Appropriate punishment to husband's transgressions

[Couple4MFM]

For background information, my husband is not permitted to self-pleasure himself with my express consent and permission. He must ask and then is only allowed to touch himself as much or little as I allow. He is also only allowed to cum in his hand and then to lick all of his cum up and he is not permitted to cum anywhere else while masturbating. I have rules for my boyfriend as well in this regard, but I do permit him a little more leeway since he is much younger.

Both my husband and boyfriend seem to be obsessed with touching themselves and playing with themselves. They both know my rules but seem to flagrantly push the limits. I returned home from a visit to my family yesterday and found they had been using hand and bath towels to cum on to clean up after themselves. In the past, I have put them in chastity cages so they can't touch themselves, I have denied them sex, I have spanked them, I have done almost everything I can think of to stop this male behavior but with no success.

So, my question here is, has anybody been able to find a suitable punishment that controls their instincts to play with themselves when not given permission? I am thinking something with aspects of humiliation might work but don't know and looking for suggestions from others who might have found a solution to this problem.

Last night I put them both in cock cages and locked them up. They have been naked and caged since 4 PM yesterday.

 

[btweets]

The kicking is out for us by mutual agreement. But, spankings are a fun enjoyment during sex or foreplay and also are an effective punishment that we do incorporate often.



No castration, but having a bull over who can have me anytime any way he desires is something we do regularly. I think it provides for a mild form of humiliation to the guys, but it also seems to arouse them to watch and only causes more masturbation when they are uncaged.

They have both been caged since Wednesday afternoon and they both are really feeling it now. They both tried to bargain and plead their way out of chastity today and promise to behave. But, I told them both they will remain caged through SuperBowl weekend at the minimum.



LOL - poor baby! I wish you were nearby, I would invite you to be our male stud for our party. As of Saturday night, I have eleven ladies who have said they will be here for a Super Bowl party. We have decided this year to do a lingerie sleepover. One of the girls also has a very hot male dancer friend who is Latin and he is going to put on a halftime dance for us. This is going to be a lot of fun for all of us.

Oh how I wish I were closer too!! Eespecially because I’ve actually been propositioned more than once by a talent scout from Chippendales! And also from a few people that owned their own stripper service, including one that wanted me to dance for men!!!! 😱😱😱 And then there’s this.. I’ve literally been asked if I would be interested in being a male escort!!! LOL!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I never accepted any offers!!! 😆 The only thing I am guilty of, is happily giving free (fully clothed) lap dances, to the occasional Birthday girl or Bachelorette and their friends, while out at a dance club!! Being that I do in fact dance like a male stripper, and once I’ve been spotted, I’ve lost count of how many times that I’ve been asked to do a lap dance for the special girl! It’s all in good fun and I really love making their night out, a fun time!!! 🕺🕺🕺🕺😂🤣😂🤣 However in the case of your party, I’d gladly strip down and give a real show!! 😁

 

[Couple4MFM]

I love, love, love a man in sheer panties. Thanks for sharing, @shymalea

I will be happy to share more with you….

I hope you are not teasing me I would love to see much more of you.

 

[Couple4MFM]

Oh how I wish I were closer too!! Eespecially because I’ve actually been propositioned more than once by a talent scout from Chippendales! And also from a few people that owned their own stripper service, including one that wanted me to dance for men!!!! 😱😱😱 And then there’s this.. I’ve literally been asked if I would be interested in being a male escort!!! LOL!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I never accepted any offers!!! 😆 The only thing I am guilty of, is happily giving free (fully clothed) lap dances, to the occasional Birthday girl or Bachelorette and their friends, while out at a dance club!! Being that I do in fact dance like a male stripper, and once I’ve been spotted, I’ve lost count of how many times that I’ve been asked to do a lap dance for the special girl! It’s all in good fun and I really love making their night out, a fun time!!! 🕺🕺🕺🕺😂🤣😂🤣 However in the case of your party, I’d gladly strip down and give a real show!! 😁

I have missed out, I would love for you to dance for me on my birthday!

 

[Couple4MFM]

Thank you to both @shymalea and @Bobby75 for your gorgeous pics of you in sexy panties.

I love to have my husband wearing pretty, lacy, and sexy panties. Bulls also seem to enjoy seeing their married hotwife's cuck wearing panties.

