I had an older post from last year about this time about the Mrs and the fun she was having texting and having some naughty fun with a guy on the other side of the country. At that time she had no intention of taking it any further than just some virtual fun.
Last December, after the first guy’s situation changed, I hooked her up with a guy that lives a bit closer and he’s much more in tune and more to her visual liking (if you know what I mean) with her than number one was. So much so, she went out and bought a couple of Bluetooth toys so he could control them while they played. They text almost every day and have gotten to know one another to the point where she has complete trust in him that he’s genuine and authentic. She doesn’t withhold sex from me, in fact it’s gotten hotter for us and I think she’s realizing (finally) that this isn’t some ploy or that I have an ulterior motives. All I want is for her to experience others and be able to come home to a loving husband and a great home life. Her sex drive is through the roof and has been all her life, even though she tried suppressing it up until a year or so ago.
After some serious conversations every now and then in and out of the bedroom, she hasn’t ruled out meeting this guy. I still message with him without her knowledge and some of the things they’ve said about meeting are beyond hot. She went from not being interested in anything real life to considering it and now she’s self-admittedly on the fence but leaning towards spending a few hours with him alone. I’m not worried as he is married and isn’t interested in changing his situation or ours…and neither is my wife.
Shes even gone as far as checking into different hotels in his area and bought some lingerie but won’t wear it because “it’s for him silly”.
The problem we’ve run into is time and distance. He’s about a 12 hour drive away and our summer schedule is completely full with other things for us (family time, work, events to go to, etc).
She wants him pretty badly I think and I’m at a crossroads about how to take her temperature about finding a different friend with benefits that lives much closer to us. I’m a bit afraid she will bail on this whole idea if I raise the subject.
Any advice or thoughts?
Last December, after the first guy’s situation changed, I hooked her up with a guy that lives a bit closer and he’s much more in tune and more to her visual liking (if you know what I mean) with her than number one was. So much so, she went out and bought a couple of Bluetooth toys so he could control them while they played. They text almost every day and have gotten to know one another to the point where she has complete trust in him that he’s genuine and authentic. She doesn’t withhold sex from me, in fact it’s gotten hotter for us and I think she’s realizing (finally) that this isn’t some ploy or that I have an ulterior motives. All I want is for her to experience others and be able to come home to a loving husband and a great home life. Her sex drive is through the roof and has been all her life, even though she tried suppressing it up until a year or so ago.
After some serious conversations every now and then in and out of the bedroom, she hasn’t ruled out meeting this guy. I still message with him without her knowledge and some of the things they’ve said about meeting are beyond hot. She went from not being interested in anything real life to considering it and now she’s self-admittedly on the fence but leaning towards spending a few hours with him alone. I’m not worried as he is married and isn’t interested in changing his situation or ours…and neither is my wife.
Shes even gone as far as checking into different hotels in his area and bought some lingerie but won’t wear it because “it’s for him silly”.
The problem we’ve run into is time and distance. He’s about a 12 hour drive away and our summer schedule is completely full with other things for us (family time, work, events to go to, etc).
She wants him pretty badly I think and I’m at a crossroads about how to take her temperature about finding a different friend with benefits that lives much closer to us. I’m a bit afraid she will bail on this whole idea if I raise the subject.
Any advice or thoughts?