurl
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It sounds like she takes more than she gives and you give more than you take.
Yes I think that sometimes too - I know it’s hard for a woman especially one that seems to be so vanilla to have there husband and man wearing womens stuff but her take on it is - it’s in you to do it . Sometimes she will take the lead and say - let’s have a look at the bras - see if any nice ones in etc so I just can’t work her out
I once had a fiancée who was the same way. She was only luke warm about it and would flip flop a lot. She cheated on me a lot and I kind of thought that it was because of my crossdressing but back then I wasn't ready for cuckolding. Instead I got jealous and was afraid I would loose her,which I did. If I was more accepting of her having other boyfriends maybe we could have had a good cuckold marriage.
Yes I’m hoping things will turn that way for me -
Thanks I’m not sure how it will go - we’ve had a few discussions about cucking me mostly she’s disgusted but when I first mentioned anything she replied - you want to share me ? - a light went on - why did she know it was called that ? . And she’s already said she doesn’t see me as a real man - anyhoo I really wish I’d have started dressing up with my ex as she was very open minded but didn’t work out , anyhoo looked this morning and autumn fashions are coming so whoo hoo so many nice fem things to buy 👠
How do you find wearing the jeans and does your wife pick them ? . As a crossdresser I usually like skirts and dresses but wear leggings too - is there much difference in the fit compared to mens skinny leg jeans ? . Don’t your suspender straps show with jeans on or is that part of your wife’s plans for you ? . Does she ever get you to wear some make up or make you up herself for some extra femme shaming ?
I love autum fashons. All the new leather clothing comes out and I love leather, It's so sexy. I have a leather fetish. When she said: "you want to share me?" I would have replied " Well you said you don't consider me a man and I want you to have fulfillment and the freedom of being with other guys. I will give you support and love and anything else you ask of me just allow me to be myself and express my feminine side. You can have the best of both worlds." I had a girlfriend once who was only luke warm about my crossdressing but at least with me, when I am dressed I'm also submissive. So I started acting as her servant and showing her that she had a lot to gain. She liked that I did all her chores and she loved all the foot rubs and personal attention I gave her. She noticed that when I was in the clothes I enjoyed, that my personality changed to a loving submissive boyfriend who would never give her a problem. She was without a masculine guy and a virile counterpart but that's where cuckolding comes in. She could go out on dates with guys while I stayed home waiting for her return.
We were clothes shopping at a well known store in the UK, Marks and Spencers, she looked at ladies jeans me mens, then going over to her she held up a pair of jeans and said. what do you think of these?? well they were jeans, but expensive ones so i suggested she try them one, she replied i was not thinking about them for me..............
So it was we stood at the queue for the changing room she with those jeans, me with a pair of mens i didnt want anyway, as we reached the assistant she asked if we could both try them on together, she agreed.
It was already a strange feeling for me as i was in mens jeans but wearing suspenders, i found it even strangers as my wife, yep my wife watched as i pulled up a pair of womens tight jeans, she looked at my ass and said; yes they are lovely, such a pert bottom i like them.
So we/she bought me two pairs.
I have never worn a skirt or leggings, she would not allow it and as a tomboy prefers jeans herself anyway,
Womens jeans are more flexable, comfortable and lighter to wear and tighter than mens, they shape the ass miles better than mens and are tighter all round. The downside is the pockets are crap and wearing a cage it bulges as they arent designed for a frontage and i am sure people think i am gay wearing these but i am not.
She has never been a makeup person so no its not something she is ever likely to want me to do either. I am fine with this.
It hasnt escaped my attention though that aged 16 she used to wear tight jeans and occasionally suspenders underneath for my pleasure, straps which were visable, the first pair of jeans she bought me are very simular to those she wore at 16, style, colour, tightness and pattern on the pockets and she likes me wearing suspenders under them as i first enjoyed when she was 16. Is this a message?
She has since bought me numerous pairs, i dont wear mens unless i have to, ( i own one pair) she says the straps are not that visable, strangely exactly as i used to say to her, but i knew differently then and suspect she knows yes they are visable and gets a kink out of me wearing female jeans, as i do too.
Wearing womens jeans is now the norm for me, wearing suspenders underneath remains a treat.
Bizarrely if i ask her to wear suspenders under her jeans now, she normally choses mens jeans to wear, so i am in womens and she in mens. No wonder i am confused.
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Not so much women’s clothing, but she has a couple regulars that when they peel her panties off will toss them to me and tell me to put them on while they fuck her.
Confused but happy. When she says the suspenders don't show much I'll bet when you are out wearing them you feel like there totally visible to everyone. Do you wear socks to cover up your stockings or do you let them show so people can get a peek and wonder?
Ah that is interesting as I don’t feel submissive when dressed and Also I feel my wife is actually quite masculine in some respects too . I just love womens stuff and all that goes with it really lol
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