Here are a few of my husband from past meetings.

Hotel meet with a new bull in Charlotte, NC.

Hubs was reluctant but followed the bull's directions to pull his pants down.
The bull made him blush when he blurted out, "Holy Shit, I might have to fuck both of you tonight.​

Bull directs hubby to turn around and how his clit.

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Another hotel meet with a bull this time in Phoenix, AZ. I dressed my husband in yellow lace boyshorts panties and then when after the very dominant and ALPHA bull was there, I told him to look and see why I needed a BIG, hard cock.







And this year, I invited a regular bull over to the house at Christmas and told him I had a special surprise for him. I bought these for hubby and gave my husband's ass to my bull for the night.

 

[ep46wksp]

The kicking is out for us by mutual agreement. But, spankings are a fun enjoyment during sex or foreplay and also are an effective punishment that we do incorporate often.



No castration, but having a bull over who can have me anytime any way he desires is something we do regularly. I think it provides for a mild form of humiliation to the guys, but it also seems to arouse them to watch and only causes more masturbation when they are uncaged.

They have both been caged since Wednesday afternoon and they both are really feeling it now. They both tried to bargain and plead their way out of chastity today and promise to behave. But, I told them both they will remain caged through SuperBowl weekend at the minimum.



LOL - poor baby! I wish you were nearby, I would invite you to be our male stud for our party. As of Saturday night, I have eleven ladies who have said they will be here for a Super Bowl party. We have decided this year to do a lingerie sleepover. One of the girls also has a very hot male dancer friend who is Latin and he is going to put on a halftime dance for us. This is going to be a lot of fun for all of us.

I hope you post an update with pics of what you decide to do

 

[gorace38]

I found two sheer lace maids outfits online, they are black lace with the white lace and I also picked up two pairs of back wife fishnet thigh highs. They are supposed to be delivered this Saturday. After they arrive, I will try to invite six of my girlfriends over for an evening cocktail party before I go to Denver for work on the 15th. Might make for a good Valentine's weekend party.

A fantasy of mine to have the wife dress me in a maids outfit and hose and serve her and her girlfriends.

 

[jw_kk]

Controlling chronic masturbation in a male can be a challenge, more so preventing uncontrolled or un-permitted ejaculation.

Stopping short of more extreme techniques, like ball-kicking, there are some psychological/physiological approaches that may lead to the desired behavior.

Chastity cages are one approach, which prevent chronic masturbators from stimulating themselves completely. There is one form of cage, common name is something like “The Turtle,” that is effective in male training because it addresses the physiological and psychological aspects of failure to follow the rules.

“The Turtle” is a tubular, or tapered, slightly conical shaped cock cage that leaves the glans exposed, while covering the shaft of the cock, locking around the base of the cock and balls. These can be had as off-the-shelf devices, or custom-made for a particular wearer’s cock.

The device forces the cock to be more or less perpendicular to the wearer’s body. The “neck” of the Turtle fits fairly tightly below the glans, just behind the coronal ridge, covering the shaft from the frenulum down to the locking cock ring.

Because the glans is exposed, there is still sensation. If the wearer becomes erect, the tube portion prevents engorgement of the cock shaft, forcing the glans to swell and become engorged. Sufficient stimulation produces extraordinary discomfort, because the glans is so engorged it stretches the skin. There are also variations of the Turtle that implement spikes at the opening near the glans - I’ve seen versions that use small, “pyramid” shape spikes, as well as variants that use more traditional cone or similar shaped spikes. The former tend not to penetrate the wearer’s skin, the latter can penetrate during engorgement. The pain associated with that conditions the wearer to control his own level of stimulation to prevent full arousal, as well as discourage ejaculation.

The exposed glans, and the position in which the cock is restrained also cause friction against clothing. A particularly effective combination uses the Turtle, nylon, silk, or satin briefs or panties on the caged male, and tight clothing, like jeans, to increase the friction between the exposed glans and undergarment. Eventually, though counter-intuitive, this causes desensitization of the glans due to the constant friction. It also produces a sense of extraordinary psychological discomfort.

Other devices for gaining control are forms of cock-cages that implement a urethral stopper, or sound. They’re often called penis-plugs. Some have locking features, like a base ring that prevent the wearer from removing them.

The plug, or sound portions vary in length, urethral penetration depth, curvature, diameter, and shape - some are short bulb or cone-shaped devices that penetrate a few millimeters, others are much longer, with multiple bulbs or “beads.” These don’t prevent the wearer from ejaculating, but they result in a form of retrograde ejaculation, from partial to complete, which in turn discourages or severely impairs the ejaculatory response.

It sounds like you have two partners to control. You might use humiliation techniques that blend these devices for your amusement. Force them to masturbate one another while caged, as you watch. Force them to edge while watching you. There are dozens of variations on these torment, teasing, denial and humiliation techniques that will bring your males into total submission.

 

[shymalea]

I love, love, love a man in sheer panties. Thanks for sharing, @shymalea



I hope you are not teasing me I would love to see much more of you.

 

[Couple4MFM]

Controlling chronic masturbation in a male can be a challenge, more so preventing uncontrolled or un-permitted ejaculation.

Stopping short of more extreme techniques, like ball-kicking, there are some psychological/physiological approaches that may lead to the desired behavior.

Chastity cages are one approach, which prevent chronic masturbators from stimulating themselves completely. There is one form of cage, common name is something like “The Turtle,” that is effective in male training because it addresses the physiological and psychological aspects of failure to follow the rules.

“The Turtle” is a tubular, or tapered, slightly conical shaped cock cage that leaves the glans exposed, while covering the shaft of the cock, locking around the base of the cock and balls. These can be had as off-the-shelf devices, or custom-made for a particular wearer’s cock.

The device forces the cock to be more or less perpendicular to the wearer’s body. The “neck” of the Turtle fits fairly tightly below the glans, just behind the coronal ridge, covering the shaft from the frenulum down to the locking cock ring.

Because the glans is exposed, there is still sensation. If the wearer becomes erect, the tube portion prevents engorgement of the cock shaft, forcing the glans to swell and become engorged. Sufficient stimulation produces extraordinary discomfort, because the glans is so engorged it stretches the skin. There are also variations of the Turtle that implement spikes at the opening near the glans - I’ve seen versions that use small, “pyramid” shape spikes, as well as variants that use more traditional cone or similar shaped spikes. The former tend not to penetrate the wearer’s skin, the latter can penetrate during engorgement. The pain associated with that conditions the wearer to control his own level of stimulation to prevent full arousal, as well as discourage ejaculation.

The exposed glans, and the position in which the cock is restrained also cause friction against clothing. A particularly effective combination uses the Turtle, nylon, silk, or satin briefs or panties on the caged male, and tight clothing, like jeans, to increase the friction between the exposed glans and undergarment. Eventually, though counter-intuitive, this causes desensitization of the glans due to the constant friction. It also produces a sense of extraordinary psychological discomfort.

Other devices for gaining control are forms of cock-cages that implement a urethral stopper, or sound. They’re often called penis-plugs. Some have locking features, like a base ring that prevent the wearer from removing them.

The plug, or sound portions vary in length, urethral penetration depth, curvature, diameter, and shape - some are short bulb or cone-shaped devices that penetrate a few millimeters, others are much longer, with multiple bulbs or “beads.” These don’t prevent the wearer from ejaculating, but they result in a form of retrograde ejaculation, from partial to complete, which in turn discourages or severely impairs the ejaculatory response.

It sounds like you have two partners to control. You might use humiliation techniques that blend these devices for your amusement. Force them to masturbate one another while caged, as you watch. Force them to edge while watching you. There are dozens of variations on these torment, teasing, denial and humiliation techniques that will bring your males into total submission.

This is really great information and I appreciate your post and information on the Turtle cock cage. I have searched for the models you mention but have found several that I think might work well with the same concept. I think they bot are ansy today being caged and kept naked. They have not put clothing on or been out of their cages since Wednesday afternoon.

 

[Couple4MFM]

I am working from home all this week before I have to head out on my next business trip to Denver, CO on Monday next week. It has been a good week for me to punish my men before I leave and they are not supervised. Today, I had meetings that ended at 12:30 and I had until 3 PM free before my next call.

I called one of my bulls and asked if he could come over and take care of me. He was able to move some things around on his schedule and he got to our house around 12:20 with the rest of his afternoon free. This guy has an 8" cock and he can stay hard and go multiple times, delivering huge loads of cum each time. He is not really into my men watching us, and if he does allow them to watch, he insists they remain fully dressed.

He arrived to find both guys naked and locked in cages, so he waited for me to end my call while he teased the guys about their predicament and the fact that with me having two men living in the house, I had to call him to come over and take care of me. Neither of my guys really likes this bull, he is arrogant and very dominant. So, I really enjoyed their torment.

My guys know I love this man's big dick so when I do have him over, they usually leave. But, today I insisted they stay and watch as I was brought to several orgasms. It was great to see the anguish on their sad faces. I started off sucking my bull off and taking his first load of cum in my mouth but also made sure to get my face covered. My bull went down on me and after a few minutes, he got inside me and fucked me hard as deep as he could. I had several climaxes before my bull gave me his load. We lay together and the cum on my face was drying. I could see the grimace on my boyfriend's face when I asked my bull if he would please fuck me in the ass before I had to get on my next call. My bull did not disappoint me and he took my ass. He is really too large for my ass, but I wanted my cucks to clean me after he was done so I took one for the team.

It was 2:20 when my bull shot his last load, deep in my ass. I told both my cucks to clean his cock and balls before he got up, and I instructed them to clean his shaft, his balls, and his ass crack to ensure he did not have anything on him. My bull loved their humiliation and let them clean him telling them about spots they missed. Then, as my husband cleaned my face, I sat over my boyfriend and he cleaned my ass. I let my husband start on my pussy as I still straddled my boyfriend and demanded he continues his cleaning. Finally, at two minutes until 3, I got up and put a shirt on, grabbed a towel to sit on, and went back to get on my last call. I sat in the living room, naked from the waist down, and made my cucks kneel under the table and continue to clean my pussy as I was on the call.

My boyfriend told me the punishment was harsh and unwarranted once I was off my call. So, he is sleeping on the floor tonight and he also got a pretty hard spanking. He apologized and promises to not touch himself once he is released.

Little do either of my cucks know, but my bull is coming over Sunday for our Superbowl party and he is going to fuck me in front of my friends and they will once again be required to clean us both while my friend's watch. I fly out at 6:50 AM on Monday after SuperBowl. I know if I uncage them before leaving they will fuck each other and jack off. So, I am considering leaving them caged until I return on the 20th.

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[Jagman1957]

If they want to jerk off so badly. Make them jerk each other off into the other guys hand, and then clean their cum off the other guys hand...

 

[Couple4MFM]

I arrived home from Denver and un-caged both my husband and boyfriend. They had been caged for over twenty days and they both had instant erections as the cage came off. I was very horny and wanted them both, but knew they would both cum incredibly fast and I would be left still wanting. So, I told them I did not want their stale old built-up cum loads and I needed more than a three-pump chump. I told them to suck each other off and not make any mess unless they both want to be caged again. My boyfriend got over my husband in a 69 and within seconds they both were struggling to swallow each other's loads.

They both showered and I kept them naked and then a few hours later we all three had some good sex.

I think the Super Bowl party left them both highly aroused and super horny. My girlfriends all did a great job of teasing them and humiliating them. They both looked so cute in their frilly little french maid outfits with their butts and caged cock open to everyone.

I know I had so much fun that night. I loved the outfits and told them they will have to wear them again for me. I told them we should plan a vacation and they can wear their outfits and wait on me and serve me and a bull.

 

[Couple4MFM]

try putting them both in a Humbler.

I loved this and just ordered this item on Amazon. Can't wait for it to get here.




This will be fun to watch him squirm with this.

 

[keylife022]

I loved this and just ordered this item on Amazon. Can't wait for it to get here.


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This will be fun to watch him squirm with this.

Isn’t Amazon great?

 

[owlcuck]

Isn’t Amazon great?

They have a nice collection of dildos too.

 

[Couple4MFM]

I ordered this and it will arrive tomorrow. I think this will be awesome for punishment and roleplay. I think it also will provile the perfect position for me to peg him. I also ordered one for my boyfriend, I can't wait to have them side by side in these.

 

[dickhurtz]

i would have been happy to serve you ladies in any way you demanded. now, i wish i'd never left Tampa.

i would, also, love having a wife like you.

 

[zaya]

очень здорово но клетка намного лудше.